Second Five-Year Plan
My father's illness greatly motivated me. In the dead of night, I began to think back and review the past few years since I came to Kunshan. As I walked, I still had to stop and review it. Although it was my first time to come to Kunshan.
A five-year plan to buy a house and settle in Kunshan has been implemented, but the concern and care for my parents has always been a lack and regret in my heart. I am seriously thinking about how to combine the second five-year plan with filial piety to my father.
How to combine it with my mother? Thinking about how much my parents have paid for me, and thinking about his old man getting cancer again, I set two parameters for my second plan to come to Kunshan: 1. I want to buy a townhouse.
, Let mom and dad live in their son’s villa and enjoy their old age in peace during their lifetime; 2, I want to have another child with the surname of our old Zhao family, so that my dad will be sincerely happy. Yes, let’s do it like this!
One evening in the crisp autumn of 2006, when my wife and I were walking in the City Square after dinner, I told her about the second five-year plan. When she heard about my plan, she immediately
Expressing total opposition, her reasons are very simple: "1. I don't live with your parents, and the old people's schedule is different from ours, which is inconvenient; 2. I don't plan to give birth to the child, and you have to give birth to it yourself."
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I directly replied to her in a simple, rude and non-negotiable tone: "If you live with your parents, if they get sick, I can know in time to send them to the doctor. If they are healthy, I can also help with some simple housework, so that they can enjoy a family relationship."
Zhile, I have been living in the same house for three generations since I was a child. Besides, the whole family just shares the same kitchen and living room. What’s the inconvenience? Do you think you would wear shorts and run around upstairs and downstairs?! What if?
If not, then there is no inconvenience! Regarding the issue of giving birth to a child with my family name, I will tell you clearly: with my current ability, it is not difficult at all to find a woman outside to give me a child.
I hope you have thought it through and don’t force me to make mistakes! I made it very clear to my father-in-law when we were dating. If my parents have no place in my heart, your daughter will also have no place in my heart in the future.
Yes, so on the issue of treating and being filial to the elderly, I hope you will not challenge my bottom line. I will treat your parents equally. One day we will also be old. I believe this is the best precept and deed for our children!"
, seeing that I was so strong, she stopped saying anything. It was considered a consensus!
When I returned to my hometown to visit my parents, the two of us were having a heart-to-heart talk over a cup of tea like good friends. I told him the plan with all my heart. He was very happy but said: "I won't go to Kunshan.
Different living habits may affect you and your wife. Secondly, my eldest nephew has not been admitted to college, and I will never go to Kunshan with you. I must make up for the guilt and regret of the past, and help your eldest sister take care of our son.
By training her until she graduates from college, she will no longer have to suffer when she gets old, which can also heal the pain in dad's heart." I nodded knowingly: "No problem, let's wait until my nephew is admitted to college!"
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A few months later, the human-creation plan was successful, and she was actually pregnant. Upon examination, she was found to be twins. There is a genetic gene in her family. She and my mother-in-law both wanted to give birth to the baby. They were already four or five years old.
It would be better if my 2-year-old son had two "phoenixes". If I gave birth to two more "bald heads", wouldn't I be "on all fours"? Besides, having more sons doesn't necessarily mean that I will grow old in the future.
I would be very happy. Instead of doing this, I would rather just have a son and raise him to have good moral character, and save myself from working so hard and tired. But my mother-in-law and she wanted to give birth to a child, and the vote was two to one. As a result, my mother expressed her opinion
Exactly the same as me: now is not an era that wants more children, but an era that wants more children. If it is two girls, I will support it, but it may not be guaranteed! In this way, she gave up the twins in tears.
Chapter completed!