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Chapter 341 Family Trivia

With her elder brothers and husband away, Lu Songli consciously took on the responsibility of being a parent.

Lu Songli said hello to her fourth sister-in-law, Su, before starting to deal with the matter.

The cause of the matter is very simple. Third uncle Qin Zhao asked someone to bring back some toys, and her mother-in-law casually distributed them to her three daughters-in-law, asking them to share them with their children.

As for her fourth sister-in-law, she took two toys. After the children came to school, she casually gave the older one to Qin Dan and the younger one to Qin Bin.

When they broke up, Qin Bin wanted the older one, but her fourth sister-in-law refused because he was an older brother and wanted to give up his younger brother.

Later, the children played together, and soon the two brothers started fighting.

Her fourth sister-in-law was very angry. After pulling the two away, she lectured the older Qin Bin, saying that he was ignorant and so on.

Qin Bin couldn't help but talk back, saying that she was partial, which made her cry with anger.

At this time, Qin Jia came to her and said secretly, "Sixth cousin, don't scold the fourth cousin. In fact, outside, the fourth cousin is very protective of the seventh cousin. But every time the seventh cousin is injured, the fourth aunt will always scold him."

Cousin, he said he didn’t protect his seventh cousin well.”

"Okay, Aunt Six knows. You can go back to your room."

Lu Songli thought for a while and knocked on Qin Bin's door first.

Now the Qin family occupies a total of three rows of bungalows, and the children also have their own rooms.

A young but alert voice came from inside, "Who?"

Lu Songli was funny, this child was quite vigilant, "Your sixth aunt."

There was silence in the room.

She wasn't in a hurry either.

After a while, a rustling sound came from the room, and soon the door was slowly opened, and a little head poked out.

Qin Bin was relieved to see that his sixth aunt was the only one outside.

"Aunt Six, come in."

Lu Songli noticed that his eyes were red.

After Qin Bin returned to the room, he sat on a chair and read a book.

After Lu Songli chose a seat and sat down, she waved to him, "Come, talk to Aunt Six."

"Sixth Aunt, I haven't finished memorizing the book Master asked me to memorize."

"Okay, I'm not here to scold you. There's no need to be so defensive about me. By the way, has Aunt Six scolded you?"

Qin Bin thought for a while and shook his head. Aunt Six had never scolded anyone before.

So, Qin Bin walked over slowly.

"Did you fight with your brother today?"

"Yeah." Qin Bin replied in a low voice, with a look of obvious resistance on his face.

Lu Songli asked him, "Did you win? Or did you lose? After the fight, were you happy?"

Qin Bin lowered his head. In fact, after the beating, he felt depressed all the time.

"I think what you did was quite stupid."

Qin Bin was stunned. Aunt Six said he was stupid, didn't she mean he was wrong?

"You are older than Qin Dan. If you win, it is called victory without force. If you lose, I will ask you if you are embarrassed?"

Lu Songli didn't judge him from the perspective of right or wrong. Qin Bin's guard was suddenly lowered. He thought about her words seriously. Was it really like this?

"My brother is so annoying. He knows that I like that wooden horse that can move, and he keeps beating it. He doesn't cherish it at all."

"What's the point of your fight?"

Qin Bin hesitated.

Lu Songli understood, she just felt that his mother was partial and treated her younger brother better than him.

"After this fight, did you get what you wanted?"

Qin Binxin said, no.

"After the beating, you said some words that made your mother cry. Knowing that your mother is sad, won't you be sad?"

Qin Bin: He can.

"So, if we say these angry words, besides hurting others and ourselves, we have not achieved our goal, right?"

Qin Bin nodded, then he hesitated and humbly asked, "Aunt Six, what should I do?"

"Your current attitude and behavior are very good. As children, it is normal for you to desire the attention, affirmation and love of your parents and elders."

"Between relatives, if we have any requests, we can say them directly, or use some methods to achieve our goals tactfully. It's okay. If you have a way, use your own way. If you don't have a way, just use it.

The attitude of a weak person is to hit the ball straight." As the saying goes, sincerity is always the last resort, and a child who can cry will be fed.

"Aunt Six, what does hitting a straight ball mean?"

"Just express your feelings directly. For example, for today's matter, you can directly tell your mother that you like the moving wooden horse very much. If possible, ask her to give it to you. Or discuss it with your brother.

, give him anything in exchange, instead of saying nothing and keeping your worries in your heart."

"Also, Aunt Six also knows that you took your brother out to play, and he was injured, and you were scolded by your mother. I will tell your mother later. Aunt Six knows that your brother is injured, and you are also very sad. More

Know that it is not your obligation to take care of your younger brother. If you are willing to take care of your younger brother, that is your responsibility as an older brother, and you have done a great job."

Qin Bin cried and nodded, indicating that he understood.

Qin Bin cried for a long time, crying out all the grievances and sadness in his heart.

Lu Songli stood quietly on the side, occasionally handing him a handkerchief.

Lu Songli did not blame the child as soon as he came up, saying that this was wrong or that was wrong, and then made the mother sad or something. Everything has a cause and effect, and it may be the behavior of adults that inadvertently hurt the child.

It’s the first time for everyone, so do parents feel superior to others?

When Qin Bin stopped crying, he became very embarrassed.

Lu Songli knew that he had settled the matter, so she also made a request to him, "Promise Aunt Six that when you are angry, you will say as few bad words as possible. Aunt Six is ​​not afraid that your words will hurt others, but that she is worried about you."

You will regret it if you calm down."

They have all had children. In fact, as the child's body grows, the hormones in the body are always unbalanced, and the ability to control emotions is suddenly high and low. But Lu Songli still hopes that he can control it as much as possible.

"Okay." Qin Bin agreed.

Lu Songli knew that this child was serious about his promises and would try his best to fulfill his promise once he promised, "Then let's talk about this?"

"Well, Aunt Six, are you tired? Go back and rest quickly."

"Then Aunt Six will leave. Don't forget to endorse it."

Qin Bin:...That's just his excuse.

After Lu Songli left Qin Bin, she went to her fourth sister-in-law and told her that Qin Bin was fine.

"Sixth brother and sister, thank you, I'm really sorry for troubling you." Su Shi felt very embarrassed.

She and her second sister-in-law and sister-in-law both knew that her sixth sister-in-law worked in the county governor's house, which was a secret in the Qin family. At the same time, she was also very busy, and her mother-in-law and they tried not to bother her with trivial matters at home.

"Fourth sister-in-law, we are a family, there is no need to be so open to outsiders." Lu Songli found that Qin Dan was already fast asleep on her fourth sister-in-law's couch.

This time the problem was solved, but Su was still worried. A seven or eight-year-old boy was at the age when cats hate dogs, so she was worried about the fight.

When Lu Songli heard the source of her worries, she thought for a while and said, "Sister-in-law Fourth, in fact, if you want to unite the two brothers, it is not impossible."

I heard Qin Sheng say that Qin Dan looks very much like his dead fourth brother. The fourth sister-in-law's partiality should be unconscious. To correct this unconsciousness, just pointing it out is not enough. You have to use another method.

Su asked hurriedly, "What can we do?"

She knew that her sixth brother and sister were resourceful, and it would be great if she could give her an idea.

"Artificially create a common enemy for them and let them face the outside world in unison." If Qin Ming were still alive, it would actually be best for him, the father, to play this role.

Su Shi seemed to understand, "Sixth brother and sister, please explain in detail?"
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