Lin Hai said, and Wang Yu's eyes were already a little red when she heard it. She had quarreled with her parents a lot these days, and she had all the soft and hard things. In fact, she is also a sensible girl and doesn't want to make her parents sad.

"But you have to understand that no matter how many lessons others have, they cannot live your own life on your behalf, and other lessons from others may not be suitable for you. For example, if someone likes to eat candy and thinks that eating sweets will make you happy, this is right, but if another person has diabetes, can he do this?"

"The reason why your parents are worried about you is simply because they don't want you to endure hardships, because they think starting a business is a difficult thing, full of risks and failures. But for you, it is not hard to pay for your dreams, and it is even worth it. The biggest pain is just not living the life you want, and you can clearly choose what you want most but give up."

"Also, you are still a child in their minds and have never done anything that is worth boasting about success, so they do not believe that you can succeed. If you do not fulfill your dreams and prove yourself to them, then you can only say that you will live in their worries and let them live in worries about you for the rest of your life. This will be a permanent pain for you."

Wang Yu was stunned, stunned, obviously thinking about what Lin Hai said.

Lin Hai poured her a glass of water and handed it to her, "If you say you are in your forties now, with old age and young people, then I will definitely advise you to consider the burden of reality and family. But you are young now and have not even graduated from college yet. If you don't try your best to try your dreams now, do you have to wait until you get married and start a career?"

"What you have to face now is the opposition from your parents, but in the future, you may face the burden and pressure of life if you have to take care of your children, work, and face the burden and pressure of life. By that time, you may have the will but lack the ability to fight."

"And if you really give up, think about the life you really want in your life, would you be willing?"

Lin Hai did not know Wang Yu's real situation. He could only analyze Wang Yu from what Wang Yu said in a realistic way, but these were enough for Wang Yu.

"So, if I were you, I would definitely try it if I like it so much and want to do it. Anyway, you said that with your strength, you won't starve to death. Even if you really don't have that strength, you will really starve to death, and then you will have time to turn back in time and start over again."

"So, isn't the only thing you are struggling with is your parents' opposition, but the starting point of your parents' opposition is for your own good, not just for the sake of opposition. The fundamental reason for their opposition is love for you. If you are someone else's child, then they don't have to care about you at all. If they are not your parents, just other people's parents, you can treat whatever they say as if they are indifferent."

"That's what I want to tell you, your parents will always love you, no matter whether they object or support what you want to do, they will always be your parents."

"But, your dream is that you will not have this store after you pass this village. You may not like it so much at this age, nor will you have the energy to realize it at all costs."

"Pain and entanglement are temporary, but life has been so long for decades. Aren't people young in their lives? How many dreams can they have in their lives? If they don't realize it while they are young, they will prove to your parents, then they will only oppose all your decisions for the rest of their lives."

"Of course, you didn't mean to go against your parents in a tit-for-tat way, that would only make them sad. You can talk to you calmly, analyze all your thoughts one by one, and finally tell them that no matter how firm they oppose, you have to do this. At worst, failure will prove you wrong. As parents, they love you so much. Can't even tolerate the consequences of your failure?"

Lin Hai finished speaking in one breath, took a sip of water, and smiled and said, "I have said enough. I believe you know what to do. Of course, you have always been very clear about it, but because the people closest to you are opposed, you are very confused and eager to hear some support. Then treat it as my support to bring you some motivation."

Wang Yu was silent and didn't say anything, and was still thinking, but his expression was obviously enlightened, without the initial entanglement and confusion.

"Thank you." Wang Yu showed a bright smile, "I really thought it clearly. No matter who opposes it, I have to do it, but that is my parents after all. When they all oppose it so strongly, I feel very sad, so I want someone to talk to and support me."

"My friends and relatives around me all advise me to follow my parents' arrangements and take a simpler path, so I can only think of you. Even if I simply talk to you, I will be much happier. Unexpectedly, what you told me made me think it thoroughly and make up my mind."

Wang Yu smiled and picked up the water cup in front of him as wine and touched Lin Hai's water cup: "Cheers, thank you. I've invited this meal today, which is considered thanks to you."

"No, how can I always ask you to invite me? I, a big man, am afraid I won't be able to digest it if I eat too much soft food." Lin Hai said with a smile: "You invited me last time and I promised that I will come this time."

He can still afford the consumption here.

Wang Yu was also very persistent: "It doesn't matter. Keep it for the next time. Since you are a friend, you will definitely have a chance to have dinner together. I won't be polite then."

"I talked a lot with you today, and I felt very happy and relaxed. I also let go of the revenge in my heart. Now I have more determination and courage to face my parents and others."

Lin Hai smiled and said, "Then don't tell your parents that I said this to you. They will definitely hate me if they know."

"No." Wang Yu said seriously, "I will definitely not tell them, and I believe that, just like you said, one day they will support and understand me when they see my persistence and achievement. At that time, they will also thank a friend like you for saying this to me."

The two of them said, Lin Hai saw that it was getting late: "Where are you living, I'll take you back."

Wang Yu is a girl, and he is obviously worried about going back alone so late. He has to send Wang Yu home safely out of politeness and safety considerations.

Wang Yu hesitated for a moment and said quickly: "It's the previous Venus community."

Although Jinxing Community is an old campus, its location is very good and not far from here. Lin Hai stopped a taxi and got on the bus with Wang Yu. Then, after arriving at Jinxing Community, he took Wang Yu to the community: "Then I won't send you up. You can send a message to your home and say it, and then get off early."

Wang Yu nodded with a smile and waved goodbye to Lin Hai. Lin Hai also hurriedly wanted to rush back. Xu Yawen was still at home after all, and probably was still angry. He always felt very sorry.

As soon as Lin Hai walked out of the community, Wang Yu quickly took out his cell phone and called: "Hey, Uncle Chen, please help me go to Longxiang Road. My car is parked there. Please help me drive home directly. No need to send it to me. Tell the master and wife that I will not drive the car in the future. Then I will go back for dinner tomorrow and have a good talk with them."
Chapter completed!