Chapter 821 + Chapter 822
Chapter 821:
"Xiao Han! I heard that you have had a very unhappy relationship with Chu Zheng recently?" He Zhixiang looked at Han Zihe with a smile, "I even heard that you two are about to have a divorce?... But! I don't think so, look, if there is something wrong with the Chu family, Xiao Chen'er will come to you and invite you without much effort. It can be seen that you are still thinking about Chu Zheng in your heart!"
"..." Han Zihe heard it and joined Chen Duo to go to her home to find her, and there was also the ingredients to test her?
"Don't blame me for taking care of it too much! I think, maybe in your heart, what happened to you and Chu Zheng, that's the business of you and your family, and I, an outsider, shouldn't be involved in it, right?" He Zhixiang still asked with a smile.
But Han Zihe couldn't listen with a smile.
"Xiao Han, what I want to say is that now the society is becoming more and more impetuous, and the marriages of young people have become the norm, and people of our age don't like this kind of thing, but they can't help it. After all, how to live is the freedom of everyone, and others cannot interfere. However, Xiao Han, your marriage is not just a private matter between you and Chu Zheng, because Chu Zheng is not an ordinary person, he is a soldier who defends his country!"
He Zhixiang sighed: "Just like when you two get married, Chu Zheng wants to apply for the army. Even if you divorce, he has to apply for me! Xiao Han, I will tell you a brief moment. Even if he dares to take out the divorce application, I dare to tear him on the spot! There is no other reason. You two have emotional foundations, and your emotions have not broken down, and there is nothing else that cannot be forgiven! Just because the morality of his family is flawed, will he deny him completely? You have never considered your own true feelings. Have you ever cared about Chu Zheng's feelings?
Can he bear it?...Xiao Han, you and Chu Zheng are not newlyweds anymore. You have a certain understanding of his work. His work is not simple, but requires full dedication and concentration. The warmth and harmony of the family will play a positive and upward driving force for his work and his contribution to the country.
On the contrary, a discordant marriage life, or, in layman's terms, is awkward, and in his mind, all he thinks about is how to win back you, how frustrated, and how wronged you are, naturally unnatural, intentionally or unintentionally, will have an impact on his work.
Xiao Han, you know that often a small mistake can easily prevent him from coming back! ... And is that the ending you want to see?"
After saying so much, He Zhixiang breathed a long sigh and said earnestly: "Why do we call military wives a great person in propaganda? Not only are military wives more willing to be lonely and dedicated than ordinary wives; more importantly, the existence of you military wives warms your husbands while making the country's sharp blade more restrained and steady, and accumulates energy! Only soldiers without worries will be more thorough and devoted to the defense of the country, the defense of the people, and contribute to the family and the country... And behind our praises, what accompanies you is loneliness, grievance, and self-reliance."
"Xiao Han! I am not a soldier who is biased towards me. If Chu Zheng really does something that is sorry for you, or he is a bastard! No need to say, I will kick him first, and then carry him to sign with you! Really, I, Lao He, do you do what I say! But, I'll ask here, Xiao Han, is Chu Zheng not sorry for you? Or, in terms of feelings, don't you feel any pain?"
He Zhixiang's words made Han Zihe silent.
After two people have lived for a long time, their love is still strong in time, but what they have is not just love, but also family affection like a trickle of streams, accumulating feelings in life.
Until now, there is not only one Zhanzhan between her and Chu Zheng, but more importantly, the fusion of you and me is the me.
That kind of fusion of the spiritual world that influences each other, until now, it is said to peel off and then peel off. How can it not hurt?
What she wanted to do was just to cut the mess with a quick knife. It was better to have a short pain than long pain.
It was just what she could do after she forced herself out of her rationality and stopped the loss in time.
I don’t know if it was a subconscious escape before, or if I had never gotten married in my previous life and had no experience in dealing with military marriage, so she was just a theoretical concept and accidentally ignored her divorce from Chu Zheng, and had to pass the report level.
It is obvious that He Zhixiang, as the applicant for the report, did not agree to their divorce.
It was agreed that he was just a formality to make a report, but why did he get serious when he got here? ← Han Zihe's heart was always firm, and suddenly, a crack appeared for no reason.
Whether to kick Chu Zheng away is a question!
He Zhixiang didn't mind Han Zihe's silence at all. In his opinion, the silence was nothing more than being unable to listen, escaping himself, having nothing to say, and being shaken.
Considering his previous understanding of Han Zihe, his understanding of his subordinates, and his own eloquence, He Zhixiang believes that he has reason to believe that Han Zihe's silence is actually a shake of his previous decisions!
"Xiao Han, after saying the righteous words, let's talk about the old sayings. If you want to divorce, have you ever thought about your child? The growth of a child is inseparable from the company of your biological parents!" He Zhixiang continued to play the emotional card, "Even if you arrange a man and a woman to take care of the child like a normal family, unless the child does not know the truth, he will not be able to grow up healthily like a child in a normal family...
I'm not an exaggeration! Xiao Han, you are a knowledgeable person, you should be able to tell whether what I said is true or false, is there any reason, right?...I know, if the child is lost, you are anxious, and you don't cry or make a fuss, that is because your psychological quality is strong! But have you ever thought that when the child comes back safely, facing a broken family, the child asks you for a father, what do you say?
If the child asks you: Mom, where are you going? Why don’t you go home, why don’t you live with us? What do you say?... When the child grows up and knows that you decided to divorce Chu Zheng after the child disappears, what will he think? Do you want him to be guilty for the rest of his life?
What's more, don't think that Zhan Zhan is only over six years old and is really just a child. Not to mention that he is a villain, even ordinary children outside are all young and have troubles in their hearts! You and Chu Zheng are happy and harmonious, and the child sees it in his eyes and feels clear!"
Chapter 822:
"Xiao Han, we can't just let the child come out and face a broken family! This can easily cause great harm to the child's physical and mental health, and impact the child's outlook on life, world view, values, and even marriage. It can easily cause extremes or deformities in the child's concept, which is not conducive to the child's happy and sunny growth.
You also know that a person's character shaping has a crucial impact on his life, and an incomplete family will have an unstable impact on the child's character shaping and personality itinerary... The shortcomings that are visible in the open are not scary, but are invisible and intangible, but are lurking in the dark and may explode at any time!
Many children who go astray come from imperfect families! Both the father and mother of the child have an unshirkable responsibility and an indispensable impact on the child's growth. Have you not considered this deeply?
Have you ever thought about it? If one day Zhan Zhan becomes apart because you two separate... Xiao Han, don't think what I say is bad or unlucky, I ask you, what if Zhan Zhan becomes a member of the military identity of Chu Zheng one day? How to face him? How can Chu Zheng face him? Ah?
People cannot create problems for themselves, and cannot set obstacles for their future! What do you think?"
What a good guy, He Zhixiang is indeed a political commissar. His endless persuasion has actually imagined that he has become a dangerous element because of their divorce!
Although Han Zihe doesn't like listening to the words behind He Zhixiang, she is not a person who doesn't listen to others. She is deeply frightened by the possibility that He Zhixiang gave and made her unwilling to hear them.
Yes, she is not willing to even think about this possibility, and she wants to vent violently. So, if one day, there is such a possibility, what should she do?
"Xiao Han! I have also cared about the crux of you and Chu Zheng. I think there is no problem with you and him, and there is no fundamental conflict! Then, what you and him do not want to be entangled or even tired is the Chu family, right?"
He Zhixiang became more and more confident the more he said, "I have learned that the Chu family once snatched the quota for Zhanzhan to go to school? Well, from the information I saw, their family is indeed unauthorized. But I also know that although that incident made you stay away from the Chu family, it did not cause any emotional rifts in the relationship between you two. You plan to divorce, should you just take your anger? Or, more appropriately, it was actually what you urgently wanted to get rid of the trouble, a one-size-fits-all move, right?"
"If this is true, I think I will make you guarantee you!" He Zhixiang's words made Han Zihe raise his head in confusion. She didn't understand why He Zhixiang had the confidence to make guarantees for Chu Zheng.
"Don't get me wrong. I'm not making a guarantee for Chu Zheng!" He Zhixiang saw the confusion in Han Zihe's eyes, and immediately explained with a smile, "I'm making a guarantee with you in the name of the army as the leader of Chu Zheng! Listen to me?
First of all, the entry and exit of our military district is indeed too unrigorous. I discussed with the relevant leaders and will soon issue corresponding measures and regulations, requiring that people entering and leaving must have entry and exit documents. Otherwise, even whose relatives are, they can only go to the lounge to wait for people from the military district to pick them up."
He made it clear that Han Zihe would not be easy for Chu’s father and mother to come to their home in the military district at will in the future.
"Secondly, I will give Chu Zheng some educational criticism. As a man, when dealing with the relationship between his wife and his parents, I cannot completely compromise, escape, and coax them from both sides as a means. I should distinguish right from wrong, and there should be some areas where there should be a bottom line! At least, I can't make good people sad, right?"
His words were obviously venting his anger for Han Zihe. Although Han Zihe knew that he could not do it completely, he felt much more comfortable.
"Of course, the most important thing is that we can guarantee that if Chu Zheng's method or your alienation makes the two elders of the Chu family dissatisfied and make trouble in the army, our leaders will still have the ability to distinguish. They will not have a bad impression of Chu Zheng or deal with it because they will cry or make a loud noise! They will also pay attention to controlling the influence and ensure Chu Zheng's future and development as much as possible!... Haha, of course, I think you and Chu Zheng should also have confidence in our army and leaders! Not to mention Chu Zheng's previous contributions, it is his own, his knowledge, experience, level, ability, and his rare talent as a talent. The army will do its best to protect and protect!"
He Zhixiang's words surprised Han Zihe. She didn't expect that He Zhixiang could be guaranteed to be so.
She believed that the political commissar of the army would not speak too much, and that they also believed that they cherish talents. However, after he said this, he really drove her to the air and made her unshakable.
"Xiao Han, please relax a little, don't be too psychologically stressed." He Zhixiang said almost everything he should say, and then smiled, "Think about what I said, adults, getting married and having children, can't be as willful as children, and don't think too much about themselves. They have to consider parents and children, and have to shoulder corresponding social responsibilities... It's not easy for people! But there is no way, what should be paid is still something to pay. After all, if you endure the awkward moment, what you get is long-lasting happiness and family happiness... Although we are not businessmen, if you think about this deal, anyone will think it's a good deal, right?"
Haha, he told all the good and bad things. What else can Han Zihe say besides nodding?
However, what he said did make Han Zihe think unconsciously.
It is probably because the energy has passed, and Han Zihe's rationality has returned to his position, so she can also consider some things calmly.
For example, is she really unable to survive with Chu Zheng?
For example, how could she face the questions that might arise in Zhan Zhan in the future?
For example, if she was so persistent in separating from Chu Zheng, would her parents continue to worry?
For example, after she did this, what should she do next?
For example, after she and Chu Zheng divorced, will Zhan Zhan’s growth be really affected? Will Han Pin also blame himself secretly?
For example, if she is really separated from Chu Zheng, will she... regret it in the future?
Chapter completed!