Chapter 250
Ye Chen asked curiously: "What do you say?"
Song Wanting said seriously: "Mr. Ye seems to be not good-looking, but in fact he is very capable. He is capable but not arrogant. He is not arrogant in normal times. However, once someone touches your bottom line, you will fight back without hesitation, and you will be decisive in killing and not leaving any chance to backhand for your opponent. These qualities are by no means owned by ordinary people.
As he said that, Song Wanting said again: "More importantly, I don't understand why you have such great ability to be a son-in-law in the Xiao family? The Xiao family is just a second-rate and third-rate ordinary family. How can you, the great god, stay in it?"
Ye Chen did not answer her question, but asked her: "Then do you think I should stay if I don't stay in the Xiao family? Or, where do you think I can stay in it?"
Song Wanting said seriously: "I think you should marry a top big family. As an expert like you, countless big families will sharpen their heads and marry their daughter to you."
Ye Chen smiled and said, "What's the point of that? This kind of combination of interests does not have any love factor. Are girls from a big family willing to marry someone they don't like? Or are they willing to be in charge of their own life and be controlled by the family?"
Song Wanting said for granted: "Of course! Any big family has always been very strict in discipline for girls in the family. For example, you must go to a very top aristocratic school, not to learn knowledge, but to learn the social etiquette of the nobles. For example, if you are not a certain age or opportunity, the family strictly prohibits us from contacting the opposite sex outside, and will never allow us to fall in love on our own."
"I'll go." Ye Chen asked in surprise: "This is the 21st century. How come you big families are more feudal than those of the ancient feudal society in our country?"
"This is not feudal." Song Wanting said seriously: "This is the survival rule of the upper class."
"The law of survival?" Ye Chen asked curiously: "What do you say?"
Song Wanting said seriously: "We need to cooperate with other families, bind and exchange resources, so there is one of the family mottos of our Song family: all direct members of the family must obey the family arrangements when talking about marriage."
"In feudal society, the Song family's intermarriage requirement was that marriage must be carried out between cousins, that is, the cousin used to marry her cousin and her cousin married her cousin. This was to prevent wealth dilution or exodus. However, now the country has banned three generations of blood relatives from getting married, but even abroad, there are still many cousins getting married now."
"Later, our family motto gradually relaxed, and we did not require marriage to our cousin, but we must intermarry with other large families. The other party's family power can be higher than our own family, but we must not be much lower than our own family."
Speaking of this, Song Wanting sighed and continued: "A family believes that a certain family has the value of cooperation, so they will find ways to let the male family marry the female of the other family, or marry the female of the family into the other family. In short, every family member must focus on the interests of the family and must not disobey any arrangements of the family, especially major marriages."
Ye Chen sighed and said, "It seems that this big family also has the troubles of big families. The richer they are, the more greedy they are."
When he was talking, Ye Chen sighed in his heart. It seemed that if he returned to the Ye family, the Ye family would definitely control him the same way. He might even look down on the Xiao family and force him to divorce Xiao Churan, and then introduce himself to a wealthy daughter who is of equal status.
It seems that the Ye family really cannot go back.
Thinking in his heart, Ye Chen asked, "By the way, I think Miss Song, you are at the age of getting married. I wonder if your family has made a marriage for you?"
Chapter completed!