When Conan heard what they were arguing about, these two houses were actually one house, and it was impossible to separate them completely. Just like two trees looked like two, but they were actually inseparable because the roots were tightly entangled, and you were in me and I was inseparable. This is a natural phenomenon. Only those who had dug up the roots or saw the roots of the tree can have this understanding.

Conan was thinking that this village was a bit strange. It was obviously endless and had to help the poor. Look at them, they were all very rich. After the song ended, the family settled the accounts together until midnight for the money. It was estimated that the income this time was about 180,000. Seeing that the money was equivalent to the income of working for several years was sad. No wonder they had to run a school and drink now? This has never happened in the past. What they wanted to know most was how to get the greatest benefits, such as accepting red envelopes and gifts, the best return. Elimination of various expenses, there may be surplus. This surplus can be used as tuition or as a reserve. Next time, other people in the village have something to do, they have to go and receive gifts. Speaking of which, if they have income, they will actually have to send them away in the future. This is how the gift exchange comes from.

Especially for divorced families like this, this is especially true. For money, we can get together again. The purpose is to let everyone get some benefits again. This account can be settled clearly. Without a judge to help, it is all discussed by yourself. If there is no problem, you will admit the account. There is no quarrel. Everyone is busy and can easily break up. Live in peace and have a happy life.

After calculating the accounts, Bao Na's mother is likely to leave. The mess here will be left to Bao Shao to deal with. The so-called mess is the money collected now and he will be returned in the future. This is normal. You must know that reciprocity is a fine tradition of the Chinese people. It is impolite to come but not to be polite. It is easier to do things. In the first place, there are people who doubt, and there are more and more people who are unreasonable, and there are more and more people who are unwilling to reach an agreement.

What Conan heard was that they were counting who did not come, who came, how many invitations they sent out, how much income they should earn, what actual income, what are unexpected gains, what are foreign wealth, and what are losses, and what are the list recorded by Accountant Ling, and then counted them one by one. Dong Xuzhu was also very clear that he would not make mistakes. As long as there was no mistake or a wrong idea, he would definitely ensure that the particles would return to the warehouse and would not waste a dime. You should know that no one is using the dimes now, but in fact, the money is becoming less and less valuable. The dimes withdraw from the historical stage are actually one of the manifestations. Of course, the dimes seem to be the smallest unit, and the dimes are both products of the last century. Now there is basically no one to use them, and even if you see them, you will find it very strange. This is a rare and strange origin.

Walking on the street, I saw a dime on the ground, and there were many people who saw it, but few people would bend down to pick it up. The reason is very simple, that is, bend down, and actually lose his dignity. In the past, the songs sang: "I picked up a dime on the side of the road and handed it to the police uncle..." In fact, it was out of print and it was impossible to happen again. The songs now have also been changed to one yuan. If you want to find a dime, it is harder than climbing to the sky. Those dimes are very precious to collectors and are willing to spend a lot of money to buy dimes.

Conan thought to himself, how would they share the money? Will they fight? Thinking of this, he found it very interesting. They didn't fight or quarrel. This was surprising. It was not like a divorced person or a rich man, but a humble gentleman with a certain demeanor. They decided to deposit all the money in the bank. Of course, the account opening name was the child's name, which was Bao Na. Bao Shao kept the bank card and the password was kept by Bao Na's mother. In this way, Bao Na's interests can be guaranteed. These three powers were established separately, and in fact they supervised each other to ensure that the beneficiaries truly benefited.

Bao Na’s tuition and living expenses are transferred to Bao Na’s school account every month, and his usual pocket money is transferred to Bao Na’s bank account. Similarly, it is Bao Na’s name. This card is just pocket money, not too much or too little, just enough. Bao Na doesn’t like to spend money randomly. She buys school supplies and spends a lot of money to buy books. Speaking of which, it’s easier to reduce the burden, but actually increases a lot of burdens, and increases it for herself. The pressure of competition is quite high. As long as you are in that environment, you will inevitably encounter pressure in this area.

Any parents like these investments, as long as they are good for learning. If you study well, you will hope to have a good future in the future. This is the case now. Of course, not participating in training classes will definitely affect some people. There are some differences in the results of making up for tutoring and those who have not tutoring. Some make up for the tutoring, the more you make up for it, it is better not to make up for it. Some are effective. Most of them are psychological effects and do not let the children lose at the starting line. In fact, if adults have already lost, don’t let the children win. Whether they lose or win is the result of their own efforts. Those who lose will not lose.

There must be no effort or effort. Just to compare with success, you lose. If you still can’t tell the winner until the end, you will have no chance of winning or losing. Time has the final say. Many people who have achieved good results in the college entrance examination, go to a prestigious school, become unknown after graduation, and have no results in their lives. The most brilliant moment is to win the college entrance examination. Without the college entrance examination, nothing is. This is a cruel reality. None of the top scorers in the college entrance examination won the Nobel Prize, which is a fact. Many people are unwilling to mention it or face it. This is the gap.

The three parties have no objection to this arrangement for the time being. Bao Na has no hope for reconciliation with them. However, she also sees clearly that people are very smart. For common interests, everyone will overcome difficulties and be able to be united temporarily. When the goal is achieved, they should go their separate ways. There is no sharing of the fruits and joy of victory. Without the habit of sharing, it is easy to dominate each other, live in their own world, have their own castle, and do not want to visit each other or understand other people's inner world.

The next day, Conan wanted to go and see them, but he was embarrassed because neither he nor Yoon Hyun-in gave gifts, and he went to have a free meal without giving gifts. He felt a little disgusted and felt embarrassed when he met. They thought so, but they did not dare to go. Conan saw clearly that the red note was densely written with the names of the guests. These things were actually a kind of debt certificate, which made people know who borrowed the money and would have to repay it at that time. This order is very important. The gift list clearly records it, which can measure a person's closeness and distantness. It looks a bit vulgar, but if you follow the local customs, you can't repay the gift without these records.

Bao Na's mother is very smart. After the matter is finished, she slapped her butt and left, and went to the Northwest. The Northwest is her second hometown. She is not unfamiliar or familiar with it. In short, she stays away from this place of right and wrong so as not to be discussed by others. People's words are terrifying. The more they are in it, the deeper they get. It is better to withdraw as soon as possible and escape.

Bao Na is leaving too. She is going to school for at least four years, and then graduate. As for graduation, it is still unknown.

Conan didn't think of this. What he thought about the most was his own future. Unemployment was no longer uncommon. Only when he had never been unemployed was there, so there was a problem.

In this mountain village, many people went out and came back, those who worked in short-term work and long-term work, their identities have not changed, but making money but not making money is not the most important thing. What is important is that the family can be together. This sacrifice is a bit big, but it is also necessary.

Conan thought to himself that life is this stage, with a beginning and an end. This is not surprising. In the end, the song ends and people go their separate ways. There is no way. Time passes and will not come back when it goes away. However, what remains in people's memories are probably these family affections, friendship and love. The most important thing is love, followed by family affection, and the last thing is friendship. If you make the order wrong, there will be trouble.

Bao Na's mother left the village on the third day afterwards. Her mission was successfully completed and she achieved her expected goal. She had no concern for the place here for the time being. She still had to go out to reach the place she longed for. There was what she called love. She also had to form a new family to prepare for the second half of her life, earn money to buy a house, or find an old man, have a house, don't have to buy it, and make money to decorate it; or make money for herself to make money as a pension. Who said that if her second husband would definitely live a hundred years long? Even if she lived a hundred years long, who could guarantee that he could stay with her for the rest of her life? You must know that most men are dissatisfied. When her beauty gradually becomes pale and her youth is no longer there, will he be good to her? Will he still fulfill his previous promise? This is hard to say. This is a normal human nature. The biggest characteristic of a person is fickleness.

Bao Na's mother has to leave a way out for herself, otherwise, in a few years, she will show the miserable future of the second half of her life. If she is not prepared, she will inevitably fall into a mess in the future. After she grows old, she will become nothing, which is a stupid life, neither converging nor pointing, and worthless. People have a selfish side. Some show obvious, some are not obvious, some are deep, and some are shallow, and there is absolutely nothing that is not selfish. If there is, it is only available in heaven.

Bao Na's father is also considering his future. For example, Bao Na graduated from college and started working, talked about a friend, got married and had children, and formed a new family. His task was completed. He was afraid that he would not be able to take care of his grandson. He was a man himself. Women would do better with the work of raising grandsons. If he couldn't do it well, don't show off. Besides, Bao Na may not necessarily regard the work he did. It is very hard to take care of his grandson or granddaughter. It is very difficult to take care of his grandson and love. After all, it is his own bloodline. However, patience is hard to say. People will have a temper. If they take care of their children, everyone will be happy. If they don't take care of them well, they will make them like enemies. A family that was originally a harmonious family, but because they took care of their children, they made everyone unhappy. This is the key to the problem. That is later, Bao Shao will make a wise choice.

Conan felt that he was Bao Shao, but the biggest difference between him and Bao Shao was that he gave birth to a son, which was more difficult than Bao Shao's task. The reason was very simple. Giving a son was fame and having a daughter was a blessing. If parents did not get benefits from their son, they could only get benefits from their daughter. The daughter was the caring jacket of their parents and would think of their parents in everything; the son was relatively careless, and more importantly, it would be very bad for the son to listen to his wife in the future. When the son grew up, he needed to buy a house for him, otherwise, even his girlfriend could not be negotiated. People nowadays are very smart, and there is no room for talks. The future mother-in-law is strictly checking. If there is no house, they can't talk about their daughter-in-law. Only with a house can they develop further. People nowadays are very realistic, they are all jealous of money. Others are all pretending to be confused, and no one can resist the attack of money.

Conan gains a lot of rural development work in mountain villages, and he also loses a lot of it. He gets time and freedom, and can do what he likes to do. What he loses is the time spent with his family. After all, he still loses it. However, compared with people who work outside for many years, Conan is still happier. At least once a month, he can go home to reunite with his family and meet his family. It is more comfortable to meet his family. However, the disadvantage is that he cannot often see his children's growth, which is the biggest failure in his life. One day, he will resign bravely, leave this place, grow up with his children, and spend more time with his family. It is necessary and worth paying. If he doesn't pay, he will regret it in the future.

He had no choice. What he knew best was how to give his children a good future. Although he didn't know where his future was, he always believed that God would not let the righteous beg for food. At this time, people would become cooler, no matter where they were. He was in the mountain village, with good scenery, and the endless mountains were a good place to make tea. Qiao Zhiyong had sold tea here. Of course, after the Taiping Army blocked the river surface, he finally had no danger and successfully rescued the siege was another matter.

Conan suddenly remembered a sentence, which was his son's QQ signature: "Green water is worry-free, but his face is wrinkled by the wind; green mountains are not old, and they are white in their heads." As the child grows up, there is not much time to need fatherly love. You must seize the time and not give up the opportunity.

In terms of discipline children, fathers have greater responsibility. A strict father and kind mother is the best combination. Let children feel the love from their parents. Only by experiencing love can they give love. Only by knowing love can they practice love, make love a necessity in life, and make love the protagonist at home.

Only when a child learns to love can he truly mature. When a person has love, there is no problem with morality. Everything else is secondary. If he does not become a slave to money, he will have joy. Because he has freedom, he will understand more and see more. Over time, he will become full of wisdom. If he is devoted to making money and becoming a greedy person, then this person will be over and will easily lose himself in front of money and lose his conscience. Once a person loses his conscience, he will be very terrifying and dare to do all evil things.
Chapter completed!