On the third day after seeing off my grandmother back in Kunshan in June 2001, she told me: "I made our relationship public to my father who never communicates with me. My parents want to see you, because I lied to my father when I went back to my hometown to see off my grandmother before. Although my mother knew, it was probably because she couldn't bear it anymore. He quarreled with my mother again, so he could only confess to him."

I was very excited and nervous and scared. What I was excited and happy was that I finally got her affirmation and recognition with my sincerity and sincerity. How exciting! What I was afraid of was that he once described the details of her father's plot to me. Her parents have been stumbling with "three days, one small quarrel, one big quarrel, and one big quarrel in five days" since she was a child. She was busy and tossing to this day. Besides, I had already "dealed" with her father on the phone call I had when I met her at the beginning of the year...

In fact, I had already communicated with my parents and exchanged opinions. Their idea was: Before I went to Kunshan to work in 1998, my father bought me an affordable house of nearly 100 square meters with the indicators and quotas he had taken care of, and was going to get me married. For this house, he sold all the second houses in the town, and it was not enough to repay the loan of another 40,000 yuan. Because my son found a daughter-in-law from Kunshan and got married in Kunshan, they decided to sell the house and find a way to raise 150,000 yuan to buy a second-hand house of about 70 square meters for us in Kunshan, so that we could get married first.

"Then where do you and my mom live?" I asked him

"Your mom and I will rent a car garage on the first floor, and we will live in it," he replied without hesitation.

"No, I don't want it. The garage is not light and not ventilated, which is not good for you! Let me declare to you both first: Even if you sell this house, I won't ask for this money!" I replied firmly to both of them...

So the wedding room is also one of the things I fear. If my uncle asks, I feel very unsure! Love is most afraid of hesitation. When I look back, I can only miss the person I love again. I don’t want to miss the person I love again, so that this lonely wandering heart can be moored in a place called home. Because of this, I must also strengthen my hair and courage. After a fierce ideological struggle, I carried two bottles of Wuliangye, two soft Zhonghua cigarettes and a lot of fruits to come to my door to "take the exam".

As soon as I opened the door, I greeted in standard Mandarin, politeness and tutoring basic qualities in our family. Not long after I put down the things, a middle-aged man with a big eyes but angered eyes wide open, murderous intent, and a fierce look on his face. There is no need to guess that this is the father who scared me so much that he almost didn't hold the phone firmly. I suddenly felt that the words she used for her father were appropriate.

"Hello, uncle!" He seemed to have no interest in me, and ignored me, and went straight to the kitchen to cook lunch. "Yes, people treat my daughter like a flower in winter, and are afraid of being cold and rain, and finally blooming, but you are a shabby calf, you have to take away the flower pot. How can you not be in a hurry to get angry?!" In this way, I comforted him in my heart like Ah Q.

My aunt was very nice and friendly. She pulled me and Yumei to the reception room next door to talk about this and that. It was very relaxed. My nerves, which were as tight as a cowhide band, sootheed a lot. My aunt was worried about whether my two mute sisters were congenital and whether they would inherit such things. I met honestly and told me the truth. This was actually the pain and guilt in my father's heart.

It was lunch time, and his father sat opposite me. When I looked up and supervised, his bull eyes were staring at me, looking at me, and my soothing "cow band" was immediately extremely nervous again. I was like the domestic servant "Lai Fu" who lies and perjury in the Stephen Chow movie "Nine-Prince Sesame Official" who was shaking like the "last dinner", his hands were trembling and holding a bowl of rice full of food. I dared not eat it from his "leopard head"

The moment when she was so murderous that she was still murderous, she saw five words in her eyes: Get out of the way after eating! She sat on the other side of the Eight Immortals Table between me and her father, and kept picking up food into my bowl like the "My Ai Jiang" movie in the "Nine-Primary Sesame Official", "Eat vegetables, eat, don't be polite!" After a while, the big bowl with not much rice was filled with vegetables, and even a grain of rice had to be carefully dug an eel hole.

This meal immediately made me taste several characters in this movie. It was simply the taste of the second heaven of ice and fire! This uncle, who was like the headmaster of the "Leopard Head", no longer had any verbal communication or communication except for glaring at me fiercely throughout the whole process. No wonder she kept saying that she was a father who never communicated. Except for the simple and gentle communication between her and I, who barely exchanged my embarrassment and exchanged softly in order to resolve my embarrassment, there was no sound. I seemed to be able to feel another kind of silence on the scene, you could fully hear the ticking of the electronic clock on the wall. Her meals at home were all eaten, never talking or discussing anything or chatting and laughing. This was completely contrary to our family, it was completely the second heaven of ice and fire.
Chapter completed!