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Chapter 473 The problem of children's education

The young parents of Lin Xiaotang and Fu Hansheng, whose two youngest sons are not yet one month old, are already discussing the issue of grandchildren.

People came to visit Lin Xiaotang more frequently.

They all had a tacit understanding and brought gifts to Si Xian and Siqi: Congratulations to the two children, Si Xian and Siqi, for having a little brother.

This was Lin Xiaotang's idea.

Simei is still young, so to speak, she is still a little fool and doesn’t understand anything.

But Si Xian Siqi is already a three-year-old child and will have many ideas based on the attitude of adults.

Lin Xiaotang didn't want her children to think that mommy and daddy ignored them after they had a younger brother.

Si Xian Siqi obviously found this method very useful.

They felt the congratulations of others and received many gifts, but they couldn't help but leave the gifts to their younger brother.

Without any instruction, they subconsciously took on the "responsibility" of their older brothers.

In fact, Lin Xiaotang doesn't like the so-called remarks such as "the older ones should make them laugh" and "older brothers and sisters should take care of their younger brothers and sisters".

Brothers and sisters respect each other, and sisters have a deep love.

These are all mutual.

No one has ever said that brothers and sisters are domineering, and sisters are affectionate and arrogant.

No one should sacrifice for another person without any principle.

Any kind of emotion should be mutually reinforcing.

In Lin Xiaotang's case, the younger brother is domineering, but the elder brother is aggressive, but he can also be understanding.

The older child does not have to give in to the younger child because of his status, unless it is voluntary and the other child deserves it.

Good things are mutual.

Parents are unfair and their children are not harmonious, so Lin Xiaotang has always been unbiased when it comes to children.

People's hearts are biased, and there will always be someone they like more.

But Lin Xiaotang will not show preference, nor will she let any of them be wronged.

Whether materially or emotionally, she and Fu Hansheng have always been fair.

Compared with Si Mei who only knows how to eat, drink and sleep, Lin Xiaotang first chooses to take good care of Si Xian and Si Qi's psychological and emotional well-being.

If a younger brother respects his older brother, then the older brother will love and care for his younger brother.

When Lin Xiaotang thought about how she and Lin Dengke got along when they were children, she felt that the elders in her family were really wise.

If you make a mistake, you will face the wall together.

When they get into a fight, they both stand and slap their palms together.

Therefore, even though they are cousins, they are no different from real brothers and sisters. The principle of both prosperity and loss is engraved in their bones and blood.

This is the healthy development of a family.

If a younger sibling makes a mistake, the older sibling should not be blamed.

Elders cannot force older siblings to give up their beloved things to younger siblings.

Lin Xiaotang communicated his thoughts to Fu Hansheng, and Fu Hansheng nodded. Of course he approved of Lin Xiaotang's education method with both hands.

Compared with Lin Xiaotang's education, Fu Hansheng's education was a bit harsh.

He did not grow up in a healthy family, nor did he enjoy the love education of his parents. He can take care of his children very carefully, but he is not very kind to them, but rather a bit strict.

At least, children from ordinary families will not let their children do horse walking, practice fighting, or even throw them adrift on an Atlantic cruise ship when they are three years old.

While other children were still playing in the playground, his two cubs had already modified country M's aircraft carrier system.

It's not that Fu Hansheng doesn't understand Guo Hui Yiyao's principles, but he really can't do it if he is asked to be a gentle father.

A person's growth experience determines his character, and his character determines his style of doing things.

Lin Xiaotang would not force Fu Hansheng.

The responsibilities of fathers and mothers are inherently different. Otherwise, why would current education recommend that parents take care of their children together instead of just one of them?

Parents are their children's first teachers and play a very important role in their children's lives.

A gentle mother can help her children learn to protect girls, respect girls, and make their children more careful and patient.

A serious father can help his children learn to take on the responsibilities of a man and possess strong and brave qualities.

I just think that there are many families now running around for a living.

My mother cannot always be gentle when dealing with trivial matters in the family, and my father cannot be by my side.

Many of the students Lin Xiaotang sponsors are children from mountainous and poverty-stricken areas. She does not hope that these children can get rid of those environments through funding, but she hopes that when they have enough ability, they can change the fate of more people.

Leaving your hometown will not solve the problem. Only by building your hometown can more people escape that fate.

Lin Xiaotang had no way to force others to do something, but as long as one or two people among a hundred people were willing to do it, it would be enough.

Fu Hansheng and Lin Xiaotang talked a lot, and the two reached an agreement on parenting issues.

In fact, most of them, Lin Xiaotang said, Fu Hansheng nodded in agreement.

He is a person who will unconditionally support all Lin Xiaotang's decisions.

Lin Xiaotang looked at Fu Hansheng's doting eyes and felt that she was really lucky.

"Oh, I came at the wrong time."

Mrs. Cheng stood at the door, smiling lovingly.

Cheng Anqi was beside her, holding gifts in both hands.

"Auntie, why are you here? It's always the right time for you to come."

Lin Xiaotang welcomed the person in with a smile and looked at Mrs. Cheng, whom she hadn't seen for a long time. She looked older and her hair was grayer, but she was in good spirits and her eyes were as gentle as ever.

"Your Uncle Cheng and I are leaving Mingzhu City, and we wanted to come and see you before we leave."

The fact that they were able to come out so smoothly was indeed a tribute to Lin Xiaotang.

Although the Cheng family did not express their gratitude on their lips, they understood it in their hearts.

Even though they knew that if Cheng Anqi's attitude had not changed, Lin Xiaotang would have ignored anyone in the Cheng family.

A person's kindness should not be trampled on or misunderstood.

The Cheng family are all sensible people.

Lin Xiaotang was surprised that they were leaving, "...I thought Uncle Cheng would escort An Qi."

Cheng Anqi can now take charge of her own business, but if Mr. Cheng, an old fox, is by her side, the Cheng family will definitely reach a higher level.

Mrs. Cheng laughed and said, "When a child grows up, she will have to face ups and downs. Her father and I can't stay with her forever."

They once wanted to protect their daughter in an ivory tower, but such a daughter who was not familiar with the world was too easily hurt.

Therefore, they would rather let their daughter suffer some setbacks to grow up than take as much care as before.

They are Cheng Anqi's eternal support, but after this incident, they also understand that they will grow old and have to leave one day, and they cannot always be their daughter's support.

Fortunately, Cheng Anqi has also shown her personal abilities now, and has lived up to the training of Mr. Cheng and his wife. Now she manages the Cheng family and the company very well, so if they step down, they will also make way for their daughter.

It's not good that both Mr. Cheng and his daughter have great power. Then the trust that other people in the company have just established in Cheng Anqi will be shaken.

Mr. Cheng will always be in charge of Cheng Anqi, but will not interfere with anything Cheng Anqi does in the company.

Unless it's absolutely necessary.

Lin Xiaotang laughed, Mr. Cheng was indeed an old fox, he could do everything flawlessly.
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