I also came to say to my cousin like Kang Yu himself: "Do you know what the most painful thing for people with our personalities?"

"That's that we are too strong and too responsible. For the personality of people like us, no matter what happens when we come, we always think that relying on ourselves to do things is more important than anything else. We have too high requirements for ourselves, and we don't want to disappoint anyone. It's hard to admit that we need help. A little bit of mistakes and flaws may not be anything to others, but we can remember it for a long time, just like a lock that traps ourselves, so we feel tired after living."

"We are lonely, and there are not even many people who can tell the truth. Even if we change the environment, we will still be out of place and look indifferently like an outsider. We can prove our ability and prove that we can trust us. But few people can patiently discover this kind of goodness. Even if the person we love is sleeping by the pillow, we don't know if it is really possible to understand our partner. This is the most painful thing for people with our personality." Kang Yu said clearly.

Now is an era of fast-paced efficiency. We will not give people much time to adapt, whether it is life, work, or even marriage, or to get along with someone. Too many things change as soon as they say, and we will not give the time to buffer and accept it at all. This is also torture for people with their personalities. But he cannot teach me this to discover by himself. In addition, all the questions cannot be answered from him. This is a lesson he wants to teach me.

I heard my cousin ask, "Brother, are you and your sister-in-law the same?" Yan Zhengyu wanted to know the answer.

Kang Yu admitted after hearing this, "It was originally, but your sister-in-law came to prove that I married the right person, so I want to tell you, don't be embarrassed if someone comes to help. If you don't give Beibei time to prove it, how can you know that she really cherishes you?"

"I remember a woman told me that men and women have different thinking. Just like we just want to do it, we can prefer her exceptions in details without hiding everything. But women are different. What we want is the love that clearly expresses, but we may not necessarily discover your preference in details, or even come to ask you again and again why? Everyone knows it, but it seems that only she himself does not know it."

This word and sentence make people hear it as if they have experienced it personally. Yan Zhengyu even wondered if his cousin had really experienced it.

I heard from my cousin: "Don't put it on me, I haven't experienced this kind of thing, but I have seen it with my own eyes. You know the heroine in the story."

"Is it Sister Ruo?" Yan Zhengyu guessed.

Kang Yu nodded and affirmed after hearing this: "The reason why she refused to look for her again is because she once met a man who loved her like this. It's a pity that she found out too late. When she came to know it later, he had already left in a car accident. But what she still didn't feel at ease with was that she was alone. Since that day, she has never looked down on anyone again because she has seen the most beautiful appearance of love."

"To be honest, if it weren't for her, I'd be afraid that I would come too, so I'll untie my knot. Your sister-in-law and I have already come to divorce. Today I will tell you this true story because I discovered that you have already thought of breaking up with Beibei." Kang Yu said clearly.

My cousin's silence undoubtedly proved what he judged. Kang Yu patted his cousin's shoulder and said, "Think about it carefully, you have experienced similar things once, and met a woman who doesn't know how to cherish you, but that doesn't mean that Beibei is the same. You just haven't come yet and learned how to accept her kindness to you."

"To be honest, I really regret not marrying your sister-in-law early. The feeling of having someone who can accompany me to face everything is really good and it is difficult to meet." After that, Kang Yu came to leave his cousin here and think about it carefully.

As for the pretentiousness of being in the face of blessings, he is very ineligible, because he was exactly the same as his cousin, and he was in many things, and he was in the face of blessings. Therefore, he experienced more things than others. After going around, he found that everything he wanted was at the beginning.

As soon as I turned around, I met a daughter who found her. Everything was around me. I never had to look for it deliberately. I just needed to take a step to discover it. Just like now I am enjoying the happiness of having my daughter full of her arms.

He heard his daughter come and asked aggrievedly, "Dad, where have you been?" Xin Xinnian Nian came to find him.

Kang Yu came to tell his daughter with a distressed heart: "Dad just went to pick up the guests."

The baby who knew it was getting better now and came to snuggle in his father's arms, and wanted to make up for all the sweetness that had just come.

Looking at the baby's dependence in his arms, Kang Yu couldn't help but look back and told his cousin with emotion: "When you are delaying some time, it may be too late. Time is very fair. Every minute and every second you waste is needed to double your compensation, and it may not be enough."

"Of course, I'm not asking you to learn to be at ease. The relatives you meet now are quite real, so don't worry too much, but no matter who comes to help you, when you learn to accept, you must first do it and make people worth it. You must be clear that people's kindness and trust are the most unwilling to live up to you. Remember that when you can't do anything, it's okay for someone to come to help you understand you, but if you don't do it yourself, it's your own problem. No wonder others will come to see you." Kang Yu emphasized.

"What about you, cousin?" Yan Zhengyu wanted to know a little.

Kang Yu said proudly with a slightly raised corner of his mouth: "Who do I need to help me now? It's basically a favor and a exchange of interests. Now it's more about whether I want to help others." Of course, that doesn't include my daughter.

As he said that, Kang Yu came to look at the daughter in his arms and first added a fragrant fragrance. The other fallen ones will be filled with the daughter in a while. He hugged her daughter and went to have a snack first.

As soon as I talked to the baby in my arms, the baby who was a little aggrieved was immediately energetic when he heard this, but I was looking forward to asking, "What are dads eating?"

Kang Yu, who didn't know, could only say to his daughter first: "Many babies love to eat."

As soon as the baby heard this, he immediately asked his father, "Do you have any cakes? Do you have intestines? Do you have any buns?" Look at the attitude, but it's not over.

Kang Yu said smartly: "But if the baby knew it now, wouldn't there be no surprises?"

When I heard it was a surprise, the baby was so happy that he covered his mouth. He couldn't ask anymore, he liked surprises the most.

Before Kang Yu could get over there, he heard his daughter come and ask, "Is there a lot of skills or a little?"

Kang Yu didn't know about this problem, and came to tell his daughter, "Of course it's a lot of people."

I confirmed this, but the baby who was looking forward to it came to urge him to "Dad, go quickly", eager to come and see what surprises are waiting for the baby.
Chapter completed!