An obvious phenomenon is that before Jiraiya died, Naruto went to Haruno Sakura whenever he had time, and often talked about "recovering Sasuke", but after Jiraiya died, Naruto rarely went to Haruno Sakura.

Now, he no longer talks about "recovering Sasuke". Because at this time, Naruto cares more about the people who care about him, rather than the people he cares about. Because of Jiraiya's death, Naruto saw clearly

Regarding the attitude of the people around him towards him, when he was complaining to Tsunade for the lustful immortal, Kakashi and Haruno Sakura were stopping him and blaming himself, because these people don't particularly care about Naruto, these people care more about "

Naruto and the Leaf Village"

When Naruto cried under the streetlight at night, only Iruka in the entire Konoha Village came to comfort Naruto, because Iruka cared about Naruto and understood Naruto's mood. Kakashi should also be watching in the dark, hoping that Naruto

He can face it by himself, but Naruto is originally a fragile person. What he needs is not to face it alone, but comfort and guidance. After Jiraiya's sacrifice, Naruto's attitude towards other ninjas has been different.

This was clearly shown when Pain invaded the Leaf Village.

After Naruto returned to Konoha Village, he did not sense Kakashi's chakra. After Tsunade confirmed Kakashi's death, Naruto did not explode instantly, but suppressed the sadness in his heart. Because in Naruto's eyes

Kakashi doesn't particularly care about his own people, so Kakashi's death cannot make Naruto lose his mind instantly, because Naruto no longer values ​​the people he cares about as much as before. But Hinata is different, Hinata is

People who care about Naruto are the "people in front of him" that Naruto wants to cherish, so Naruto lost his mind after Hinata was injured.

Before Jiraiya died, Naruto thought that he could not protect the people he cared about. After Jiraiya died, Naruto thought that he could not protect the people he cared about. This transformation is maturity. After Naruto matures, he will no longer blindly

He gives his feelings, but divides them among others. Only those who are worthy of his feelings will be given. Haruno Sakura was no longer on Naruto's list after Jiraiya's death, so Naruto learned that he

The night after Laiya died, he gave up his feelings for Haruno Sakura. From then on, most of what Naruto said to Haruno Sakura was a joke, and there was not much love between men and women.

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Naruto's situation is different from Ye Feng's, but he mentioned the most critical thing: that is, the people he likes to care about and the people who like to care about him. The order of importance between the two

Love is a beautiful ideal. We all like the perfect ending where lovers finally get married. The person you like and the person who likes you are the same person. But the reason why an ideal is an ideal is because there are too many unrealities.

Of course, in reality, there are naturally realized ideals. In reality, there are indeed people who meet, get to know each other, fall in love, and finally get married. They are lucky people who are lucky enough to combine ideals and reality, and have a perfect marriage.

An ideal ending. But for more people in life, it is an imperfect reality.

There once was a very classic love problem. The question is: if you had to choose one of the following two people to get married, how would you choose? The first one is the person you like, but she doesn’t like you; the second one is the person you like, but she doesn’t like you;

People who like you, but you don’t like them

In fact, Naruto's choice has told everyone the answer. The person who chooses the first one will only be in the immature stage of mind, while the person who chooses the second one has obviously moved from childishness to maturity in mentality.

Maybe you would say that the person who chooses the first one is the one who pursues his own happiness, while the person who chooses the second one is the one who accepts the cruel reality and accepts loss.

Yes, you are right. The first type of people are indeed those who pursue their own happiness and are obsessed with gaining; while the second type of people are indeed people who have accepted the cruelty of life and are those who accept loss.

But isn’t human growth and life a process of gradual loss and acceptance of loss? There may be those rich second generations among us who come from privileged backgrounds. Many, many times, their starting point when they were born was the struggle of ordinary people like us.

They may not be able to reach the end in their lives. They can stand brightly on the center stage of the world with heavy makeup and shout: "Destiny can be changed" "My destiny is up to me" "Thirty years to Hedong, thirty years to Hedong"

In Hexi, don’t bully young people into poverty” slogan

By the way, you heard it right, the slogan "Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, don't bully young people into poverty" has never been something that poor losers can shout.

However, in this world, can you imagine that for 200 yuan, you will roll like a pig in muddy water in front of everyone and eventually become a mud man? Do you know that you finally catch the last bus and sit at the end?

Have you ever seen a middle-aged man in a queue crying suppressedly for no reason? Have you ever seen a male delivery boy sit on the roadside and cry because he was complained just because he was one minute late?

Are there middle-aged people crying on the stairs of the intensive care unit of the hospital? Can you imagine a 6-year-old child with late-stage leukemia saying to his mother, "If I die, please give me another child?"

The collapse of an adult is always just a momentary thing. For 99.9% of us, life is miserable from the beginning.

Life has always forced us to give up something, lose something, and accept the loss. Only then will life allow us to survive. This has always been the case.

So back to Ye Feng, Ren Xiaojin is the ideal of love for Ye Feng, and it is also an ideal that has been realized. Ye Feng naturally cannot give up even if he dies, and the same is true for Ren Xiaojin. This is also why You Ji thought that Ren Xiaojin

The reason why he quit voluntarily because he and Ye Feng were a perfect match.

Qingni and even Yingying, for Ye Feng, they are actually the cruel reality of love. And Ye Feng has never been a strong person, he has only been a weak one from beginning to end. Ye Feng has been losing all the time.

Regardless of whether it was his fault or not, Ye Feng owed them both, which also made it impossible for Ye Feng to abandon them, and he had to bear unwarranted but necessary responsibilities. Ye Feng did not evade responsibility, accepted the loss, and took responsibility.

, isn’t this a sign of maturity as an adult?

Qingni and Yingying lost a lot because of Ye Feng, but they still like and even love him. To Ye Feng, they are the people who really care about Ye Feng. In comparison, whether they are the people Ye Feng likes is not as important to Ye Feng.

Words are no longer that important.

I saw Ye Feng transformed into a red wedding dress. This time, Ye Feng did not escape or be confused anymore. He smiled and looked directly into his clear eyes that were almost turning into silent tears, and stretched out his hand.
Chapter completed!