Chapter 991 Marriage is for two people
Cheng Tianyuan retorted: "When you think he is the husband of any other family, he is the husband of any other family. You completely ignore him, ignore him, and even drive him away. Then he is gone now, isn't this just for your wish?"
Cheng Tianfang was speechless again, and after a while, he muttered: "I was so angry at that time. That bastard didn't listen to me, and he didn't say anything, so he almost pissed me off!"
"Are you less angry at him?" Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "You couple are still arguing less? He is angry at you, you are angry at him, what have you two got? I ask you, what have you got?"
"That-" Cheng Tianfang whispered in embarrassment: "What else can I do..."
Cheng Tianyuan sneered: "Since it's nothing, then why are you angry about him? Ah? Cheng Tianfang, when will you have a ruler in your heart, think about things carefully and measure things well?"
Cheng Tianfang rolled his eyes and whispered: "Brother, I'm too stressed. You said we've had children for so many years, especially in the second half of the year, I've been taking tonics almost every day. Life can't go on like this! What if I can't get pregnant, what should I do? I have to find the right measures to help, right? I'm angry that his family is a doctor who studies medicine, but he is afraid of medical treatment, which makes me angry to death!"
Cheng Tianyuan understood the whole story and said, "Your father-in-law and mother-in-law are also opposed. They are both expert doctors. They can't say it, why are you in a hurry? You are under great pressure, can't Ah Heng be under great pressure? If you expose all your anger, you will be right? Uncle Zhilan and aunt both said that this technology has indeed appeared for a long time, but you are still young, so don't worry too much, relax and wait. After a year or two, if it really doesn't work, then go to help this technology. They also said that the longer the time, the more advanced the technology will be, and it will be better at that time."
"I-I was already upset about waiting, and I asked me to wait?" Cheng Tianfang said irritably: "Brother, I'm not young anymore! Do you know?! They asked me to give birth to a child anxiously, but they still asked me to wait?! Don't you think this is very contradictory?"
Cheng Tianyuan was angry and put down the chopsticks.
"You are still a person who has studied. Why don't you listen to you? Do you still have a brain? If you have any, think about it carefully. Everyone hopes that you will get pregnant soon, but no one will force you. Uncle Zhilan and aunt are both gentle and considerate people, but I have never heard them say they want to force you. Ah Heng analyzes you, but you don't listen. I analyze it for you, but you don't listen. Since you can't listen, get out of here now! Don't bother me!"
"Brother!" Cheng Tianfang's eyes turned red and he hummed: "Are you still my brother?! We are biological brothers and sisters, right? Why don't you help me?"
Cheng Tianyuan said calmly, "What should I call helping you? I listen to you and let you do whatever you want, so I call helping you?! Do you have no brains to think about it?! You are my dear sister, but I still scold you for you - is it all someone else's fault? My big brother's fault?! If I weren't for your own good, I wouldn't be too lazy to speak. I'm not a nosy person. If you were someone else, I would ignore you!"
Cheng Tianfang cried and whispered: "Brother, I... I may be under too much pressure. Sorry, I feel dizzy every day and don't know what I want to do, what to do, and what to do."
Cheng Tianyuan lowered his eyes and said in a deep voice: "You are not a child. When you are a child, your father has trouble working. Mom is busy every day. I have to study and take care of you, and I have to help do housework with the family. Although our family is poor, you have never let you be hungry for a whole day. What do you have in the village have? Parents would rather suffer themselves than never let you suffer a little. But what about you? What do you look like? Fortunately, you stopped, turned to goodbye and started over again. But after only a few years of comfort, your nature was revealed again."
"I...I don't." Cheng Tianfang quipped.
Cheng Tianyuan sighed: "Whether there is or not, you think it carefully in your heart. I don't want to argue with you. You need to read and study from time to time to suppress your irritability and selfishness."
Cheng Tianfang looked around and asked, "Brother, is he really not here?"
"I've gone abroad." Cheng Tianyuan replied: "He said you're annoyed and angry when you see him. He was not happy when he saw you, and planned to take this opportunity to go out for a walk and relax. I also advised him to change the environment and feel a little different, and hope to recover as soon as possible."
Cheng Tianfang was a little surprised and asked, "Have you gone abroad? Is he going far? Then when will he come back?"
"The return date is not yet determined." Cheng Tianyuan replied: "It must be that he will be relieved and come back after he finishes his work. Don't you want to see him? Now, let's spend the New Year alone, so as to avoid getting bothered and angry when you see each other."
Cheng Tianfang's face was not very good and whispered: "It's not... what you said is so serious. I just got angry with him."
"But he is already very serious." Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "The relationship between people is the most inability to withstand the struggle and hurt. When people live together, they must accommodate each other and understand each other. If they cannot do it, unless it is the parents who treat their children, otherwise others will not be able to stand it. Parents and children are loved by their children, because their children are their inheritance of life and part of their lives, so they have to love them and are willing to tolerate and accommodate them blindly for their children. But husband and wife are different. They are two people in equal positions, and no matter whether they are accommodated, they will eventually lose balance. Even if they have deep love, they cannot withstand repeated imbalances. The love between men and women will sooner or later lose their strength. The years of time pass and wear, and it will sooner or later be a dullness in daily life. If you don't maintain this relationship well, you will lose him sooner or later."
Cheng Tianfang sobbed softly and whispered: "Brother, I was wrong."
"You are more than this time." Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "It's just that you know your mistakes and don't correct them. What's the use of knowing your mistakes? What's the use of your actions and mouths? Girl, please reflect on yourself. Don't always rely on the fact that others love you and your husband, you can do whatever you want. The relationship between husband and wife can be as deep as the sea. Once it breaks down, it may be an "ex-husband" or "ex-wife" that you will never see again in your life."
Cheng Tianfang's lips were stammering, but she couldn't speak.
She didn't know what to say, but it seemed that everything she said was wrong. The eldest brother was right because what she said and what she did was completely incompatible.
Cheng Tianyuan turned around and cleaned the dining table and said in a low voice: "Don't think that my sister-in-law and I have always had a good relationship, so I don't have to worry about anything. Everything depends on management and dedication, and marriage is the same. Your sister-in-law is busy making money, and I must also make money. I have always had a gap between me and her, but I want to strive not to be too far away from her and not let the gap spread us. She is busy outside, so I am busy at home. I never care about housework with her, and she never cares about money with me. If I am petty, or I do masculinity, do you think your sister-in-law can stand it? She accommodates me poorer than her, and I accommodates her and does not do much housework. Everyone has been living a good life while understanding and accommodating each other. Girl, marriage belongs to two people, not to you. You should take it yourself."
Chapter completed!