Chapter 184 Congratulations
Hao Nan and Tian Shangguo discussed it and came to Yan's kitchen.
"Comrade Zhong, you are very safe at Yan's family, so we'll go back first." It's not good to have a meal here, "In addition, I wish you and Comrade Yan a happy wedding."
Tian Shangguo nodded, "I wish you a happy wedding with Comrade Yan."
"Thank you." Zhong Yuxiu smiled slightly, her face full of joy.
The two left, but Zhong Yuxiu did not say anything to keep them; they were not Yan's family, and they were uncomfortable staying in the Yan family. She was also uncomfortable when she came to the Yan family, and she was not as good as her own.
I used to hear from the older generation that the married daughter will marry her daughter, and the daughter will return to her parents' home from now on, but not her in-laws' home.
This family is not about not being a husband’s house, but about having no place to rest your mind.
After leaving the home that has lived for more than 20 years, I suddenly fell into a strange family; if my in-laws do not pay attention to it, my husband does not care about it, and my heart has nowhere to rest, it will be a temporary hotel.
After seeing off the two, Zhong Yuxiu shook her head and laughed; she was different, she had her own home, how could she be a guest?
She has a way out.
"What are you thinking?" Yan Rushan walked to her side at some point, gave her a cup of warm water, and asked softly.
Zhong Yuxiu looked up at him and smiled, "I heard from the older generation that a married woman was splashed out of water, and then she was a guest when she went back to her mother's house; if she had a good time at her in-laws, she would be a home. If she had a bad time, she would be a hotel for a temporary stay."
"Why do you say that?" Yan Rushan didn't understand, "It's all children, how could his daughter be a guest when she comes back?"
Zhong Yuxiu took the cup, took a sip and said, "Is this true? If a family has one son and one daughter, and there are many children and many daughters, can a married woman still be like a girl at home when she goes home? There will be differences in some ways; these subtle differences are the most unsettling. If a mother-in-law is not good at being a mother-in-law and cannot match each other's personalities, the husband must be in a dilemma. What about the girl who married into it?"
"What would they think? They are like an outsider, out of touch with their in-laws; this is reality!"
Yan Rushan stared at the person in front of him, "You are worried."
"It's not that you're worried, but you just suddenly feel a little emotional." The smile did not diminish, but Yan Rushan saw the difference between laughter and laughter. "You are not alone, so we won't have such a situation; if you don't want to live in the Yan family, I can live with you in the Zhong family, a small family belonging to us."
It is impossible to move out of the courtyard. First of all, the superiors will not approve it, and secondly, the old man will not let them move out of the courtyard.
Zhong Yuxiu nodded, smiled with spring, and there was joy in her eyes; she opened her mouth firmly, "I know. I have a home, an unbreakable home, so I don't worry."
A married woman with a way out and a married woman without a way out have a completely different mentality.
A married woman with a way out has something to rely on and does not rely on her in-laws to live; a married woman without a ceremonial guard is confused and has suffered from spiritual destruction. It is okay to be able to think about it, but if you can't think about it, you will be depressed for half your life.
"Sit down and warm your body, I'll bring you hot water to soak your hands and feet." He gently kneaded her hands and comforted her silently; Yan Rushan went to the bathroom to get two new basins, one wooden basin and one enamel basin. He brought the hot pot to fill it with hot water, "Is it okay to try the water temperature? The basins are all new and no one has used them."
"Your basin is stocked up?" Yu Xiu was surprised.
Yan Rushan said: "No, it was my mother who prepared it for you specifically. I thought that we were going to get married and they might not be there; I have prepared all the things you want and prepared the betrothal gifts for you. I will send them tomorrow."
Zhong Yuxiu's eyes remained on his face, "Did you have your uncle and aunt prepared your betrothal gift so early?"
"Well, my parents like you very much."
Feel it, thank you!
Yan’s mother likes to write on her face, and she is enthusiastic and thoughtful, which is a kind of sincerity that comes from the heart to the other person.
Zhong Yuxiu didn't answer the conversation, took off her shoes and soaked her feet, and put her hands in an enamel basin. The water in the basin was a little hot, and within the tolerance range, she didn't speak, and her heart was immersed in the careful, considerate, and unrestrained attitude of Yan's parents.
"Yu Xiu, are you angry?" Yan Rushan's eyes were tightened.
"Why do you ask that?"
Yan Rushan said: "My parents cannot come back due to work reasons, nor can they witness our marriage; please forgive me, and they will definitely come back when we hold the wedding."
"I'm an unknown person?" He glanced at him.
Yan Rushan's heart was tingling, and he also liked the little girl who was slightly willful; out of a strong desire to survive, he quickly shook his head.
"No, you definitely aren't; however, before my parents left, I asked me to talk to you alone and asked me to say sorry, we registered for marriage, but they were not here, and they were sorry." They would naturally care about the happy events of their son and daughter-in-law, and their parents were not here.
"I received my uncle and aunt's feelings." In his nervous and uneasy attitude, Zhong Yuxiu said: "What's there to mind about this? In the army, everything obeys the party's arrangements and strictly abides by discipline. What's wrong with them? I understand what they have difficulties. Besides, we are not holding a wedding."
When the wedding was held, there were many people who were not present; if she really couldn't leave the army, she didn't think anything was wrong, but she just didn't calculate the days of both sides, and it wasn't because she was sincere and negligent.
Yan Rushan was really relieved, "I'm sorry for you. We'll hold the wedding when we graduate; then we will invite our classmates, teachers, colleagues and friends to come and have a lively and bustle."
"good."
Zhong Yuxiu nodded, Yan Rushan's handsome face smiled, and stood up and said, "You can soak first, I'll go to the kitchen to cook; when it's done, I'll call you and come and serve me the dishes."
"Success." After she agreed without hesitation, Yan Rushan's smile became more and more obvious, and he turned to the kitchen.
As time passed by minute by minute, the sound of cooking came from the kitchen; the water temperature gradually became colder, Zhong Yuxiu pulled back his hands, lifted his feet and let the water droplets dry naturally, put on socks and shoes. He took the enamel basin and wooden basin into the bathroom and poured out the water, placed it next to him, washed his hands and went straight to the kitchen.
When he opened the kitchen door, Yan Rushan held a spatula in his hand and tied an apron around his waist. Yan Ruhai started to work on his hands, served dishes and seasonings.
"Sister-in-law?! Why are you here?"
"Let's see how your brother cooks." He walked into the kitchen, walked to Yan Rushan, and looked into the wok; the braised pork was suffocated inside, "It's very nice and burnt red; the meat should taste very good."
Yan Rushan lowered his eyes and smiled. Just as he was about to speak, Yan Ruhai took the conversation, "That's not right! I've asked my sister-in-law for my blessing. Today I have a blessing."
"Don't he cook for you at home?" Zhong Yuxiu said, looking up at Yan Rushan with frivolous eyebrows.
"Make it! I treat my grandfather and I as a dish tasting tool. I suspect I have a fake brother." Yan Ruhai looked disgusted, "After he can cook a dish, as long as we are satisfied and feel delicious, he will not make it a second time; he will try to mess with me and my grandfather in a different way."
Chapter completed!