"So, you are saying that it is because of her low self-esteem that she has never dared to confess to Li Mingrui, but because of the strong self-esteem she pretends to be because of her low self-esteem, she is not willing to lower her standards for mate selection, so she is obsessed with Li Mingrui?"

Diba asked softly.

"Bingguo, the answer is correct. In fact, the more inferior a person is, the more they like to compare. She has fallen behind you in everything, so when it comes to choosing a mate, she would rather be single than just find a man to settle for. To put it bluntly,

It's because she subconsciously doesn't want to lose to you again in this regard, which is why she can't even figure out her own feelings and thinks that she has always been deeply in love with Li Mingrui."

Ding Ning snapped his fingers in approval and replied.

Xilin and Diba looked at each other. Although they didn't want to believe it, they carefully recalled all the signs when they got along with Yuan Shanshan, which all proved that what Ding Ning said seemed to be the truth.

"She is usually a bit neurotic and sensitive. If I treat her to a meal, she will definitely treat her to a meal in return. If I don't agree, she will lose her temper and say that I look down on her, which makes me dare not treat her to a meal.

Already."

Xilin said with a faint sigh.

"Indeed, although I have been too busy these years and have come back very rarely, every time I come back, I will bring you gifts. But every time you accept them happily, Shanshan always refuses in front of you.

, she also said she didn’t like it, but now that I think about it, it’s not like she didn’t like it, it was because she didn’t want to owe me anything, and she thought the gift was too expensive and she couldn’t afford to pay it back.”

Diba said with a wry smile, a hint of sadness in his eyes.

"I didn't think much about it before, but after listening to what Ding Ning said, it seems that she really has a low self-esteem. I have never even been to her home once after knowing her for so many years. We have made appointments several times to go shopping, and I have to drive to pick her up.

She, she found all sorts of excuses to refuse."

Xilin said in a low mood: "I thought it was inconvenient for her to have a paralyzed father at home, so I didn't care, but now I understand. She was afraid that we would look down on her when we saw that her family was poor."

"You guys, you two women, are too rough-hearted."

Ding Ning said with a smile.

"Ding Ning, do you think Shanshan's inferiority complex is a disease?"

Diba suddenly asked worriedly.

Ding Ning hesitated and nodded affirmatively: "Strictly speaking, extreme low self-esteem is a serious mental illness. Its triggers are many and complex, and it is very difficult to treat."

"What are the consequences of that?"

Siren asked nervously.

"The consequences depend on each person's ability to withstand psychological stress, and the resulting symptoms are also different. Generally speaking, patients like to compare everything with others, but the more they compare, the more they find themselves at a disadvantage.

"Slowly, a "reverse formation" self-protection mentality will be formed, that is, in the process of getting along with others, you will feel that you are worthless, bad, and useless, and you will be full of anger towards yourself."

Ding Ning raised his glass, smiled and nodded at the squad leader Kong Lingxi who was toasting him. After drinking it in one gulp, he continued: "But patients are often unwilling to face their own vulnerability, so they use the opposite method.

By imposing this kind of weakness on others, it becomes something that others do not want.

Yes, it’s because others are bad, because others are useless, and they look displeased, that’s why they make themselves so angry and put all the blame on others. Over time, a strong desire to destroy will be formed, destroying all the good things.

Things to find your own sense of existence.”

"Ah, it's so scary. Would Shanshan be like this?"

Xilin and Diba both covered their mouths and asked with horror on their faces.

"It's hard to say. It depends on her ability to withstand psychological pressure. Seeing as she is quite happy getting along with you, there shouldn't be any big problems for the time being."

Ding Ning said comfortingly, remembering what he had discovered in his consciousness before

Yuan Shanshan looked nervous before entering the door, but she felt a little uneasy in her heart.

Will the appearance of Li Mingrui be the cause of Yuan Shanshan's illness? This is something that no one can be sure of.

Moreover, since Yuan Shanshan came back after answering the phone call, she looked distracted, and something seemed very wrong.

Then he remembered that Li Mingrui and she came back together, which made him have to be vigilant.

As the saying goes, it is impossible to guard against a domestic thief. The most terrible enemy is often not your opponent, but your closest friend.

If this is the case, Yuan Shanshan resents Diba because of Li Mingrui's love for Diba. With her relationship with Diba, it would be extremely easy to quietly set a trap to destroy Diba.

Thinking of this, Ding Ning suddenly broke into a cold sweat and looked at Yuan Shanshan with a deep look in his eyes.

By coincidence, Yuan Shanshan just looked up and saw Ding Ning staring at her. Her eyes suddenly became panicked and she avoided his gaze. She seemed to feel that this was too guilty. She hurriedly squeezed out a smile and raised the drink in front of her to him.

Cup sign.

Ding Ning smiled, raised his glass to touch her from a distance, and then drank it all.

Although he could not confirm it finally, through this test, he had initially confirmed his guess. Yuan Shanshan was probably sick and was preparing to attack Diba.

Seeing Diba and Xilin look relaxed because of his words, Ding Ning felt a little heavy.

Should Yuan Shanshan be blamed? No, she is just a poor patient. It was the environment in which she grew up that caused her extreme low self-esteem.

But if you don't blame her, after all, Diba is her best friend. After so many years of sisterly relationship, she betrayed her at any time, and even wanted to completely destroy her.

This made him feel a little chilled. What did this mean? It meant that Yuan Shanshan had been jealous of Diba for so long, but this jealousy was temporarily suppressed by the sisterly relationship.

So who should be blamed? Li Mingrui?

It seems that he should be blamed. If he hadn't tried to get involved with Diba and confessed his love to Diba in front of Yuan Shanshan, which irritated her, Yuan Shanshan would not have gotten sick so quickly.

But in fact, even without Li Mingrui's appearance, Yuan Shanshan's illness will attack sooner or later. When the time comes, without him around, Diba will 100% fall victim to the attack, and the consequences will be unimaginable.

You know, it is much easier for the person closest to you to harm a well-known celebrity or a female celebrity than it is to harm an ordinary person.

Scandal and public opinion are murder weapons sharper than knives for public figures.

Putting it this way, it seems that we cannot blame Li Mingrui, but should be grateful to him. If he had not appeared, Ding Ning would not have been able to meet the situation and have the opportunity to prevent the tragedy.

The reason why a conspiracy is scary is that its unknown nature makes it hard to guard against, but once you see through it, it is not worth mentioning.

Since Ding Ning had seen through the conspiracy, he put down his worries and drank to the toasts with those who came to toast him at Li Mingrui's signal as if nothing had happened.

"Mr. Ding is really a good drinker. People say that a thousand cups of wine is too little to meet a close friend. Today, I, Li Mingrui, and Mr. Ding have hit it off. Come on, let me toast Mr. Ding and welcome Mr. Ding to Urumqi as a guest."

Seeing that Ding Ning had drunk more than a dozen drinks in a row, his face was slightly red, and his eyes were a little straight, Li Mingrui felt that the time was ripe, and stood up on his own initiative, igniting the flames of war without smiling.

The students who were having a hot time, drinking, or chatting immediately stopped what they were doing and looked at Ding Ning with interest.

"Okay, since Mr. Li is so elegant, I will definitely accompany him to the end. However, this wine glass is too small and the drink is not satisfying."

Ding Ning played with the small wine glass in his hand drunkenly, with a look of deep regret on his face.

"That's not easy. It's just a wine glass. Come on, Assistant Wang, change the beer glass for us."

Li Mingrui waved his hand vigorously and ordered Assistant Wang, who was always serving at the side like a waiter.

"What's the point of drinking from a beer mug? The ancients said, drink from a big bowl and eat large pieces of meat. Today, since I hit it off with Mr. Li, let's follow the example of the ancients and drink from a bowl."

Ding Ning scolded Fang Qiu with a wave of his hand, which made Diba extremely worried. She quietly tugged on his clothes from below, lest he get too drunk.

"It's okay, don't worry. I'm a big drinker. This small amount of wine is nothing. My nickname is Ding Wujin. I drink three to five pounds of wine just like I'm playing."

Ding Ning did not accept her favor at all. Instead, his eyes straightened, he spoke with a big tongue and patted his chest.

Li Mingrui was shocked when he heard this. Five pounds? If this guy is really that good at drinking, he will be in trouble.

He knows his drinking capacity well, three and a half pounds is no problem, but he walks a little unsteadily, but his mind is very clear.

Four pounds is a bit reluctant. Although it won't make a fool of yourself, your head will definitely feel dizzy and your thinking will become slow.

He had estimated that if he was in bad shape, four kilograms was basically his limit, but if he was in good shape, he could drink another half a kilogram, and the upper limit could reach four and a half kilograms. If he exceeded this amount, he would have to broadcast it live.

But Ding Ning opened his mouth and said that he could drink five kilograms, which made him secretly beat the drum in his heart. Although Assistant Wang was beside him, he would not make a fool of himself in public if he drank too much, but it would affect his plans for the evening.

Tonight, he had made up his mind to capture Diba. If it was past tonight, it would be difficult to find another opportunity to have contact with Diba.

What's more, there is Yuan Shanshan, a partner who came to the door on his own initiative. The exchange condition is just the position of manager of a branch, which is not a matter of words to him.

As for the consequences of using force against Diba? Haha, he had already planned it and ensured that Diba would never dare to call the police.

As a star, what are you most afraid of? Of course it's a scandal. As long as she takes a video, a photo, etc., for the sake of her reputation and stardom, does she dare to speak out?

When the time comes, don't just let him take whatever he wants, just accept it and become your own plaything.

Of course, that was only a choice made by Diba when she was disobedient. If she was obedient, he wouldn't mind letting her become his wife. After all, she was a big star, and being able to marry her as his wife would make him proud.

matter.

Thinking of this, Li Mingrui retreated in his heart. If that boy is really that good at drinking, he must not fight head-on with him for tonight's plan.

But when he noticed that Ding Ning's eyes were straight and his tongue was wide when he spoke, he immediately became happy.

This kid is definitely bragging. He still weighs five pounds. He has only had a dozen drinks and is already on the verge of death. MD, I was almost frightened by him.

"Assistant Wang, serve the bowl, the Shanghai bowl."

Li Mingrui immediately became confident and said with great pride.

Many people know that he can drink, but they don't know that what he is best at is drinking urgently. The more urgent the drink, the better.

If he drank slowly and bit by bit, his alcohol capacity would exceed the limit of four kilograms, but if he drank in a hurry, he might be able to break the limit of four and a half kilograms.

Everyone's expressions changed. Although they had no friendship with Ding Ning, they also knew that if something happened to him while drinking, everyone here would be to blame and would be jointly and severally liable.

"Mingrui, drink less. The class reunion is just for fun, so there is no need to drink so much."
Chapter completed!