"Tick-tock, tick-tock..." This year's autumn rain came earlier than in previous years, maybe because it has passed the Beginning of Autumn. I sat on the tatami and listened to the rain outside the window, feeling a little desolate and touching the autumn rain.
, the cool rain on my fingertips makes the summer heat fade away.
It is said that "autumn rain brings coolness," right? Autumn is really cool. I don't know if it is exaggerated by those literati, which makes people subconsciously feel a little bit more disappointed.
As time goes by, my friends start to get married and have children. Sometimes I wonder what makes them bow their heads to society. When I chat with my friends, I find that sometimes I don’t even know why I get married.
I feel that my friends around me are starting to get married and have children, so it’s time to get married. Isn’t it? This scene is like our eight famous Chinese sayings, “For your own good, just get used to it. It’s not easy. You are still a child. You are older.”
"Come, come, come, celebrate the New Year, everyone is dead" has blocked some things, and these eight sentences have been instilled in us since we were young.
I met a person a few days ago and found that he has a slight similarity with me, that is, he pursues his own outlook on life. He is married. When I learned the news, I was very surprised. What surprised me was why he chose
Bowing to reality. He said, I don’t know why I got married. Looking back now, I feel a little regretful. The terrible thing about letting myself get married is that now I have a child, and the child is in the second grade of elementary school. I feel a little uncomfortable.
I don’t know why I chose to get married and have children in the first place. Maybe it’s almost time, when the time comes!
Do you still remember what I said before? When we come to this world, it seems that we are squares, and are slowly being rounded by this world. He said that he is now rounded into a semicircle by this world, and he cannot imagine that one day he will become a circle.
What is it like? Now he is no longer free and unrestrained, and is much more depressed. I am very lucky that I have been doing things that I like my whole life.
This reminds me of a passage written in an essay on February 18, 2019:
It is said that at what age you have to make certain decisions. In fact, how much positive energy each person shows, how much negative energy they consume behind them. Everyone's life trajectory is different, and their goals in life are also different. In this life of a person
The saddest thing is to spend a lot of time thinking about what kind of person you are in other people's mouths. In fact, it is not necessary. Everyone lives a happy and satisfied life in their own world. Not everything is the same.
It's so perfect, maybe if you miss something, this world will open up another world for you. The recent variety show "My Girl" talked about many philosophical issues in life, and I don't comment on any of them. Everyone hopes that their life will be perfect.
But not all people are perfect when they make the decisions they should make, nor does it mean that the missing part means unhappiness, or it may be another kind of happiness. All children in the world will be grateful to their parents for their upbringing, and so will all parents in the world.
I hope that my children will be happy. No matter from my own point of view or from the perspective of my parents, they can live freely and happily. No matter what decision I make, others will support me! It doesn’t matter even if others don’t support me. After all, my own life is my own.
Make the decision. What’s more, no one is perfect and the perspectives are even different.