Chapter 348 Project Restart

Author: Hometown Three Thousand Miles

Yan Xin will return to Yangcheng tomorrow and does not have much time to deal with this matter slowly.

What Bai Xiaoling said in the morning also made him feel the same. For his father, he will be old in a few years and will not have much time to dwell on it, so he must make a decision earlier.

This decision does not mean that we will get married immediately. That would be too childish. No matter how anxious we are, we cannot do that.

However, you need to decide whether to deal with it or not.

If you want to find a partner, you can try to get along with each other, so that you can have a chance to understand whether the other person is suitable for you.

If you can't even make this determination, then forget it, there is no need to delay others.

So he asked the question directly.

This question stunned Father Yan.

After a while, he said: "Why do you ask this?"

"I just want to know your opinion and whether it is necessary to get to know each other with her mother." Yan Xin said.

Dad Yan actually thought about this problem last night.

Finding a partner has the benefits of finding a partner, but it also comes with some troubles.

After Yan Xin persuaded him yesterday, he also felt that living alone in the next few decades would be a bit difficult and full of misery.

Finding a partner seems to solve a lot of problems.

The original knot in my mind has been let go, but now I am mainly troubled by not being sure whether I can find a partner who will make my life more comfortable in the future, or someone who will make my life more annoying.

Based on what he has seen over the years, combined families are in a lot of troubles and have all kinds of troubles.

There is such a family in the village, and there are also families in neighboring villages, but they are not as good as expected.

Meeting a virtuous woman will indeed make your future life more comfortable.

But the probability of this is not high.

Just like a woman wants to meet a good man, the chances are equally low.

In reality, most people are selfish, and the difference lies in the degree of selfishness.

Some want some face, some don't want any face at all.

There are also many problems with the children of both parties.

When he thought about the trouble that might befall him, Dad Yan didn't want to talk about it anymore.

However, when I think about living alone in the countryside when I grow old, I feel quite scared.

——In fact, it doesn’t have to be until he gets old. Even now, sometimes he feels quite lonely.

However, asking him to go to the city to live with his son will make him feel that he is a useless person and a burden to his son. The thought of such a life makes him even more frightened - in his mind, it is even more terrifying than being alone.

Life in the countryside is even scarier.

At least this village is a familiar place to him, and the neighbors are all familiar to him. Here he can support himself.

Going to the city and thinking of the cars coming and going on the streets gave him a sense of fear.

The closed house in the concrete forest made him feel more like a prison cell.

There is another fear in my heart - if I become useless and can only be supported by my son, will my son still recognize him as his father?

Although his son behaves very well and is quite filial now, since he was a child, he has seen so many sons being unfilial to their parents and not wanting to support the elderly, and he is really afraid.

He knew how humble and fearful some old people were in front of their sons and daughters-in-law when they got old.

Yan Xin has been able to earn a lot of money, but he is still working hard and using his labor in exchange for a meager income. Some of his thoughts are that he hopes to have the ability to support himself, so that his life in old age will be more dignified.

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Don't blame him for thinking too much. At this age, he has seen so many things and endured so many hardships. He thinks more than young people, and also thinks more than those who have always lived in happiness.

Some people are really not optimistic about the future.

It feels like any choice has its advantages and disadvantages.

Whether it had more benefits or more disadvantages, he couldn't decide for a while.

If you meet a virtuous woman, you can save yourself a lot of trouble.

But he doubted that he could have such good luck after a life of misery.

Yan Xin now asked him for his opinion, and he didn't know how to answer.

After a moment of silence, he said, "I want to think about it."

"Dad, you have been thinking about it for several months," Yan Xin said with a wry smile, "People also have their own lives. If you don't have that awareness, they may have to find another family. Maybe you will decide after you have thought about it.

After talking to her, she has become a member of someone else's family."

Father Yan whispered: "That's nothing..."

She is not his woman, and she has never talked to him about her. Being someone else's woman will naturally not cause any ripples in his heart.

Yan Xin said: "Actually, I think Bai Xiaoling's mother is quite good. She has similar experiences to you. She is not a troublemaker, and she is also diligent and thrifty. If you can be with her and have each other to rely on, I will be here."

You can feel more at ease outside."

Dad Yan nodded: "She is a good woman, but her life is not good."

Suddenly he sighed.

This is thinking of myself.

His life is not good either.

"Why don't you think about it?" Yan Xin asked with a smile.

"What are you so anxious about?" Dad Yan felt a little embarrassed.

"Don't worry, others might get there first." Yan Xin used the words Bai Xiaoling used to scare him to scare his father. "In the past, because they had to support Bai Xiaoling's education, others did not dare to talk to her. Now Bai Xiaoling has graduated from high school.

No more this

If you have a burden, then a lot of people will take it. It’s not like you don’t know how many divorced men and unmarried old bachelors we have here. For people like her, as long as they don’t have a burden, a lot of people will take it. You

If you think about it too late, it will be none of your business."

Dad Yan hesitated a little.

He had no idea at first, but when Yan Xin told him, he thought it would be okay to start a family with Bai Xiaoling's mother. In the past few years, he had never heard of any bad rumors about that woman. A woman was supporting a family.

, it’s really excellent.

Nowadays, it is not easy for men to find a partner, but it is quite easy for women to find a partner.

If he misses this woman, he may never find a more suitable one.

——His world is very small, mainly this village.

And in this village, if I think about it carefully, there seems to be only one suitable person.

It seems that it would be okay to get in touch and learn about it.

But I refused so simply before and now I agree, which is quite shameless.

Even in front of his son, he felt it was quite shameful to change his tune like this.

Seeing his hesitation, Yan Xin smiled and said: "If you have no objection, I will go to the matchmaker in the afternoon and ask her to help me talk about it?"

Dad Yan was very embarrassed: "How can a son find a matchmaker for his father?"

"There's no rule saying you can't do this." Yan Xin said.

Father Yan said nothing.

"Then I did this?" Yan Xin asked again.

Dad Yan was a little embarrassed, waved his hand, and said impatiently: "You can do whatever you want."

"Okay, it's settled." Yan Xin said.

If you don't object, that means you agree.

Although this does not mean success, it is at least a step in the direction of success.

——Without contact, you will never succeed.

Yan Xin also enjoyed the lunch meal very happily.

Before eating, he also deliberately took a few photos.

This is a table of rice prepared by myself, so I must take a photo as a souvenir.

If two people eat eight dishes, they will definitely not be able to finish them all, and the rest will be put in the refrigerator.

After eating, I rested for half an hour.

Taking out his mobile phone, Feng Xi and Aili both sent him messages.
To be continued...