Chapter 1201: Love (2)
"I'm very clear. I like him, and the longer I get along with him, the more I like him. To be honest, Brother Ling Tian, he really looks like you. He is really honest and upright, but not silly. On the contrary, he is very smart and can do almost everything. He is principled and has strong principles. I can feel that he likes me, but no matter how I remind him openly and secretly, he always doesn't say that he likes me and I have a certain relationship with me. It's hard for me, a girl, to express my love directly.
?Besides, what if I say it, but he refuses me and says he doesn't like me? So things have been stiff. I look for him every day after get off work, but he and I have always been with him as friends. I have another doubt in my heart. You know, his family is very poor, rural people, parents are both farmers, and now he is carrying a lot of debts. The gap between my family and his family is too big, and my mother will definitely not agree to be with him." Speaking of this, Zhang Youyou's eyes dimmed again.
Ye Lingtian smiled and said, "Do you have no confidence in your mother or do you have no confidence in him?"
"All of them are, he can't meet my mother's requirements."
"How did you know that your mother would disagree? As I said earlier, do you think your mother would be a criterion for measuring whether a person is successful or failure by using the amount of money? You are wrong. For ordinary people, it may be, but for your mother, it is definitely not, because your family is not short of money, too much money. As a parent, all you hope is that your children can live a happy life. Your mother's expectation for your partner in the future is naturally to hope that the other party can love you and love you, and have the ability to give you happiness. Money is definitely not included in your mother's considerations, because your family has enough money and you dare not spend anything for a lifetime. Therefore, as long as he is really capable and has a good character, your mother will definitely agree. If he can meet this requirement, even if your mother does not agree, as long as you really love each other, I can give you a promise. Your mother does not agree, and I will convince your mother to agree. But the key to the problem is that you don't have confidence in him."
"No, I..."
"If you have confidence in him, how can you think he is not as high as your mother requires? It is because you think from the bottom of your heart that he is not as good as you. Youyou, tell me, how old is he?"
"Twenty-seven years old, just like me."
"Is it only twenty-seven? Do you know? I was still in the army at the age of twenty-seven. I was discharged from the army at the age of twenty-eight. My family was barely barred and could not find a job. Finally, I worked as a security guard with a monthly salary of 2,000 yuan to watch the door. Then Ye Chun fell ill and I also owed 500,000 yuan in debt. But what? I started a company at the age of thirty, and I established a veteran group at the age of thirty. Now I am thirty-eight, and my assets are over 10 billion yuan. I need money, power, and famous. In the public's cognitive standards, I am also a successful person.
Well. Speaking of which, his current situation is much better than mine. At least he now has a decent job and he is a college graduate. I can become like this in just ten years. How do you know that he cannot become successful in ten years? So, don’t measure a person’s success or failure based on his current situation. What we value should be a person’s personality and ability. Tell me, do you really love him and want to be with him?" Ye Lingtian asked directly.
"I think, I'm very sure, I like him, I love him, I'm very firm." Zhang Youyou said firmly.
"Tell me, what is his name?"
"His name is Fang Zhiqiang, Brother Ling Tian, what are you going to do?" Zhang Youyou was a little surprised.
"I'm not going to do anything. I just tell you a word. People's happiness is something you have won. It's never given to you by anyone. If you don't know how to cherish happiness and pursue happiness, you will never be able to get happiness in your life. Love and work are actually the same truth. Before you do it, you always hesitate and fear what will happen if you fail. But if you don't try it, how do you know that you will fail? If you don't try it, you will never succeed. In life, no matter love, it's love.
Still working, there are not many opportunities to stay in front of us. If you don’t seize this opportunity in front of us, you will probably not have the next opportunity. If you try, even if you fail, at least you will have no regrets. If you don’t do it, it is very likely that you will regret it for life. The same thing is the same, if you really like him, then treat him with your heart, relate to him, understand him, and at the same time, you will also tell him that love is mutual and love can also be infected, do you know?" Ye Lingtian said to Zhang Youyou earnestly.
"Well, I understand, Brother Ling Tian, thank you. I know what to do. Your words today suddenly made me realize it. Now I feel very relaxed and feel a sudden enlightenment. However, you should not tell my mother first. I think, when I am really with him, I will tell my mother myself, okay?" Zhang Youyou thought for a long time, and finally said to Ye Lingtian with a smile.
"Okay, that's OK, go and have a meal. Come here on time after work in the afternoon. Let's sort out the work you have done recently one by one."
"Okay, Brother Ling Tian, thank you." Zhang Youyou smiled, then walked out directly, very happy, and reached the door, and suddenly turned around and said to Ye Lingtian: "Brother Ling Tian, when I am really with him, I will find an opportunity for you to meet him. Then you will find that he really looks very similar to you, not about appearance, but about personality, really. I'm leaving, bye."
After Zhang Youyou said that, she walked out directly.
Chapter completed!