Chapter 175
"My ideal is to be a writer." Secretary Tian said. After saying this, she blushed and lowered her head, as if she had done something wrong.
"Do you like writing?" Conan asked.
"Yes, I like to write. People always have some ideals and always have dreams. Things that cannot be obtained in reality can be placed in words and get their own things. Just like dreaming, things that cannot be obtained in reality can be obtained in dreams, right?" Secretary Tian said.
"Literature is just an idealized life, and there is no such thing in real life. In the eyes of secular people, literature is not as real as instant noodles, and literature cannot be eaten as a meal and cannot survive. However, if you leave the secular world and food, you will have no life. Maybe girls like romance, maybe girls are smarter, boys are more secular, more pragmatic, more vulgar, and more dirty." Conan said.
"When people eat, drink, and wear warmth, they get everything they deserve, why are they still not satisfied? Why is this?" said Secretary Tian.
"That's spiritual emptiness," Conan said.
"Yes, spiritual emptiness, our era is an era of emptiness. People only grab money and ignore a lot of things. People do not read books and have no beliefs. Isn't it very dangerous to continue like this? They are simply walking dead, right?" said Secretary Tian.
"There is nothing to do. We are not saviors and cannot save people," said Conan.
Secretary Tian said: "If you can't save people, you can only save yourself. It is to save yourself. Only those who save themselves have hope of saving, and those who rely on themselves can have enough food and clothing."
"Sometimes I can't save myself. It can be said that everyone is unable to protect themselves, and they still need someone with superpowers to save me." Conan said.
"I'm afraid of getting married, but my parents insisted on getting married. There was no way, just get married and find a son-in-law to come. Now my parents were happy and could finally be proud in front of the villagers. But later, they were worried again." Secretary Tian said.
"What are you worried about?" Conan asked.
Secretary Tian: "Worrying about me, why don't you want a child?"
"Haha, that's quite fun. Not wanting children is not a crime," Conan said.
Secretary Tian said: "But they don't think so. Even my husband can't figure it out. Why don't you want children to get married?"
"Some families in the city are DINK families, and they don't have children," Conan said.
Secretary Tian said: "Yes, that's in the city, and people in the countryside still don't want this. They think that getting married is for having children. Otherwise, they don't get married. Women who don't have children are not good women, they are destined to be despised."
Conan said: "No one can interfere with the freedom of marriage and the freedom of childbirth. However, in rural areas, there is a general lack of labor and no one will be laughed at by others."
Secretary Tian said: "Yes. Fighting requires brothers, and going to battle requires father and son soldiers."
"Your thoughts are unique, but you still need to communicate more with your husband, seek his support, and then do your job as a parent," Conan said.
Secretary Tian said: "You are right. However, my husband doesn't like reading and has nothing to say to him."
Conan said: "If you don't study, just speak in the way he likes. You won't eat, sleep and don't talk every day when you go home?"
Secretary Tian said: "It's almost the same. I didn't want to get married, but my parents' orders are for the sake of face and for the sake of marriage. When I get older, I'm worried about jokes from my peers, so I got married in a mess. I got married in a mess. I got married only when I get tired of it. Marriage is to publicly announce the relationship between men and women, from underground to above, from illegal to legal, from sneaky to openness. In fact, I announce that I can play games publicly. In fact, there are very few people who really have love, and there is no real love at all. I just get married for the sake of getting married, not just to get married in the depths of love, but to get married completely voluntarily.
It is for others, for the sake of face, for the next generation, that is, not for themselves, not for their own life, always for others, it is very passive and troublesome. If you ride a tiger, you cannot be, and it is difficult to ride a tiger. You are always in danger. When you meet with people, you are not talking about serious matters, but about these family matters. Caring about other people’s marriage is more important than caring about their own family. The focus is not on getting married, but on how to manage a good marriage. In fact, marriage is a career and a good project. Am I wrong?”
Conan said: "Hahaha, you're so interesting."
The two of them were chatting in the office, looking at it was getting late and it was time to get off work. Secretary Tian said: "It's time for us to get off work. We'll make this arrangement at night, do you think it's okay?"
Conan said: "The guest is as you wish, how do you arrange it and how can I come."
Secretary Tian said: "I want to invite you to my house for dinner. Then, let's talk about accommodation. What do you think?"
Conan said: "Okay."
Then, Secretary Tian smiled, closed the doors and windows, and asked Conan to leave first, and she followed closely behind.
The storm in the mountains comes at will. Fortunately, Secretary Tian closed the doors and windows. Otherwise, the things on the desk would be in a mess. Water would fly into the house through the windows and wet the documents. These documents are the things Secretary Tian deals with every day. It is her responsibility if it is less damaged. She dares not be careless, after all, they are paid.
Secretary Tian said: "Strangely, the climate has been very abnormal in the past two years and the rain has become too much."
Conan said: "Who knows, I heard that this season is the time to rain. There is no rain, but it is a severe drought. Is this related to large-scale projects?"
"Maybe, the Three Gorges microclimate has been formed, and this place just belongs to the reservoir area." Secretary Tian said.
She said this, but in fact, Conan Ji didn't understand it either. He just learned geography. It said that clouds were formed by water vapor in the air. This has certain scientific principles. However, compared with the ocean, the ocean is larger and the water vapor is more. It rises into the air to form clouds. When the east wind blows, the clouds will blow to the west and then rain. As for where these clouds float, no one knows. If they float to the mountains and form rain, they will land. This cycle often makes the earth better and better.
Look at the wind getting heavier and dark clouds pressed over the hillside, and the sky here was still bright. It was really sunrise in the east and rain in the west. It was said that there was no sunshine but there was sunshine.
Secretary Tian said: "Quickly, it's going to rain. We're going to get home before it rains."
Conan asked: "Is your home far away?"
Secretary Tian said: "It's not far away, the vertical distance is only 1 kilometer. Walking along the highway may be 3 kilometers. Don't walk in the head, I walk in the head, you are not familiar with the road, so as not to be wronged. There are shortcuts when walking in the mountains, and you can't find them, and you can cry even when you walk. Hehe."
When Conan heard this, he felt stupid. It was really fatal. You know, what she said made sense, because people in the mountains were used to climbing hills when they went out. When walking on flat roads, they felt that the road was uneven and difficult to walk, and their legs were not obedient. However, people who were used to walking on plains were a big challenge when they arrived in the mountainous areas. Walking in this way, you need to save energy and skills. You may have to climb mountains frequently to experience it. However, for Secretary Tian’s home, Conan Ji was completely unfamiliar with a question mark on his face. Instead of doing this, it would be better to follow and save a lot of effort and brain cells.
So Conan said, "I'll go with you."
Secretary Tian said: "Follow this path, you can go to my house. You can follow me first, and then change it."
After hearing this, Ji Conan didn't quite understand why he changed it? What does this mean? He really makes trouble!
Conan followed the location indicated by Secretary Tian and looked down. It was a winding path, winding. In the dense forest in front, the path was bent to one side and could not be seen. Looking down, the path reappeared.
Conan asked Secretary Tian to walk in front, and Secretary Tian said: "For us, women cannot walk in front of men, they must follow men."
Conan: "Is that so? Haha. Isn't there a saying that 'Ladies are preferred'?"
Secretary Tian said: "No. That's in England, that's what the gentlemen said, and we won't prosper here."
Conan couldn't resist her, so he had to bite the bullet and walk forward. To be honest, Conan felt a little relieved when he walked this dense forest path.
It just rained and there was no water on the road, but some places were slippery and moss grew. If you accidentally fell down.
Conan was very careful and always tried one foot in front of him, and then followed another foot. He didn't step on it stupidly, otherwise he would fall miserably. This is a lesson learned by Hecun and his experience gained from falling.
Conan was walking, suddenly, Secretary Tian screamed. Conan turned around and Secretary Tian rushed towards Conan. Conan saw that oh, the man fell straight towards Conan. Conan quickly tightened his legs and turned around. When she fell down, he reached out to help him. Secretary Tian rushed on Conan. Conan obviously felt her nervous breathing and panted at Conan's cheek. Like a tiger with eyes hanging on him, Conan was startled. This road was really tricky. He was about to fall if he accidentally fell.
"What's wrong?" Conan asked.
Conan clearly felt that her nervousness was no less than Conan's nervousness. Is this a test of Conan's ability to climb mountains? She said: "Sorry, people who often walk on mountain roads also fail."
Conan said: "It's okay. There are very few people here. The road is covered with moss. If you are not careful, you will fall."
Secretary Tian said: "Mr. Ji is really amazing. He can even walk like this."
Conan said: "When I just came, it often rained to visit farmers' homes and often walked on mountain roads. I got used to it and mastered the skills, so it would not be easy to fall."
Secretary Tian did not mean to leave Conan. Conan coughed dryly. Secretary Tian reluctantly left Conan and said, "Sorry, I'm out of control."
Conan said: "It's okay, it's okay. Let's go."
Conan thought to himself, this person is interesting, probably because he was intentional. He knew that he wanted to fall and walk behind deliberately, with the purpose of taking advantage of Conan. In fact, this is nothing, so there is no need to use this strategy. In some countries and regions, meeting and hugging is etiquette, there is no loss, and there is no advantage.
They came to Secretary Tian’s house. Her husband was not at home, only her parents were at home. When Conan saw the old man, he greeted her repeatedly, and she also introduced her parents.
Secretary Tian’s husband is a son-in-law. Because Tian is the only daughter and his parents need to take care of him, he found an honest man with brothers at home to come to honor his parents together.
The area is not as favored by boys than girls as the plains, and it is the same for boys and girls. Even if you have a girl, you should be happier. Girls know how to feel sorry for their parents than men, and take care of their parents more carefully and attentively. Boys are more rough and not well cared for. If they marry a wife in the future, boys will be more attentive to their parents and take care of their parents. A woman is meticulous and can be directed to take care of and supplement the parents, but the man will be much worse.
Secretary Tian asked Conan to sit down, then made tea, and asked Secretary Tian's father to accompany him. She and her mother went to the kitchen to cook.
Her house is average, with bungalows and brick-concrete structures. It is a more popular architectural style in the 1990s and has a very national characteristic.
Conan chatted with Tian’s father casually. He was very talkative. When it comes to the development of the village, he was very knowledgeable and insightful. He said that he also worked in the village before and uploaded and posted it.
No wonder, this is also a second generation!
Secretary Tian may have been influenced by his father since childhood and learned to deal with conflicts between villagers. He has been influenced by him since childhood and has some impression of the development of the village. Now he has taken over his father's class and works as a secretary in the village. It is also a kind of exercise to deal with villagers with more opportunities.
After dinner was finished, Conan had supper and Secretary Tian said: "Mr. Ji, it's too late. I think if I don't dislike it, just stay at my house. Staying in a small hotel is too noisy and not hygienic. There are trucks entering and leaving every night."
Conan closed his eyes and thought, it was true that when he was sleeping soundtrack at night, he would be disappointed!
Besides, there are also some fair-going women in the hotel who specialize in some meat business. In the past, there were always lustful people who could drink and eat meat and spend money on fun.
The bed, the bathroom, and even the slippers made Conan not compliment. He was really moved by what Secretary Tian said.
"Okay, I'll cause you trouble," Conan said.
Father Tian said: "In the past, I was an activist in the village. Those staff who went to the countryside and settled in the village usually had food and accommodation at my house. Although the conditions were average, they could live in a clean and secure manner."
Conan was very satisfied and watched Secretary Tian clean up a small house, with a bed, desk, desk lamp and wardrobe, which were clean and refreshing and quiet. Secretary Tian brought foot washing water, Conan thanked him, washed his feet, changed his slippers, and felt very comfortable. He sat there and wrote his work diary, then turned off the lights and went to bed.
Secretary Tian’s parents were still watching TV in the living room, while Secretary Tian was in her own room, waiting for light, and might be sorting out the information that had not been finished during the day.
Chapter completed!