Chapter 354 Chatting at Home
In Li Dashi's living room, Liu Feng sat on the sofa, drinking tea leisurely. On his left hand, Li Dashi sat there with a smile, chatting with Liu Feng from time to time, asking about Liu Feng's recent situation.
Through conversation, Liu Feng learned that Li Dashi has two children, one of whom is his and his ex-wife, who is a girl. She is 23 years old this year and has just graduated from college. Li Dashi meant to let her join the army. With Li Dashi's connections, she could directly promote her. However, she herself didn't want to do so. Instead, she was very interested in business. However, even if Li Dashi had money, she would not be able to take it out for her daughter to start a company. It was too conspicuous. Moreover, if she wanted to open a similar company, she needed a lot of money. If she was not good, she would lose a lot of money.
As for the second child, Li Dashi had a child with his second wife after his ex-wife died of illness. He was a boy. He was fourteen years old and was in junior high school. He didn't have a good study and it was probably difficult to get into high school. However, with Li Dashi's connections, let alone high school, he would go to college as long as he wants! There was no pressure.
While chatting, a series of footsteps sounded outside the door. When the door opened, a pretty girl pushed the door open and looked at Liu Feng in shock. At the same time, Li Dashi had already taken the initiative to introduce the two people. The girl was no one else, but Li Dashi's daughter, named Li Rong!
Under Li Dashi's introduction, Liu Feng and Li Rong nodded at each other. Liu Feng smiled all over his face, but Li Rong was not enthusiastic. After greeting Liu Feng coldly, he went upstairs on his own.
Li Dashi was a little unhappy when he saw his daughter so rude. Since he married his second wife, there has been a gap between him and his daughter. The exchanges between them have been reduced by one day. When he graduated from college, he even refused Li Dashi's arrangement and insisted on going out for a walk! Facing his stubborn daughter, he was as strong as Li Dashi, and there was no way. It was really hard to recite scriptures in every family!
After sitting down for a while, the door rang again. This point was the time when the students got off school and the workers got off work. Liu Feng came this time to get to know Li Dashi's family, and to have a meal here and increase his feelings. If he came back after dinner, he would seem much more dissatisfied.
The door was pushed open again, and a half-small man with a slim figure but a tall figure walked in. His clothes were sweaty and gray. You could smell a stinking smell of sweat from afar.
Just as Liu Feng observed, Li Dashi cursed angrily: "You bastard. How many times have I told you that your most important task now is to study hard. When is it time for you to still have the heart to play basketball! If you can't even pass the high school exam, where will you put your face? You are shameless, I am shameless!"
"Okay... I understand, can you nag a few less!" Faced with Li Dashi's curse, the half-boy muttered impatiently, then walked into his room and threw the door away.
Seeing Li Dashi's furious look, Liu Feng couldn't help but smile bitterly. Li Dashi was so majestic outside, but at home, he was obviously not very enlightened. As the head of the family, no one listened to him.
"Haha..." Li Dashi scratched his head awkwardly, and said embarrassedly: "I'm going to make you laugh at. These two children really make me worry, but they still don't listen to me. Their thoughts are really different from others! I don't understand why the difference is so big when both are humans? You said that if my son could be half obedient as you, I..."
Looking at Li Dashi's wry smile, Liu Feng knew that Li Dashi wanted to have authority at home, but this was impossible. There was one thing that Li Dashi was completely confused.
While thinking, Liu Feng shook his head and said, "Captain, in this matter, you obviously have a wrong perspective on the problem!"
Hearing Liu Feng's words, Li Dashi stumbled his neck and said loudly: "Why is that wrong? You said that people outside ask me to do it, but I may not do it, but they are fine. They don't know how to be blessed in blessings. Oh! I tried my best to raise money, but everything was ready, and they actually gave me a hand and stopped going! You said...what is this?"
Looking at Li Dashi with a smile, Liu Feng said, "Captain, you really have a problem with your angle in this matter. You must understand that others beg you because it is what others desire. You take the initiative to arrange for your children, but it is not what they want. If you force them to follow the path you arranged, just drink water on the cow's head. Isn't there a saying? The forced melon is not sweet."
"This..." After hesitating for a moment, Li Dashi took out a cigarette and lit it, took a few deep breaths, and then said, "What you said makes sense, but... if they don't follow the path I said, what will be the future prospect? If I leave my hands alone, just that boy from junior high school will have to work. What do you think he can do?"
Shaking his head, Liu Feng said, "I didn't say you didn't care, but as their peers, I believe I still have some say. I think... you interfered too much."
"What!" Li Dashi suddenly blew his beard and glared at him when he heard Liu Feng's words! Obviously, he could not accept Liu Feng's statement. Is there too many statements about his parents' care and love?
Faced with Li Dashi's anger, Liu Feng was not worried at all. After pondering for a while, he said leisurely: "You have to give them space to grow freely, and then when they need your help, you will reach out to help. What you have to do is not block, but guide them to the right path. You forcefully twist the bull's head to drink water. Even if you have the power of the bull, you can't always do this. It's typical thankless."
Speaking of this, Liu Feng paused slightly, looked at Li Dashi's disapproval expression, Liu Feng continued: "For example, your boy, he is not good at studying, but now he is too late to work hard? Can you catch up? Can you get into high school?"
Shaking his head, Li Dashi said dejectedly: "I know what you said, but if you don't work hard, won't your grades never get better?"
Liu Feng continued: "If you don't have good grades, it's not good. Anyway, he has some high school and graduated from college. Since that's the case, what are you still worried about? Why don't he ask him to pursue what he likes?"
"This..." Looking at Liu Feng silently for a long time... Li Dashi couldn't say a word.
Looking at Li Dashi's speechless look, Liu Feng continued: "Although I don't know much about your situation," he said... your kid likes basketball so much, and he can't have nothing to do with you, right?"
"Haha..." Li Dashi finally laughed and shook his head and said, "Yes, this is my fault. Since I was five years old, I have taken him to play basketball every day to cultivate his interest in basketball. To be honest, I regret it very much, but it is useless to regret it. With his body, his head, there is no development in basketball. I can take care of him when I am in office. What should he do if I withdraw?"
Shaking his head, Liu Feng sighed and said, "Actually... you should plan his life according to your own preferences. If he is willing to do what you say, then he may one day live the kind of life you like, but you must know that the life you like may not be what he likes!"
After pausing, Liu Feng continued: "Some time ago, Coach Ajiang came to invite me and made a promise that as long as I join, I will be promoted to the full team level within six years!"
"Well..." Nodded, Li Dashi said, "I know this, but why didn't you go? This can bring out your strengths and get promoted quickly. What a great opportunity! You should think about it carefully. It would be a pity if you miss such an opportunity, and you will regret it!"
Shutting his shoulders, Liu Feng said: "If I were your son, you would have to force me to go, because this is the most cost-effective, but in fact, I will never go. No matter how many benefits there are, I will not go because that is not the life I pursue!"
"You..." Li Dashi was finally moved when he heard Liu Feng's words! From this perspective, Liu Feng and his son were really a bit like, and the choices they made were completely incomprehensible!
Looking at Li Dashi, Liu Feng said seriously: "Captain, I didn't agree to Coach Ajiang, so I could reach that position. Although other ways are difficult, they may also be different. And while getting something, we will inevitably lose something, and while losing something, we will eventually gain something."
Speaking of this, Liu Feng completely let go and continued: "Even if your kid starts working hard now, he is afraid he won't be able to get into high school. You must find this strength. No matter who you care about your son? Since you can't get into the exam, why don't you let him live the life he wants?"
"But...what will he do in the future?" Li Dashi said in surprise when facing Liu Feng's words.
"Future?" After looking at Li Dashi, Liu Feng continued: "You can talk to him. Before the age of eighteen, he can play and practice with all his heart, but if he still has no future after the age of eighteen, then after graduating from high school, he must obey your arrangements, join the army directly, and then take the military academy! If the level after the age of eighteen is very high and reaches the professional level, then be a professional player, strive to be sent to the Bayi team, and after a few years, the level will rise, and you don't need to worry."
"Bang!" He slapped his thigh suddenly, and Li Dashi shouted: "Yes! Why didn't I expect it?"
Shaking his head, Liu Feng said, "This is called "no matters to do with yourself, but it will be messy!" Moreover... you always wanted to force them to follow your path before, but you never considered it from their perspective. Although their thoughts may be a little simple, immature, or even wrong, but the same thing is that you should do is not block it, but take advantage of the situation and gradually turn their life trajectory to the path you hope for!"
"Okay..." Li Dashi smiled and said with a cheerful thigh: "When it comes to this, I have to trouble you. You have such a high level and your horizons must be very good. If you have time, please help me see my boy and see if he eats this bowl of rice!"
Chapter completed!