The groom had made up his mind and drove away in his friend's car. Everyone present looked confused. What the hell was going on?
"My mother-in-law, please call me quickly and ask where he is. The wedding has to be completed. All my relatives and friends have come to see me off. I can't afford to be embarrassed if this gets out!" said the bride's father.
In fact, people nowadays are very stressed, and everyone's ability to withstand stress is also very strong. But there is a limit to everything. This groom probably endured it again and again. He already had grievances from the time of the bride price, and he was mainly not rich.
The family gave out a bride price of 100,000 yuan. Many people said that the woman did this deliberately to test whether the man really loved her. It is said that the 100,000 yuan gift is considered small now.
But many girls have never thought about it. The house price in an ordinary third- and fourth-tier urban area is 7,000 to 8,000 yuan. Even in some third- and fourth-tier coastal cities, the house price is 1,561 square meters. The down payment for a house requires hundreds of thousands.
Then decoration and furniture purchase also cost money. Calculated based on an ordinary family of three, the parents’ income is calculated as 3,000 per month for one person, and 6,000 per month for two people. This is basically the approximate income of ordinary people. Excluding eating, drinking, and eating, they save money.
If you spend a month frugally, you can have 4,000 left. This depends on whether your parents have a mortgage. If your parents also have a mortgage, you will have to pay 2,000 per month in addition to the principal and interest of the early purchase of the house.
Such a family only has a savings of 2,000. Within these 2,000, you can't guarantee that there will be no weddings and funerals every month, or if you feel unwell and go to the hospital. After calculation, it would be good to have a savings of 1,000 a month. Your child has graduated from college.
, the general salary in January is basically three to five thousand, we take the average salary of four thousand.
Young people have a lot of entertainment and have different consumption concepts. They like to spend ahead of schedule. If they can save one or two thousand a month, it will be great. Most of them can't save a penny. Let's consider it as a savings of one thousand a month.
, plus the parents’ 1,000 yuan, the family’s annual savings is only 24,000 yuan.
Nowadays, when buying a house in many cities, you have to bundle a parking space. If you don’t buy a car space, you won’t be able to buy a new house. A car space costs more than 100,000 yuan. This money must be paid in one lump sum. Then for a 100-square-meter house, we will pay 10,000 to 10,000 yuan.
Calculated by square meter, it would be one million, with a minimum down payment of 20%, which would cost two hundred thousand, and the monthly interest would be about four thousand.
Do the math, how difficult it is for an ordinary family to buy a suite. This does not include the cost of subsequent decoration. The decoration cost for the simplest decoration is 100,000.
Some people say that instead of buying a new house, you can buy a second-hand house instead of a parking space. However, second-hand houses have high down payment, average environment, and high interest rates. The interest rates of new houses and second-hand houses are also different in some areas. The most important thing is that second-hand houses are better than off-plan houses.
It’s expensive. Let’s consider it 100 square meters and pay a down payment of 300,000.
Think about it, a family has to borrow money from relatives and friends to make a down payment, borrowing money from here and there, and then paying off the mortgage every month. There is basically no savings left to save. Do you think this average is a bit low? For a family of three, one month
Income 10,000?
In fact, this is the income of most families, that is, the family income increases by 2,000, and a family of three earns 12,000 a month. It is too difficult to buy a house without primitive accumulation.
When talking about bride price, in fact, when ordinary families get married, their pockets are often the emptiest. It’s not that the man cares about everything, it’s just that he is really short of money and is so shy that he has to wait for the money he receives to pay off the debt.
If you meet a reasonable woman, she will allow you to use the money to pay off your debt. If you meet an unreasonable woman, she will take the money directly. In the end, the man's family will have to repay the money.
So don’t test how much a man loves you. If he can marry you, he is basically just trying to live a happy life. This kind of ordinary family is the majority of families. Many things are more cruel than we imagine. Just as so many people find it difficult to
I believe there are one billion people in our country who have never flown a plane.
Of the remaining 400 million people, more than 380 million of them, many of them take flights to work abroad, and some take a flight for company-organized trips. There are probably only 20 million people who actually take flights every now and then for business trips.
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More people would not think that there are 500 million people in our country who have never used a toilet. These data are telling us a message. Most of us are not rich. It is often said that there are as many doctors as dogs everywhere, but few people will.
Isn’t it incredible to know that 4.43% of the total population in our country has a bachelor’s degree?
The world that most people understand is actually not the same world as the real world.
What do you want to say here? I just want to say that most girls have no idea what buying a house means to an ordinary family, let alone that an ordinary family is poorer than they think.
They ask for a bride price of more than 100,000 yuan, and the man's income must be at least 10,000 yuan a month, and he must not be too ugly or short. They have no idea that if they earn more than 5,000 yuan a month, they will defeat 80% of the people.
No one would dare to believe these data. The average input in various places is not low? That is because people have averaged the wealth of the rich with everyone, such as me, Jack Ma, Xiao Ma, Wang Yiyi, Rebus,
The combined wealth of the five of us exceeds that of Bill Gates. Can you tell me how much money I have?
Today's society is oppressive and makes many people breathless. Some people are unwilling to accept the status quo and choose to try hard to change. Some people choose to accept their fate. But all this comes from pressure. We have to admit that pressure is invisible and intangible.
, but it may overwhelm everything. Once it breaks out, it will be a complete explosion.
For example, this groom didn't really want to stop getting married, but he was pressured again and again. In the end, the bride's drop-off fee completely broke his last endurance. He chose to give up getting married. Then he really gave up.
It's useless what you say at this time. Many times, people may just need an understanding and a hug.
Especially men. The social perception in China is that men need to own a house and a car to get married. When you see the above data, you will find that these are really too difficult and require too much effort. The saddest thing is that the more men get married, the more they need to own a house and a car.
When they arrived in Dai Viet, they became silent because they knew that you cannot share and talk about this pressure with others. The way for men to relieve stress is actually very simple. Just be alone, smoke a cigarette and drink a glass of wine.
Just like many people nowadays like to stay up late. In fact, that time at night is completely their own. Don't put on a mask. Chen Shi looked at the bride and actually got into a fight with her girlfriends.
At this time, she may have realized the seriousness of the matter. What was originally the happiest day in her life turned into the most unforgettable day in her life. The groom's phone was turned off. Chen Shi knew that she might just want to find someone with no one.
Stay somewhere and cry.
The groom may not be angry with the bride for asking for the exit fee, but may be angry with the bride for not understanding it.
