Chapter 1393 I will stand by your side
Qinglan said, her eyes turned red little by little.
He finally got together with his brothers, but did he have to be separated from his family because of Yaya’s affairs?
Qinglan felt so sad when she thought of Mu Tianxing's coldness towards Qingya.
That was the girl he liked. No matter how bad Yu Mutianxing looked, it was the girl he liked. Naturally, he would want to get the blessings of the person he loved the most.
"But Qinglan, have you ever thought that this is not your fault? It is not your fault. Why do you feel guilty? Why are you sad? Even this is not Qingya's fault. She might have been timid at that time so she concealed some truth, but you are all just children and need to grow up."
Ling Lie looked at him and smiled slightly: "Do you know what you lack the most?"
Qinglan was stunned.
He didn't understand very well: "I lack skills, IQ, and... Anyway, I'm like a plate of fried dishes. It looks OK, but when I taste it, each tastes a little worse."
"Hahaha~" Ling Lie raised his lips happily and said, "You don't lack the ability, intelligence, and anything else you can think of."
Qinglan stared into his father's eyes: "Then what am I missing?"
"Temperament." Ling Lie looked at him seriously: "Qinglan, you still lack a temperament, a temperament that requires confidence and pride, and a combination of calmness and courage! Look at Qingrong, even if you stand there without saying a word, he has a kind of righteousness that a soldier should have, pleasing to the eye. When you look at Qingling, he is the same. Even if he hides in the crowd, it will inevitably make people unable to ignore his temperament and find him at a glance."
Qinglan pursed her lower lip: "Father, I..."
"Your woman needs to be maintained by yourself! Your mother needs to be respected by yourself! There is actually no war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If you want to say the only war, it is caused by men's inaction."
Qinglan is still a little confused.
Ling Lie looked at him with encouragement, as if he could really do well.
"Qinglan, never say that your mother is bad in front of your wife. If your wife speaks bad things about your mother, you should stop it as soon as possible and tell her that you don't want to listen to this! Similarly, don't say anything bad things about your wife in front of your mother. If your mother says bad things about your wife in front of you, you should also firmly tell her and tell her not to say anything anymore, because you don't want to listen!"
Ling Lie finished speaking seriously, Qinglan seemed to understand something: "I, I'll follow it."
"Yeah." Ling Lie smiled with relief and said, "Qinglan, it is useless to be sad. Even if you crouch in the corner and hurt the sky, you will not be as good as you stand up and act once. Men, don't always shrink and complain everywhere: I'm so sad, I'm so sad. A real man is painful and silent. Even if his heart is full of hurt, he will not reveal a word to anyone!"
Listening to his father's words, Qinglan suddenly felt very ashamed.
Yes, he always complains and is always sad.
The actions you can think of are not a solution to the problem at all, but are self-comfort.
For example, he wanted to see Qingyu and Bella. In fact, these things did not help eliminate the gap between Mu Tianxing and Qingya, but he just wanted to find psychological comfort himself.
To put it bluntly, his idea is still too one-sided, and he does not treat the symptoms but the root cause.
To solve the root cause, we must also tell the father like this and face the problem directly.
Seeing that he also started to think, Ling Lie knew that he had listened to his words. He raised his hand and patted his shoulder. Ling Lie said a few more words: "Women need to coax you. Whether it is mother or wife, they love you. Your coaxing is the most effective for them. Finally, don't forget to add your temperament no matter what you do! Don't face others softly. You are not worse than others. Only when you look down on yourself can others respect you and truly listen to what you say!"
After Qinglan left the study, he sorted out his thoughts for a while.
He called Qingrong and asked about Qingyu. Qingrong said that Qingyu was asleep and would take her home to reunite tomorrow.
He called Qingmu again and asked Bella how he was. Qingmu's attitude towards him was still the same. His brothers would not blame or blame him.
As a result, he breathed a sigh of relief, and went back to the room, found a piece of paper, wrote down the gap between Qingya and the present, and analyzed it in detail.
Following his understanding of Mu Tianxing, Qinglan thought: The mother was angry, probably because Qingya concealed the knife in Qingyu's chest.
After figuring it out, Qinglan fell asleep.
The next day.
Qingya didn't expect that Qinglan would have arrived at breakfast.
He sat in the hall of Xia Pavilion waiting for her.
Seeing her come down, he tried hard to stabilize his temperament and looked at her: "Yaya, I want to talk to you."
Qingya already knew what happened last night.
She was so uncomfortable that she couldn't sleep all night and was about to call Qinglan to go to the hospital to see Bella, but she didn't expect that he had arrived.
Nodded, she said, "Okay."
In an elegant room.
Qinglan did not get tired of her as she used to be, but stood very seriously and said to her: "Qingya, do you know about Qingyu's return?"
When a boy becomes serious, it is still easy to make Qingya nervous.
Especially the face that looks like admiration, the degree of intimidation is not overwhelming when it comes to a stern face.
Qingya also became nervous, standing opposite him, not daring to move: "Well, I know. I heard about it on the way back. I went to Chunge tonight and saw Xuebao, Hongqi and the others."
Qinglan pursed her lower lip and said, "So my mother had some opinions about you yesterday. In order to avoid a discordant relationship, I want to say a few words to you."
"You said." She was so nervous.
Especially when his sudden serious look made her uncomfortable.
Qinglan had a gentle face, but said sternly: "No matter whether Qingmu saw through the fact that Qingyu was hiding or not, no matter what your original intention was, Yaya, you did hide it. If Qingmu had not made careful arrangements in advance, I was afraid that Qingyu would be in danger this time. If Bella had an accident again, and if something happened one by one, who would bear the consequences? The mother is kind-hearted and she was so good to you in the past, you should still remember it. So when she suddenly became distant and indifferent to you, there must be a reason for this. What do you think?"
Qingya nodded uneasyly.
Qinglan said again: "So, she is so kind to you, and you still hide the truth from her. No matter what, it is you who are wrong. Yaya, she is my mother, the one who gave birth to me and raised me. If you want to marry me, you must first respect her as much as I do. Don't lie, hide, or deceive her."
Qingya's tears fell, and her voice became nervous: "Yes, I'm sorry."
"I'll pick you up to the prince's uterus. Can you say sorry to my mother?" Qinglan felt sorry when she saw her crying, but she didn't want to give up halfway. She endured her heartache, looked at her on the spot, and said seriously: "My mother's mother's heart is kind. If you take the initiative to admit your mistake, she will not keep holding on to your mistakes."
Qingya nodded crying and said, "Well, I'll apologize, wuwu~ I'm sorry~!"
Qinglan breathed a sigh of relief, and her palms were filled with sweat!
What the father said was that it was really not easy for him to do things with temperament.
He didn't know how Qingrong and Qingmu came from his temperament, but he really needed to practice, which was true.
He stepped forward and pulled Qingya's hand, and he raised his hand to wipe her tears.
Chapter completed!