Chapter 2757 The ugliness of the family cannot be made public
He instinctively felt that something was strange and something was wrong, but he knew about these things about Xu Yawen's family. Besides, this is also a family scandal that should not be made public, and Xu Yawen was unwilling to disclose more. Even as a friend, he couldn't say too much.
"Yes, I don't know what's going on, and Uncle Zhang didn't say it specifically, but my dad was very sad. After all, this might be a son, which can be regarded as making up for his inner regret. After all, no matter how good he treated me in the past, he thought I was just a daughter. After all, he still hoped that a son could truly inherit everything from him."
"He specially took Su Manyu abroad to take care of his baby. In addition to saying that he wanted to avoid me and try to downplay the resentment between me and Su Manyu, he also wanted to give this child the best condition since he was not born."
Xu Yawen's expression was very cold, with a lot of resentment, "As a result, it suddenly disappeared. It's normal for him to be in a bad mood now."
It can't be all blamed for her. After all, growing up in such an environment, she inevitably feels resentful.
"I guess he will come back this time with such a mood. Maybe he will vent all his resentment on me."
"And now, the highly anticipated child is gone, and now he seems that I am constantly going against his wishes and doing things that do not meet his requirements. Then he is likely to come back and take over Dacheng Group again, and I will have nothing to do by that time."
Xu Yawen's face looked very ugly: "Although I am nominally the president of Dacheng Group, he is the founder of Dacheng Group after all. If he really doesn't want me to take over, there are ten thousand ways to get me away."
Lin Hai thought about it, peeled an apple for Xu Yawen and handed it over, and slowly said, "I don't have much to comment on your family affairs."
"But in my opinion, your father may have done a lot of wrong things, including many of his management companies, and I don't agree with it. Feelings are emotions, but in principle, things must be clearly distinguished. Human feelings can never replace systems and management. However, how to measure and establish this boundary is something that needs to be explored well, including you and me, you must keep learning."
"But I always think that your father has feelings for you and feels guilty. He does have high requirements for you, but the more likely reason is that it comes from expectations for you, and I hope you can do better."
"Also, it may not be just dissatisfied with you as you said, but it is actually a protection for you. After all, you are still young and your identity is there. These two points are enough to make many people dissatisfied with you, thinking that you are the daughter of your father. "
"And, what you are doing now is indeed drastic and decisive, not to mention that it has indeed affected the interests of many people. It is inevitable that these people have resentment towards you."
"I think your father cannot have not considered these situations. As a manager, he is more familiar with Dacheng Group than you, and more familiar with these people than you. He cannot not know these situations. As a manager, no one can tolerate anyone doing things that harm the interests of the company. Even if a person like Li Jin and he has made a lot of contributions to his friendship for so many years, he should not and cannot say that he tolerate this situation."
"I understand that there are many misunderstandings between you and your father, but I think this is the most basic thing in life. If your father can make Dacheng Group today, it is impossible for him to say that he is a person without any ability or vision. I think your understanding of him may be a bit one-sided due to emotional reasons."
"It's just that some things may be powerless. It's just that they leave them to you. He also hopes that you can bring some good changes to Dacheng Group in your way, which is also his trust in you. But at the same time, as a former manager, he really doesn't want to see so many changes in one go. After all, according to his personality, he is a conservative person and may not be able to accept your rapid change."
"As a father, he may also know what consequences you will have, and more importantly, what impact it may have on yourself, and what others will think of you. He should not want you to be anxious to succeed and be hurt in the end."
It’s not that Lin Hai disagreed with Xu Yawen’s series of behaviors, otherwise he wouldn’t have said that he would help Xu Yawen with audits, but he also felt that Xu Yawen was a little anxious and wanted to see the results sooner.
This also has something to do with her personality, because she is a perfectionist person and a person with a cleanliness, so she cannot tolerate these behaviors that harm the interests of the company and are illegal in itself.
"Of course, this is just my opinion as a bystander, but I can't bear the hurts of those years on your behalf, so I can't say who is right or wrong."
"I understand you. After all, as a daughter, there may be many emotional things you cannot accept, and it feels like a kind of harm. You rarely communicate with him, which has caused this situation today."
Xu Yawen bit her lip and said stiffly for a while: "I can't communicate with him. The simplest truth is that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather. He is not just my father now, he is also Su Manyu's husband, and he is almost the father of her child. And my mother is no longer here. Even if she is there, she can't compare with Su Manyu's status in his mind."
"If he really cared about me, he wouldn't have said that he had a child with that woman at such age." Xu Yawen said angrily, "It was originally all his efforts to me, but because I was his only child, his identity has been shaken. When he had another child, he immediately turned around and served him wholeheartedly. Before he was born and still in the woman's belly, he already looked like a baby."
"If the child hadn't been gone, it would be hard to say whether he would remember my daughter in the future."
Xu Yawen said angrily. Although she was very angry, she could see that it was more like a child's desire for care for his parents. After all, who doesn't want to be the best and most favored in the eyes of his parents.
Lin Hai smiled, shook his head and said with a smile: "You don't have children yet, so you can't understand the mood of being a parent. This is what parents are like. For any child, you want to give all your love, but sometimes you can't be so average, and you can't take into account all your children's feelings."
"It's also his child, of course he will give all his love. I think, when you were young, he gave no less feelings to you than the one whom he has given to Su Manyu now."
"Especially those who lack communication with your father like you, he must take it for granted from his own perspective, and feel that you have grown up, mature and sensible, and will definitely be able to accept all this. Besides, he also gave you Dacheng Group, and he thinks that it is what you want the most, and he thinks that satisfying your wish is that he can give you the best love."
"I don't advise you so much. Some things can only be felt by yourself slowly and carefully. Everything I say is just my thoughts, which may be different from what you see and feel. However, I still hope that you can let go of all the knots in your heart and get more happiness."
Chapter completed!