Days have to go on, and the Zhou family cannot put down other things that need to be done just because Zhou Bingkun is disobedient.
In this era, it is not easy to leave home and return home. Many people, like Zhou Zhigang, have been unable to return home for several years.
Zhou Zhigang came back this time and brought a lot of things. The big and small bags combined took up more space than people. Many of them were entrusted by others and brought back, and he had to deliver them to each house. Zhou Bingyi also had the same task.
After all the tasks were completed, Zhou's mother had the opportunity to mention Zhou Bingkun again.
Zhou Zhigang said impatiently: "Didn't I tell you? Don't ask anything about him from me in the future, just think that I don't have him as a son."
Mother Zhou opened her mouth, but nothing came out.
She sympathized with Zhou Zhigang's hard work and did not go home for several years, and did not want him to worry about these things.
But what should we do about our son?
After the quarrel that day, Zhou Bingkun never showed up, and she had no way to persuade Zhou Bingkun to bow to Zhou Zhigang.
We can't really cut off contact with Zhou Bingkun, his son, as Zhou Zhigang said.
No one can solve Zhou's mother Li Suhua's troubles.
But Zhou Bingyi kept it in mind and found a solution, which was to persuade Zhou Bingkun to bow his head.
In fact, after talking to his family, Zhou Bingkun lived more comfortably.
His golden finger is not omnipotent, especially when facing Zhou's mother, it is very powerless. He may be able to deceive Zhou's mother a few times with lies, but he cannot always deceive her.
Zhou's mother was the kind of person who wanted to care about every detail. She gave all her love to her three children to Zhou Bingkun. This kind of love put a lot of pressure on Zhou Bingkun.
Zheng Juan's character is more suitable for Zhou Bingkun. She won't ask what Zhou Bingkun is doing, and always supports Zhou Bingkun silently.
The things Zhou Bingkun took back from Zheng Juan's house had long exceeded his salary. Zheng Juan never asked once, she just helped him hide them and tried not to let others discover them.
Zhou Bingkun had already expected the consequences of telling the story about Zheng Juan in the Zhou family. Now when he returns to the Zhou family, he must either succumb to Zhou Zhigang's will or have another quarrel with his family. There is no other choice.
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So during this period, Zhou Bingkun did not return to Zhou's home.
Zhou Bingyi came over as expected.
Zhou Bingkun did not choose to talk to Zhou Bingyi about this matter at home, but took him for a walk outside.
"Bingkun, I think you should abide by three principles when it comes to dating. You should be responsible for yourself, the other person, and your family, mainly your parents. Which of these three points do you think you have achieved?"
Zhou Bingkun did not answer directly, but asked: "What do you think I failed to do?"
Zhou Bingyi said: "You haven't done anything. It is true that Zheng Juan did not deceive you. But even so, are you responsible for yourself and the other party? What ability do you have to do this?"
"Why am I not capable of doing this? Am I not doing enough now? You have also seen that my and Zheng Juan's children are already one year old. My family is also very happy and will be even happier in the future. What you said
Two lines are simply untenable."
Zhou Bingyi is an idealistic person, and the two things he just mentioned were just the reasons he had planned to convince Zhou Bingkun before he came. But when he met Zheng Juan's house, he knew that these two points should not be said at all.
The reason why he said it was his principle.
"So what about the third one? Your parents are mainly responsible for both families. Do you think you have done that? Have you considered the feelings of our parents?"
Of course Zhou Bingkun has considered it, but if Zhou Zhigang's plan is followed, what else can he do in this life?
"Then I want to ask you, do you think the decision our dad made for me with his half-life experience is the right one? Is what he considers for me really the best path? I must follow the decision he chose for me.
The way to go?"
"Brother, I can tell you clearly now that I have my own life. I don't want or want to follow the path you planned for me."
Zhou Bingyi was stunned by these questions.
To be honest, Zhou Bingyi has never considered a problem from Zhou Bingkun's point of view. His family members have never considered a problem from Zhou Bingkun's point of view.
Because it was really unnecessary before, not only because Zhou Bingkun, the younger brother, was young, but because everyone actually didn’t care about his opinion.
Zhou Bingkun rarely speaks in front of everyone.
This time, Zhou Bingkun's question silenced Zhou Bingyi.
If it were someone else, he might have answered Zhou Bingkun's question immediately. Zhou Bingyi would not. He is good at thinking and would not speak out easily without understanding the whole story.
Obviously, this time the attempt to persuade Zhou Bingkun failed.
Seeing Zhou Bingyi was about to leave, Zhou Bingkun stopped him and said, "Does my father want to sever the relationship with me?"
"You should know our father's temper."
After stopping Zhou Bingyi from continuing, Zhou Bingkun said: "I know, he should have said that without his consent, I can't enter the Zhou family in this life, right?"
Zhou Bingyi nodded.
Zhou Bingkun then said: "Brother, do you know why I asked you to hide it from our mother?"
"Our mother doesn't agree with you marrying Zheng Juan either."
"It's not just this reason. You and I both know our mother's temper. Do you think I won't be able to convince her about marrying Zheng Juan?"
Zhou Bingyi was stopped by Zhou Bingkun's words again. In the past, Zhou Bingkun couldn't even speak clearly. It was very difficult to convince Zhou's mother. But with Zhou Bingkun now, Zhou Bingyi believed that he could do it.
"Our mother's health is not good and she can't stand stimulation. You have also seen the situation at Zheng Juan's house. I have ways to make the family live better. But our mother has a bad temper. As long as I bring more things to the house, she will
I can ask questions here and there."
"As long as there is something unclear, she will become anxious. If she becomes anxious, our mother may suddenly faint. I planned to wait until you come back to talk about it, but what I didn't expect is that you and our father will come back at this time."
When Zhou Bingyi heard that Zhou's mother was in poor health, he felt bad and even hated Zhou Bingkun a little.
"Since you knew that our mother was in poor health, why did you marry Zheng Juan? Why didn't you take her to the hospital for a checkup?"
"It's useless, you can't tell. As long as our mother doesn't worry, there will be no physical problems. The hospital can't detect it either. These should be left over from worrying about you all day long for so many years."
Zhou Bingyi reflected in his heart that since he arrived at the Jiangliao Construction Corps, he rarely went home. Although he often wrote letters, Zhou's mother was illiterate.
"Every time the postman Xiao Zhang passes by our door, his mother will grab him and question him, making him reluctant to pass by our door."
"I say all this to tell you that our mother is in poor health and needs the company of her family. Zheng Juan and I already have children, and it is impossible to divorce according to our father's wishes. Therefore, you and our father need
The consideration is who will stay at home to take care of our mother."
Zhou Bingyi did not doubt what Zhou Bingkun said. After so many years away from home, they had very little communication with Zhou's mother, only some greetings in letters.
After meeting Zhou's mother, everyone was surrounded by an atmosphere of reunion, and no one thought that there would be something wrong with Zhou's mother's health.
