Chapter 221 Li Yun speaks

When Li Yi heard Zhou Lihong calling his name, he walked to the podium with a smile. Then facing Zhou Liming, he shook hands with the mayor first. After that, he exchanged a few words with the mayor.

Mayor Zhou also praised Li Yi a few words in person, and then handed a sign with a bonus of 100,000 yuan and a certificate of honor to Li Yi's hand.

Li Yi took these two signs and turned around to bow to everyone. The scene immediately burst into thunderous applause.

After that, Li Yi went downstairs first and showed the two signs to his mother. Li Yun was also so excited that she burst into tears. After all, this scene was something Li Yun had never imagined in her dreams.

After Zhou Lihong went down, he looked at everyone again and said, 'Our classmate Li Yi is our city's top pick this time, and also our province's top pick. He will wait for a while and share his learning experience with everyone.

However, let Li Yi prepare for now. Before Li Yi speaks, let’s first listen to how Li Yi’s mother raised such an outstanding child. I think others must have their own unique insights. I hope everyone sitting here

Parents, listen carefully to how Li Yi's mother educates her children. You should learn some useful things from other people's experiences, and you can use them on your own children when you go back.'

Although Li Yi had told his mother before that he was going to the city hall for a meeting this time, and she might be asked to speak. However, Li Yun didn't care, and felt that she would not be allowed to speak. She was not prepared in her heart.

But now when she heard Zhou Lihong's words, she was at a loss. So, she quickly looked at Li Yi and said, 'Son, I - what should I say when I go up! I - I didn't educate you at all!

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'Mom, it doesn't matter whether you educated me or not. When you go to the podium to speak, you can't say you didn't educate me. You have to say something about how you educated me.'

Li Yi knew that in front of so many people, his mother couldn't tell the truth! If he didn't educate his children at all, how could he make sense? How could others believe what his mother said?

‘Then what should I say?’ Li Yun was still a little helpless.

'You just say whatever you want! You can say that when I come home, you will urge me to study. And you will study with me. You also often visit bookstores and buy some books and materials that are useful for my study. You can You said that you have paid a lot for my study. After get off work every day, you basically don’t go shopping to buy clothes. You just study with me at home. When you say this, everyone will feel that you have paid a lot for my study. "I was able to do so well in the exam today, and that's what I should have done." Li Yi saw that his mother didn't know what to say, so he looked at her again and said.

‘Okay, let me say this!’ After listening to her son’s words, Li Yun knew what to say. After all, she usually urged her son to study.

"Mom, come on, you are the best." Li Yi also encouraged his mother.

‘Okay, I’ll go up then.’ After Li Yun said that, she stood up and walked to the podium.

After he came to the rostrum, he came to an empty seat, which was a seat specially reserved for people who came to the stage to speak.

After Li Yun reached her seat, she turned around and stood up again, and then looked at everyone and bowed. Everyone immediately burst into thunderous applause. Li Yi looked at his mother below and gave it to her.

Applause.

At this time, Zhou Lihong looked at everyone and said, "Dear parents and classmates. This is Li Yi's mother. She is the one who trained such an outstanding student as Li Yi. Now, let us, Li Yi's mother, tell everyone

Tell me how she trained such an outstanding student as Li Yi.'

After listening to Zhou Lihong's words, Li Yun started to speak. Originally, Li Yun was a little nervous. She felt that she might not be able to speak well. When she got to the stage, she would be so nervous that she could not speak.

But Li Yun is also a naturally eloquent person. Although she has never spoken on such a big occasion, her eloquence is still very good. Since she has such a talent, she is not afraid even if it is her first time on such a big occasion.

What. I was just nervous for a moment, and then I wasn’t nervous anymore.

Li Yun now watched everyone take a deep breath, and then began to talk. Her action of taking a deep breath was also what Li Yi told her. This can relieve tension.

'Dear parents and classmates, I am Li Yi's mother, and my name is Li Yun. Li Yi is a child of a single-parent family. I won't talk about this private matter of our family. In short, my child today

It is really not easy to achieve such good results.

Because we all know that, generally speaking, children from single-parent families lack the care of their parents. Because if a family does not have a father or a mother, then life itself is not very easy. Especially this kind of family with a single mother.

The situation in our family is like this. I have to be both a father and a mother. I have to make money to support the family and train my son to become a talented person. In this case, my life will be even more difficult.

However, our family Li Yi is also very ambitious. He achieved amazing results in this college entrance examination and was ranked first in the province. To be honest, I never expected that my son could do so well in the college entrance examination.

But no matter what, I know that my son actually works very hard. Although he likes to brag a bit, he is a child who knows how to work hard. He knows that in an ordinary family like ours, or a single-parent family, if he does not study hard, he will not be able to study hard in the future.

There won't be any future.

In fact, we can't always compare some bad phenomena with children from single-parent families. It's like children from single-parent families don't know how to study, they are all children with weird tempers. They all have problems.

Children. Obviously, when we think this way, we are overgeneralizing. We have no idea that children from single-parent families may be more sensible than children from ordinary families.

My son is like this. Although he usually laughs and laughs, he seems to be devoid of seriousness. But when he comes home, he is completely different. After my son comes home, he either studies or helps me with housework.

He has been very well-behaved and sensible since he was a child, and I don't have to put any effort into educating him.

What kind of child is a genius? My son is a real genius. His grades were not very good at the beginning. Even in high school, his grades were not very good. But he knows how to work hard, especially

After returning home, he studied very hard.

I don’t have to supervise my son at all. He always takes the initiative to study on his own. He studies until late at night every night. Especially after entering the third year of high school, he works even harder. He only goes to bed every night when I tell him to go to bed.

sleep.

I think everyone may also know that Li Yi's usual grades are not very good. I don't understand how he could get such good grades in the college entrance examination. Here, I will explain this matter to you.

In fact, my son's grades should be very good. In the two mock exams before the college entrance examination, my son scored more than 500 points and ranked among the top ten in the class.

It's just that my son is a child who doesn't like to show off his grades. He actually studies very well. But in these normal exams, my son just doesn't want to do too well. I also asked my son why he didn't do well in his usual exams.

His grades were also better.

But my son told me that his grades are not important at ordinary times. It doesn’t matter whether he does well or not. As long as he does well in the college entrance examination, that’s all. So, my son usually just studies in front of everyone.

appearance.

Everyone has always felt that my son’s academic performance is not very good, and it is impossible for him to get good results in this college entrance examination. But my son knows that he did not do well in the exam before because he did not want to do well in the exam. If he wanted to do well in the exam,

If so, you can do well in the exam.

I don’t know why my son studies in this way. This may be his own learning method!

Now everyone must want to know how I educate my son in normal times. I just want to say that when I treat my son's academic performance, I don't see the child's performance improving like some parents do.

, you praise your children vigorously. When you see your children's performance declining, you criticize your children vigorously. This approach is of no use at all, or may be counterproductive.

Learning is not physical work, and it does not mean that if you teach a few words, the children can finish the work. Learning is a kind of mental work, and there is an essential difference between mental work and physical work.

When I treat my son's academic performance, I always treat it with a normal mind. No matter if he does well or not, I will praise him instead of blaming him.

I think you are going to ask me what kind of effective method of educating children. I can only say that you must learn to praise your children.

As parents, we all want our children to learn well. We all hope that our sons will succeed and our daughters will succeed. It is understandable that we have such thoughts, but we should not impose our own wishes on our children. Things that we cannot do will be

If you want your children to do it. If you don't study well, you have to ask your children to study well. If you don't want to study hard, you have to let your children study hard.

What I want to say is that we, as parents, should not take things too seriously when it comes to our children’s learning. Children’s academic performance is inherently unstable. It is impossible for a student to do it every time.

Everyone does well in the exam. No matter whether the child does well in the exam or not, as parents, we must learn to accept everything about our children. Whether he does well in the exam or not, it is normal.

It can be said that we must treat children's academic performance with a normal mind. Whether they do well or not, it is normal.

But no matter whether the child does well in the exam or not, as parents, we can only praise the children but not criticize them. Try to praise as much as possible and criticize as little as possible.

Learning is a mental activity that requires self-confidence to support it. If a child does not have the confidence to learn well at all, then how can he learn well?

Especially when it comes to exams, we must help our children not be afraid of exams and treat exams as normal study. Only in this way can children achieve good results in the college entrance examination.

There are many students who usually have good academic performance, but when it comes to the college entrance examination, their results are not good.

There is an important reason here, that is because their usual grades are not very stable, sometimes good and sometimes bad. This makes them unable to study calmly. During exams, they will also be very nervous.

For an important exam like the College Entrance Examination, if you don’t develop a good psychological quality to cope with the exam, you will be too nervous when the time comes for the College Entrance Examination, and then you will not perform well.

There are many children who usually have good grades, but when it comes to the college entrance examination, due to excessive psychological stress, they end up failing. All of this is related to the fact that they have not developed good psychological quality.

It can be said that academic performance is directly related to a person's psychological quality. A child with poor psychological quality is unlikely to achieve good results in the exam.

Especially for exams like the College Entrance Examination, which determines the destiny of life, without good psychological quality, it is impossible to achieve good results.

In fact, each of our classmates are similar. Their intelligence levels are also similar. My son is not a child with extraordinary talents. He is the same as ordinary children.

The reason why my son was able to achieve good results in the college entrance examination is because he has very good psychological quality. Some classmates also study well. However, the reason why he did not achieve good results in the college entrance examination is because of his psychological quality.

The reason for the poor quality.

A person's psychological quality cannot be developed overnight, it requires a long-term process. And cultivating children's good psychological quality requires parents to think of ways.

I feel that the reason why my son has a good psychological quality is because I never criticized him when he didn't get good grades in exams. On the contrary, I would encourage him.

Therefore, when it comes to educating children, my point of view is to give more praise and encouragement and less criticism and lessons.

What I want to say here is that in our two-parent families, the parents usually work together to discipline the children. In such cases, there are often families with a father. The role of the father is often important in educating his son.

It will be a little rougher.

Some fathers often use unfair means when educating their sons. As long as their sons fail to do well in exams, they will teach their sons a harsh lesson. They will even beat their sons.

Just imagine, with this kind of education method, how can it be possible to educate a good son? How can it improve the son's grades? If he fails to do well in the exam, he may be beaten. So do you think he will be very nervous when he takes the exam?
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