【2453】remember yourself
It is different after reading. It turns out that her father seems to be more indifferent to her affairs at home, and her mother is more anxious. It is not because her family’s situation is special. In most families, men’s reactions are different from those of women and their performance is more calm. This is consistent with the statement of obstetric fathers.
"The next step is loneliness."
Family members are also lonely. Isn’t it surprising? How can the patient’s family members be lonely if they are not sick?
"Family members accompanying the patient, and they need to support the patient, but if no one supports the family, the family is actually fighting alone in society." Li Yaxi said this and thought of his mother's reality of escaping her hospitalization in the past and not coming to the hospital to accompany her, for fear that this is the reason. In addition, the third psychological characteristics of the family members to be discussed below are panic.
Don’t think that only patients will be afraid of life and death. The fear of family members facing their family’s death is unimaginable to outsiders. It is not that they will die, but watching their family members die is like a soldier who sees his comrades die in front of him.
It can be said that life is afraid of loneliness, and loneliness and panic coexist.
Another common clinical sentiment is the "hostility" that Zhang Li and Liu Jinyin show today.
Is it even more surprising?
Hostility is a common family psychological characteristic of clinical profession. Don’t blame clinical teachers for this long ago because they understand science.
First of all, hostility is definitely related to cognition. Those who do not study medicine have a relatively one-sided understanding of medicine, and some inexplicable rumors spread and smear, and some families themselves have weak resistance to stress. Based on the above three other factors, it is too easy to turn it into hostility. Moreover, hostility may not be targeted at medical staff.
Analyzing these psychological states is beneficial for humans to see themselves clearly like looking in a mirror. Researchers believe that humans are not awakening themselves, but are often confused in the maze.
"Doctor Xie, have you seen other prominent psychological characteristics of family members in clinical practice? Your doctors have more patients, so they should be clearer." Li Yaxi asked. Her research goal is to uncover more psychological problems of family members. The earlier the problem is discovered, the earlier you can intervene to avoid tragedies similar to her.
The patient's family affects the patient's mentality.
The tutor said that in pediatrics, whether it is a patient or family member, it is easier for them to expose their emotions and psychological problems than adult wards.
The other party’s question reminded Xie Wanying of herself at the first time. She is also a patient’s family member, and a reborn patient’s family member. Her biggest psychological characteristic is: guilt.
Is she the only family member of the patient who feels guilty? It is definitely not. It can always be seen in clinical practice, and parents who have children cry and say sorry in pediatrics.
"Yes!" Li Yaxi was awakened by her words and said, "I met a child in the ward today and said sorry. I thought she was saying sorry to the child, but the result was not yet."
The guilt of the family not only makes the patient feel sick, but also makes the other family members feel guilty, and even the "stranger". Who is this "stranger" and is the donor.
Chapter completed!