Chapter 123 Jin Ping's Past
"What's the marriage of your child?" Conan asked Yoon Hyun-in.
"We decided on the marriage of my eldest daughter. It would be impossible not to decide. If a girl is old or not, it is a grudge. She will get married anyway. If she doesn't read books well, she will make trouble with the gangsters every day. If she gets married, we will feel at ease." Yin Xianren said.
"Will she?" Conan asked.
"I'm willing! She's still eager. She's been together in private long ago." Yoon Hyun-in said.
"Really?" Conan asked.
"What are you doing to lie to you? The young people today are not from our era. They are very open and many people live together without marriage." Yoon Hyun-in said.
Conan heard from Yoon Hyun-in that his family had three children, two daughters, one son, and two girls at the end. In the middle was a son, a treasure for the housekeeping, and the one who passed on the incense was passed on. The Yin family had a descendant and inherited the task, and more than half of it was completed.
The daughter is just a son. The eldest daughter is naughty by nature, loves to play with guns and sticks, and looks like a boy. She often forms gangs at school, and she is very majestic and no one dares to mess with her, including her family.
I am worried about raising a son but not raising a daughter. I worry more about raising a daughter. If I make a bad boyfriend, the woman will suffer the most in the end. I may have to pay more for his girlfriend and family more, so I won’t lose anything in my body.
Since the eldest daughter was unruly, like a small wild horse that was out of control, she could only let go. Seeing that their relationship was not like a joke, Yin Xianren and his wife agreed. In the end, Yin Xianren urged him to get married so that he would not have many dreams. In fact, at that time, his eldest daughter had already had a situation. If she didn't get married, she would be able to look up in the village if she didn't get married again and was seen by her neighbors.
For traditional people, the elderly, or those with religious backgrounds, this phenomenon of pregnancy before marriage is a shame to our ancestors. In the old society, people with strict ethics would be executed, and those who are indecent customs would definitely be severely punished, such as execution, and there are many ways to die, such as putting them in a pig cage and sinking into a pond.
Recently, the village where Yin Xianren is located is going to build a large-scale construction, build a ancestral hall and gather participants. All descendants of the Yin family have to contribute money and efforts to build a temple dedicated to their ancestors.
Yin Xianren couldn't go back to help, he had to pay for money, and because he claimed that he believed in the Lord, he could not pay for the money to be an idol. In this way, everyone could do nothing to him. As for the idol, he thought he was the tablet of his ancestors and could not worship him. Since he did not worship, he would not have to organize the building tablets. That money would be left to his two brothers.
His brother was generous and soon made a promise to pay, and even their brother's share was recognized. In this way, through Yin Xianren's efforts and arrangements, he gained a good reputation in front of people and received rewards from God. Everyone was very happy.
Basically, Yin Xianren was not worried about anything, and the ancestral halls at home were completed. His thoughts were concluded.
After his eldest daughter got married, she soon gave birth to a son, which means he had a nephew and was promoted to a grandfather. After giving birth, her daughter changed and was no longer as crazy as before. Instead, she revolved around the child and was relieved. Her husband also went out to work honestly and stopped interacting with gangsters.
Next, there are Yin Xianren's son and young daughter. His son is very honest and steady. Unlike Jin Ping's youngest son, he looks honest, but in fact he has a lot of intestines. He always has to find ways to get something from others, destroy things that he can't move, take away what everyone owns, and find ways to make the other party uncomfortable, so that he can be happy. He pretends to be like him on the surface, but in fact, he is just thinking about something bad in his heart. If he belongs to the type, he is considered a repressed and sexy type.
Yoon Hyun-in was relieved when his son was like this. He would not cause trouble when fighting outside. He seemed to be unconscious about men and women. He was not in love before he could do it. Anyway, he was still young and had the opportunity to choose. Getting married in a hurry and combining hastily will only regret the rest of his life and there is no more myrrh.
His family is different from the Jinping family. Jinping's family is on a high place, just below the old house of Yin Xianren's family, and there is a road leading to the old house. In order to occupy more land and use it as a rice farm to make rice, Jinping surrounded half of the road. In this way, it is not so convenient for Yin Xianren to go to the old house. That is to say, every time she goes home, she walks either by the road, or by the rice farm, or by the threshing farm, which belongs to someone's private venue, making her look like a sneaky person.
Although Kim Ping came to work at the Mars Foundation and was recommended by Yoon Hyun-in, Kim Ping was not grateful and thought it was someone else who was secretly helping, not Yoon Hyun-in's credit. Yoon Hyun-in regretted it. You should know why do you have to do this now? It is better not to introduce Kim Ping, or it is better to introduce others. At least, feed a dog some food, and the dog will shake its tail and give Kim Ping good. Not only is it not grateful, but it is targeting Yoon Hyun-in everywhere and wants to be unable to get along with Yoon Hyun-in.
With the past grudges and the occupation of this section of the road, Yoon Hyun-in has reached the limit of patience.
Fortunately, his wife dissuaded him not to be too excited, and put the overall situation first and not to be as knowledgeable as a woman. Jin Ping is a woman, so why bother to make herself angry, but she is like she is fine.
This is why Yoon Hyun-in is smart. He quickly forgot about this matter and stopped being petty. Sometimes he can’t help but make a statement in front of Conan and complain.
When Jinping was young, she saw that her husband was very fickle. She often rode bicycles, carried a camera, and took photos everywhere. The young women liked taking photos very much, so she looked forward to him. Some even took his bicycle and went for a ride. When Jinping learned about this letter, she felt panicked.
Jin Ping was known to her father and her husband's father, and the parents of both parties decided to get engaged. But there was no ceremony. Jin Ping knew in her heart that she was his person. Who knew, but he was restless and not interested in crop work, but he was always unemployed and always thought about light things.
He can tolerate anything else, but just doing photography is not possible! This profession can be lifted from women on a large scale. If Jinping doesn't take action, someone will take it first. Jinping will come to the door, throw herself into her arms, and stick to her husband every day, so her husband can't go out. Not long after, Jinping became pregnant and returned to her parents' home.
I agreed to her husband for the wedding day, and then I walked in with a whisper. Less than two months after entering the door, Jinping's first child was born. It was a girl!
Is this over? No, if you don’t have a son, you will be laughed at in the countryside. If you don’t have a son, it means that it’s useless to marry a wife. Of course, Jin Ping is unwilling to fail!
The local girl was despised, so she gave birth again, and this time she got her wish. Jinping was called "rabbit" by the locals. Because everyone understands that only rabbits can give birth to a bunny in a month. Jinping won less than two months into the door and gave birth to a baby. At that time, it was spread all over the countryside. She knew it well. At that time, people did not fully accept rabbits. They thought that she was a disabled person and had to take the lead and pregnant before marriage. She was more anxious than healthy people. She thought that the Yin family should not accept such a wife, but the truth was gone, and the rice was cooked into cooked rice. She had to accept this fact. However, Jinping's image was greatly reduced, which implicated her husband and was also looked down upon. She didn't say anything in person, but was always pointed at by others behind her back.
Although Jinping's legs were a bit inconvenient, according to herself, she accidentally fell into a big ditch when she was a child. She didn't go to a big hospital and encountered a quack doctor who didn't get the legs properly, and she suffered from sequelae and was regarded as a disabled person. However, she did not think so. Instead, she thought she was a healthy person. She regarded herself as a healthy person everywhere and always wanted to surpass others to be comfortable.
When the villagers knew that she was competitive, they tolerated her and did not care about her. Jin Ping regarded not calculating with herself as her own victory. Instead, she seemed to be higher than others everywhere. She was originally from the countryside and a woman, but she did not think she was a rural woman. Instead, she gave people the impression that she was more fashionable and tasteful than women in the city.
However, if a smart person doesn't say it in person, he knows in his heart that such tricks that want to cover up are so common. Just like a person has pleats on his face, he throws powder on it and makes layers after layer. As long as it doesn't rain, it's okay. When it rains and waters, it will definitely be a big face. She doesn't know this truth, and everyone around her knows it.
No one reminded her! Except Yoon Hyun-in.
Yoon Hyun-in considered that she was a fellow villager and he introduced her. He gave her a kind reminder out of real concern. During the meeting, Conan saw it very clearly. But Kim Ping took it as a warning and did not take Yoon Hyun-in seriously. She did not even take Yoon Hyun-in as dry food.
Yoon Hyun-in was sad and ignored him. Sometimes, Yoon Hyun-in couldn't hold it in, and he kindly reminded him, but it was still useless.
After that, no one mentioned it.
Among the ladies working in the unit, only Jinping wore platinum earrings, platinum rings with middle fingers on her left, gold rings with middle fingers on her right, and gold necklaces on her neck. Unfortunately, in winter, they are dressed thickly and cannot be seen, but in summer, they must have gold and silver. They are very fashionable and look like staff, which is very different from the village woman. This is the effect she pursues. The more she lacks, the more she needs to be whitewashed, shows, and covers.
Conan reminded her that married ladies should wear rings on their ring fingers, but she didn't listen, but she would still be the same. Since she didn't listen, Conan stopped talking, so as not to talk and complain. She was willing to wear all ten fingers on rings. No one reminded her, no one cares, and she would be laughed at by others, and it was nothing. She was still her, and she didn't lose two pounds of meat.
Jinping gave birth to a son in her second child, and everyone in the family was very happy. Unexpectedly, her sister-in-law gave birth to another daughter. She didn't agree. Why did you want one more daughter than me? I also gave birth to a daughter. As a result, she gave birth to a daughter in her third child. Should she be satisfied now? No, her sister-in-law gave birth to another son. She didn't agree. She had to ask for help from a fight in the countryside. How can a son be done? So, work hard and then give birth to another son, which turned out to be a younger son. Now she is better than her sister-in-law. She doesn't take care of the childbirth work, but she has to give birth to a rabbit. She has to study like a rabbit and have a nest to see who is better in the end.
The nickname of "rabbit" is not easy to get.
The common people say that it is very vivid. In that era, unmarried cohabitation was rare, not as common as it is now. She was already at the forefront of the times, which is also related to her competitive personality. After the competition, she competed for favor in front of the person in charge to see who can win the hearts and favor of the leader. The specific manifestation is that she can see who can not deduct points during the evaluation, but instead get points, and she usually gets some benefits from the person in charge, such as the old clothes brought back from Jianghai District, she can take action first and snatch the clothes. Even if she takes them home and sleeps at home, it is better than being snatched away by others.
This is the psychology that prompted her to act extremely brave when snatching clothes, and the person in charge was happy that she had such a big reaction to the clothes she brought in Jianghai District. The things she brought from thousands of miles away were not in vain. This is the psychology of a person. The gift she wanted to give was snatched by someone to ask for, which was a sense of accomplishment. She felt that her efforts were not in vain and that everyone could be happy. This feeling was the secret of giving more happiness than receiving. Only those who had participated in giving were given.
Jin Ping's psychology of playing with the person in charge has reached its peak. She even thought about the person in charge's eyes and small movements, and she could always gain the trust of the person in charge. This is beyond the reach of Chunyan from the city. Chunyan, like Yin Xianren, is both straightforward and quick-talking. The person in charge does not like people who come too fast, so being too smart will conceal the light of the leader's wisdom. Jin Ping grasps this very well. She always gives the person in charge a space to display her talents, so that the person in charge can play a role in command, and let the person in charge know his own price.
Value, this is the trick that Jin Ping used. Although Jin Ping had not graduated from elementary school, her interpersonal relationships were no less than those of graduate students. The graduate students had solid theoretical knowledge, but social knowledge needed to be learned continuously, and they might not be used after mastering it. This is where her ability lies. Her ability to curry favor with the person in charge is far greater than that of graduate students. Graduate students may be arrogant and think that it is great to be a graduate student, and look down on the person in charge. As a result, they will definitely not be reused by the person in charge. From this level, they are not as good as ordinary low-education or illiterate.
These make all the knowledgeable and insightful colleagues in the unit puzzled. Often, people like Jin Ping are the people who the person in charge wants to use the most. Because the biggest advantage of Jin Ping in the unit is to monitor others. In this way, Jin Ping becomes the eyes of the person in charge, staring at everyone. Whoever is loyal and cunning can tell the person in charge that if this continues, the person in charge is surrounded by cunning people. Because of loyalty, he has no relevant treatment. He is not as good as cunning people and always gets benefits.
A unit is like a country, and there are always differences between treacherous ministers and loyal ministers. Too many loyal ministers is boring and too much dull; too many treacherous ministers, the country will perish. It is best to have the same half, evenly match, so that each other can check and balance each other, and the person in charge can gain the benefits of the fisherman.
Jinping is not very educated, but she keeps her eyes on people, see how others spend money and how they use project funds, so as to report it secretly to the unit. It was nothing, but after she said it, many things would happen. The colleagues in charge of the project would have to spend a lot of verbal explanations. Over time, many colleagues were unwilling to work with Jinping. In fact, the one who is the most good at making trouble is Jinping, because she is used to making trouble, she is afraid that others will make trouble, and as a result, there will be ghost things without ghosts.
Chapter completed!