Xu Yawen sighed: "You are right. After all, my father was unable to withstand the temptation at that time, so he betrayed this family."

"As an outsider, nothing is appropriate for me to say, but I understand your mood. He hurts your mother. It is natural for you to hate him, but at the same time he is your father, and it can be seen that he has been trying his best to make up for it, so your mood is also very contradictory." Lin Hai said slowly.

"But no matter what, as a friend, I still hope that you will not let yourself live in resentment and pain all the time. Life is still long and there will be many beautiful things in the future. The storage space of people's hearts is so big that they are always occupied by pain. How can you let go of the beauty? So you must learn to clear it and let yourself slowly put the beautiful things in."

"Because I see you, you have a lot at a young age, but you force yourself to immerse yourself in pain like obsessive-compulsive disorder. If you continue like this, your life will only be too heavy. Those past things make people suffer, but it is not your fault. You have no reason to ruin your future life because of the past pain and mistakes."

Lin Hai said, adding: "I think this is also your mother's hope for you."

Xu Yawen was silent for a long time before she said quietly: "I understand all these principles, but it is difficult to do it."

"Maybe it was because I had faced all this too early, but no one like you appeared and said this to me. When I lost my mother at that time, I also lost my father. All I could do is to remember this in a foreign country, because I had nothing, and all I had left was these memories. Even the memories of pain and hatred were better than nothing..."

Lin Hai suddenly felt like he was stabbed in his heart. In fact, if he thought about it seriously, if there was another choice, how could Xu Yawen be willing to do this? Didn’t she want to be as simple and innocent as Song Yuting, instead of being as cold as she is now, she has almost rarely laughed.

At this moment, he suddenly wanted to hug Xu Yawen and comfort her. Xu Yawen was really hard and difficult to hold on.

Xu Yawen's voice was trembling: "Actually, what I fear most is not the past. You said that I would face my future life well, but I don't dare to think about what it will be like in the future."

"I will have my own family in the future, but as I said to you, the marriage partner I can usually choose is more about being a good match than being in love. The two may not have much understanding at all, and they are combined because of family interests."

"What happiness can there be in this kind of marriage without emotional foundation? What's more, I can't forget my father's betrayal. He had such deep feelings with my mother and shared the joys and sorrows all the way, but it still hurt my mother like that."

"And how can I believe that my husband will not do such a thing in the future? How should I face the hurt my mother has faced before?"

Xu Yawen's voice sounded very heavy in the darkness, and Lin Hai felt very heavy when he heard it. He spoke for a while and said: "Maybe you don't have to make such a choice. Your marriage should not be related to interests, but to your love and happiness."

"Actually, according to the current assets of Dacheng Group, what you have is enough. Isn't the reason why you and your father think that getting married is to maintain the wealth in front of you or even get more?"

"But how much wealth is enough? Like the Veterans Group, is it enough, but the real founder of the Veterans Group, Ye Lingtian and his wife, did they say that they would just let go?"

"For ordinary families, what you have is beyond their reach. You just said that wealth cannot guarantee happiness. So why do you still pursue wealth so tirelessly, and do not hesitate to spend your marriage and love for more wealth, and still have happiness?"

"If you say it is for the sake of Dacheng Group and for your mother's efforts to maintain it better, but on the one hand, not all companies rely on marriage relationships to maintain it. To put it bluntly, the development of many good companies still depends on the ability of leaders."

Lin Hai said, increasing his tone: "Also, have you ever thought about it? Your mother has experienced the pain of a failed marriage. Would she say she would like to see you repeat her mistakes for the sake of Dacheng Group and fall into an unhappy marriage?"

Xu Yawen was stunned. She didn't answer his words for a long time. After a while, she said quietly: "You are not me, you can't understand that kind of involuntary action."

"Lin Hai, so I envy you very much. I envy you for not having to bet on everything about yourself for these external things. And I was born in such a family, and there was no other way."

Lin Hai frowned and said lightly: "I think you are too pessimistic. I believe your father may also attach great importance to the great group, but the equality he requires is more because he thinks that material things are the basis for ensuring marriage, and his real purpose is still to hope that you can be happy."

"Even if he has made unforgivable mistakes as a husband, he still has fatherly love for you as a father. His starting point is still for your own good. However, such a starting point is too self-righteous and not what you really want, and what you have to do is to let him understand what you really want and need."

"And if your father just considers Dacheng Group but ignores your happiness and life or death, then you can't say that you can't just let it go without resisting. Would you say that you are willing to live that kind of life?"

Xu Yawen was silent for a long time before she said lightly: "I'm tired, go to bed early."

Lin Hai knew that it was just that she didn't want to continue on the topic, and there was no way to do so. It was unrealistic to ask Xu Yawen to change her deeply rooted thoughts all at once, so he could only say calmly: "Okay, then go to bed first."

"I'm here, you don't have to be afraid. Just shout if you have nightmares."

Xu Yawen nodded softly, then hesitated for a moment before saying, "Lin Hai, thank you."

"Thank you for being by my side at such moments, and thank you for saying this to me."

"Even if I may not have the courage to let go of everything and live the life you said, I am still grateful to have friends like you who will tell me this."

Lin Hai smiled and said, "It's getting late, go to bed, good night."

"Good night."

Both of them slept very sweetly for the rest of the night. Until dawn, Xu Yawen opened her eyes and saw Lin Hai next to her that her face suddenly turned red, as if she suddenly realized how ridiculous it was last night.

She actually stayed with a man like this all night, but she felt extremely relieved that night, and this mood made her very conflicted.

Lin Hai pushed the door open and carried the insulated lunch box. When he opened it, he still smelled it and knew it was made by himself.

"Come and eat. Now you have a bad stomach, so drink more porridge to nourish your stomach." Lin Hai said with a smile, "I'll study it later and develop a few more varieties to ensure that you won't get tired of drinking."

Xu Yawen was stunned and stared at the porridge in front of her: "Where did you cook it?"

"Of course I went back to cook it." Lin Hai said with a smile: "It's not possible to cook in the ward, so I went back to cook it in the morning and then brought it over."

Xu Yawen was completely stunned. She looked at the pork ribs porridge in the bowl. Even if she had never cooked, she knew that it would take at least two hours to cook such a bowl of porridge. In other words, Lin Hai got up early in the morning before dawn and went back to cook porridge for her, and he slept as late as her last night.

"Actually, you don't have to work so hard..." Xu Yawen felt both sad and moved at that moment.

Which girl doesn’t want to be taken care of like this and considerate?
Chapter completed!