Chapter 197
Su Li asked, "Have you been to her house?"
Only then did Lu Ning realize that he had let go and explained, "I went with a few colleagues."
Su Li felt uncomfortable. Thinking of their previous chat records, she replied lukewarmly, "If you like a woman like her, go and marry that, I won't stop her."
Lu Ning was very angry when he heard this, "How could you say such words to insult us?"
Su Li was also very angry and replied, "You know whether it is an insult or not."
Lu Ning didn't argue with her and got up and left.
After that, the two began to have a cold war. Sometimes they didn't say a word to each other when they went home, and even slept with their backs to back when they went to bed.
The marriage gradually became famous and the family became more and more deserted. Sometimes Lu Ning didn't go home in the middle of the night, and Su Li was waiting, just waiting, never calling to chase him.
She didn't want herself to become a hysterical shrew, so she was always silent and always tried to make herself not complain or quarrel with him.
But sometimes alone is very lonely and desires company.
Once, she accidentally discovered an online chat community where all lonely people had problems with their marriage.
She started chatting with many people, but after chatting, she found that many people's marriages were like hers, which seemed harmonious, but in fact they were not much different from "dead".
Why not divorce?
Many people who have never experienced this will ask this question.
Sometimes she also asked herself, and the answer she got was, "If you divorce, your father and Aunt Qin would be very worried about me. They would not want them to live a worried life. They would rather think I am living a good life. Moreover, our marriage has not reached the point where we cannot go. If we divorce, we may not be able to get better."
This is also the reason why many people are dragging an unhappy marriage but staying away.
When a marriage ends, it is definitely not just her that hurts. At this time, Su Li realized that marriage is really not a joke. It is a lifelong thing. You must be cautious and be cautious.
But sometimes I feel that those cautious marriages seem to have many problems, such as a person named "Li Xiaojie". His wife and he went from first love to marriage for more than ten years, and now it has become a bad marriage.
"Marriage is too difficult." This is what many people who are struggling in marriage want to shout.
Su Li sometimes wondered if she married Gu Ling'an, would she be the same?
I dare not think deeply because the answer is obvious!
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Marriage is boring, and if there is no love, it will be even more boring.
Many people think when they feel that their marriage is not good, "If there is one more child, will the situation become different?"
Su Li and Lu Ning both had this idea. They also discussed it when they were not quarreling, "Let's have a baby."
Preparing for pregnancy is not as easy as expected. In addition to paying more attention to diet and rest, you also have to insist on taking folic acid tablets.
Although that thing is not bitter, Su Li has hated taking medicine since she was a child and is extremely repulsive.
When Lu Ning was in a good mood, he would coax her, and his tone was gentle, "For the sake of your future baby, you should work harder."
When you are in a bad mood, you will say, "It's just a small pill that children can take."
After preparing for pregnancy for half a year, I haven't gotten pregnant. When my mother-in-law found out, she asked them to go to the hospital for check-up. "Don't be shy, treat if you are sick."
The two had no choice but to do various examinations, but they didn't find anything. They only said that Su Li's body was relatively weak.
So the mother-in-law began to urge her son to give her daughter-in-law a supplement and take care of her more.
At first, Lu Ning did a good job and served the soup every day. Later, he became annoyed and never did it once a week.
He also felt very wronged, "I am already very tired in the company every day, and I have to do these things when I get home, and I feel suffocated."
Su Li didn't blame him, "I'll do this myself in the future." She never asked him to do anything for herself. She accepted it when he did it, and remember it in her heart. She accepted it even if he didn't do it, and also in her heart.
Sometimes Lu Ning would shake his head and sigh, "Su Li, you are quiet, you don't tell me anything, which makes me feel very depressed. When two people are together, they should be chatting with each other openly, but I always feel that there are many things hidden in you."
Su Li replied, "I'll try to change it."
Later, she really tried hard to change, trying to make herself talk more, but she couldn't last long before she returned to quiet again, "Lu Ning, have you ever thought that maybe we are not suitable?"
Lu Ning shook his head, "There are never two people who are born to be suitable, they are all done in a running-in way."
She disagreed, "We will meet many people in our lives. Some people are comfortable to get along with, and some people cannot get along with no matter how they get along." After she said that, she added in her heart, "Just like Gu Ling'an and I, we don't need to get along with each other, and like you and Lin Qianxue, you may not need to get along with each other."
Lu Ning insisted, "We have nothing inappropriate. We have been here for so many years. If it were not suitable, we would have separated long ago."
"Do you still like me?"
"Of course, what stupid things are you saying."
"But over the years, I feel that your attitude towards me has changed a lot."
"I'm sorry, I'm under too much pressure."
After this chat, the two men's lives got a little better, but they couldn't last long. The arrival of that day finally broke their marriage.
It was the 10th anniversary of Luning Company. The boss invited all the employees and some of the partners in the cooperative company to have a good relationship. He set up a banquet and celebrated happily all night.
Lu Ning did not go home that night, and his colleagues said that he was drunk with Mintine.
Later, Lin Qianxue became pregnant. That night, they were all drunk and slept together regardless of everything.
After Lu Ning learned that Lin Qianxue was pregnant, he first went to Su Li and explained to her, "I was so drunk that night that I had no judgment at all. I had no idea what I did."
Su Li felt that he looked dirty for no reason and took two steps back silently.
A long time later, she asked many people a question, "Do you really get drunk and don't even know that you have sex?" Most people's answers are: No.
Lu Ning didn't want to divorce, he knew that his parents would not allow it, and that would be drowned by everyone's saliva.
Su Li was determined to divorce. She still remembered a passage that Sister Lu told herself before, "Some things must be principled. Women must have their own bottom line. If you don't have a bottom line, others can ruin you at will. Some people are very mean, and they will regard your forgiveness as if you are reluctant to let go, and you can indulge them in making mistakes."
Chapter completed!