(This is the same article as yesterday, published separately.

Embarrassingly, there was a time lag after it was opened, and some of the things originally written were no longer applicable. They had to be significantly revised.)

How to relieve worries?

No solution.

"There is no way to eliminate this feeling. It's only on my brow, but it's on my heart."

If you can't draw fuel from the bottom of the cauldron, let's boil it down first.

Let's see what Yanzi says... he should be on a united front with me.

Or at least, you can understand me.

Looking back on the past few months, ideological conflicts are not uncommon.

(Think of the sentence for arguments' sake)

Of course, as quick as it comes, it goes as quickly as it comes.

It's not like the endless conflicts in life.

For example, the tug-of-war between my family and I that lasted for many years probably ended in a draw in the end.

It’s very helpless, I’m always “criticized”.

But...no one can plan my life without permission.

What is tug of war, push and pull?

Regarding contradictions, here is an example.

Someone came to criticize me before, but I didn’t reply a word.

Shaoqian helped me reply when I was reading:

You don't understand him, and you don't understand what living is. He never remains silent.

June 24, 11:20

If they are of the same type, there is no need to explain.

If not, the explanation is meaningless.

If you have different ideas and want to continue to get along, you have to seek common ground while reserving differences.

Time is a funny thing.

Maybe after some time, both parties' views on the same matter will change greatly.

Emphasize the word "understand",

This does not mean that we should hold the same or similar opinions.

Rather, it means understanding the other party’s position.

By understanding both sides' positions, you can avoid conflicts as much as possible.

Ideal and reality have always been the primary issues I face.

I think of the scene in "Dead Poets Society" where the teacher asked the students to tear up the realistic poems...

※In fact, ideals are just the prototype of some kind of reality.

In other words, locked reality. locked reality.

However, there are very few people who are proficient in unlocking methods.

The higher you go, the harder it is.

(Think of a sentence about why only snails and eagles can climb to the top of the pyramid)

Let’s give an example.

The female praying mantis eats the male after mating.

In the past, people thought this was a habit and gave an explanation: it was beneficial to the reproduction of future generations.

(Thinking of heavy topics again. For example, some creatures use themselves as food for their offspring.

If I remember correctly, some fish and spiders seem to be like this.

At this time, you will feel that the maternal love of other creatures is not inferior to that of humans.)

Later I discovered that this was not a habit.

Maybe it's just to survive better in the cruel environment of nature.

The evidence is that if the female mantis mates after she is full, eating her mate is less likely to happen.

Then this ideal situation of not eating mates can become a reality in artificial breeding.

Give another example.

Non-social carnivores that live in the wild often drive/evict their young from their territory after they reach adulthood.

Moreover, we may never see each other again for the rest of our lives (even if we meet, it will be difficult to recognize them).

The last time I heard this in a documentary, it seemed to be about snow leopards.

Similarly, in artificial breeding situations, this phenomenon will not occur.

(Of course, the zoo or something is another sad story..another sad story)

If you think about it carefully, the biggest difference is here: the subject of the decision has changed.

With humans providing food, survival, which was originally the top priority, is no longer a problem that needs to be worried about every day.

Survival is not a problem, so there is no need to worry too much about territory.

And, it’s useless even if you care.

Because the ruler of the territory has changed from an animal to a human.

So, why are humans lonely?

Because it's at the top of the food chain.

But human heart and wisdom cannot yet match this top.

match.

The contradiction is multifaceted.

Social problems, family problems, etc., to name a few.

Once upon a time, there was a game character named Restoration Angel, who asked: Will human beings return to God one day?

Well...it's actually not that exaggerated.

The trouble of thinkers is that they think too much and do too little.

The mind is full but the strength is not enough.

If I could "choose one thing for the rest of my life", I might not be obsessed with ideals and reality. Justit.

The road less traveled...

the road less traveled.

Talk about swallows.

Me: Read these words and then chat for a while.

(How do you think of reading comprehension...reading prehension)

Yanzi: "You are against the Creator, I am just against the industry."

Find the organization and shake hands...

Yanzi mentioned the lawn in front of the school that had been destroyed due to human cement.

"Just think on the bright side. There is a saying that a wildfire will never burn out. It will grow again when the spring breeze blows. It has roots and will still grow."

Yours has roots... but mine were all pulled out... not a single leaf was left.

He also talked about weeds and the power of life.

Yanzi: The root of the spider plant I took a photo of a few days ago can break through such a thick cloth. I don’t even know how it did it.

Me: Let’s learn more about it through dripping water.

A thousand-mile embankment collapsed in an ant nest.

"Therefore, if you don't accumulate small steps, you can't reach a thousand miles."

Swallow: Wherever there is land, there is grass. No matter where you are, grass is like this. Its vitality and reproductive capacity are super strong, more powerful than any other plant. Of course, on the other hand, it is also super disliked because it is not rare and there are too many of them.

Me: But as I said before

Even if there is reincarnation, it will no longer be the current life

The grass that grows again will not be the same grass as before.
To be continued...