home these days
Since I used my brain too much and fell asleep for several days, I also said before that I have friends and brothers who have been by my side.
Later, I couldn't hide it from my family, so I finally went home for a few days and went home to see my grandma.
Grandma is very ill during this period, which is considered to be something that can be found in the elderly. All the functions of the body have declined, the heart does not have much strength, and the kidneys are not draining very well.
Many elderly people have edema, and there are many sayings, but no matter what, my grandmother's edema gradually faded. Fortunately, there was an uncle who was proficient in medicine by her side.
Thinking about it at that time, my grandma was over 90 years old, which was really not easy. Over the years, my uncle kept calling Chinese medicine, and my grandma recovered from the illness.
I suddenly thought of "There is a place to support me and the elderly have a place to support me"
Isn’t this the virtue that has always been advocated in traditional culture?
Um!
But today, in the 1980s and 1990s, only children continue to evolve into the family pillars of this social group. However, under the advocacy of oneself, many people only care about their own feelings.
Filial piety is really a great pressure in such a general environment that focuses on interests and only children.
There are old people and young people, and every generation will face a problem. Unless you choose an unusual path, you will also have an unusual destination.
I often hear my uncle say this: "It is the best way to fulfill filial piety in my lifetime. No matter how much incense you burn after death, cry for a few days or nights, and do a very large-scale ritual, it is nothing."
Yes, I agree with this statement, so I didn’t go to see my grandma first when I went home for a few days, but took care of my personal affairs before talking about it. I felt ashamed and felt a little ashamed.
I always respect the elderly. Their age, the journey and hardships they have taken, and raised us, have become what we are today.
Life itself is so wonderful.
Chinese people always say that they should not forget their roots. In the past, I thought it was the roots and their own roots.
No matter where I was born, I can’t just laugh it off, it’s forgetting my roots.
I don’t think that if you don’t think about the past and don’t fear the future, you will definitely be a good life. If you forget it, you will have no hope for this person.
I have seen such a story in the War of Resistance Against Japan.
When the Japanese army first invaded the Northeast, someone gave the young daughter in his family to Japan as a toy in order to successfully advance to become a traitor.
Once, Japan came. They thought his mother was too noisy, so in order to show his personal loyalty to the invaders, they actually shot their mother to death on the spot.
This is a devil who is inhumane, and this is a crazy approach.
Later he also had his most damn retribution.
What do Chinese people like the most? Of course, it is karma.
In the era when contemporary society is centered on economic interests, the emotions between people are obviously less communication and understanding than those in the previous old society.
Of course, fast pace has a good side, but it is obviously not in line with the laws of human development.
This society advocates time and money, which is understandable and development is essential.
On the night I came back, I went to my uncle's house as a guest and cooked in person. During this period, I talked to my uncle about the family matters in the village.
Do you remember a song called "Do you often go home to read it?
Tell my father about work, wash dishes, brush chopsticks with my mother, often go home to see, often go home to see, what great contributions do the elderly do not want their children to make...
This song sings so sad and tears!
It was only during the meal that I realized that the next day was my aunt's birthday.
I think I haven't been home for many years to celebrate the old man's birthday. The next afternoon, I killed two chickens at home and took them in, and took my cousin who had just finished school to celebrate my aunt's birthday.
When I arrived at my uncle's house, the two elders were not at home. I just chopped firewood, washed the pot and set the fire, and put water on it to cut the chicken.
When the two elders came home from the field, they were surprised to see me.
I originally wanted to call Brother Tang in the morning, but I forgot about it while I was busy.
I woke up in the morning and warmed my grandma up with the medicine, and accompanied her to talk while she was resting, teasing her and smiling, pinching her legs, etc.
It feels like my grandmother suddenly becomes like a big and big child.
The topic she asked was very simple, but as long as you talk to her, there would always be many topics to talk about. She looked at me in a close look, and she still looked kind and smiled very kindly.
That is the simplest happiness from the heart so simple.
My uncle and aunt treated me the same way. My elder brother did not come back, nor did my elder sister and second sister come back. If they had been back more or less in previous years, they might have been working and family pressure and all kinds of busyness.
I can understand that this is not easy, and I don’t complain. I don’t often go home. It’s rare that I should sit down and have dinner, chat and chat with the elderly.
Not many family gathered that night, including aunt, uncle, aunt, little niece, cousin, and second aunt.
There are not many people, but the family is so happy and harmonious and always yearns for the most ideal appearance.
When one day you are lonely and sad, these are the most memorable past events for you.
Without cakes, without birthday songs, the simplest and most ordinary, and the most ordinary are such days, which are the most missed.
Have a place to rely on old age.
I received a call from my father in the morning of the third day. He said that his knees were always uncomfortable. He originally planned to spend ten days with his grandma at home, but later he decided to go back to the county town to do some simple knee therapy for his father on the fourth day.
When I came back, I didn’t even bother to eat, so I rushed over and looked for acupuncture needles and disinfectants all over the streets. I almost found the entire county town before I found it in a store.
I heard from some clerks that this type of needle has been banned.
I found it strange at first, but I couldn’t find so many stores.
Then I gave my father a simple treatment. After the next day, he still felt that it was not very comfortable, so I took him to the hospital and accidentally fell down while going upstairs.
I immediately picked up my father who was a little confused and gently stroked his back. Maybe his head was also hitting the ground, and I felt a little fainting. I was holding him there and kept calling him.
The doctor and the nurse also surrounded him. When he woke up a little, Dr. Youzai led the way in front and I carried my father into the ward.
When I came, I had already greeted him and specially arranged other patients to go to another place, leaving me a relatively spacious room.
In general, I have known him for so many years and have not invited him to a meal. Maybe this is how my friends are. The friendship between clear water is as light as water.
I was really anxious to see him in the evening when he was in pain and was in a state of experiencing food.
I might have to watch tonight. I just pressed his foot for a long time and gave him a painkiller in front of me. He was able to fall asleep just now.
When you walk out of the passage, the air is very stuffy, and your heart is very stuffy at this time.
Chapter completed!