Chapter 261 256: Instead of beating him up, buy him candy?(1/3)
Chapter 261 256: If you don’t beat him up, you will buy him candy?
Author: Once to the right
Chapter 261 256: If you don’t beat him up, you will buy him candy?
Wang Tianxiao didn't stop him at the beginning.
He thought this guy was just doing it.
But soon, he realized something was wrong.
This person is really beating a child.
His fat palm was sucked into the child's face. What does the child feel like?
The nose was broken on the spot.
Zhao Tianxing didn't give up and was still ready to continue kicking her feet?
"Wait!"
Wang Tianxiao couldn't bear it anymore, so he hurriedly pulled out Zhao Tianxing's arm from behind, "Why are you going to beat the child?"
"Who made those who are disobedient in school bully people and have a bright future? I don't beat him to death, the little beast."
Wang Tianxiao frowned.
As expected, every bad kid who bullies others has a family with a big problem.
The last child had no parents. Although this child had a father, he was an incompetent and irritable man who only knew how to deal with the child.
It is never difficult to truly educate children well when they attack them.
Everyone has a rebellious mentality.
The more severe you attack, the stronger the child's desire to fight back.
He dares not object to you or use force against others, but he can burst out this desire to do something.
Maybe it will become even worse.
That's why the child bullies lower-grade students who are younger and more cowardly than themselves in school.
This is an inheritance of the father's efforts to solve problems by force.
"What's the difference between children bullying people outside and you bully children at home? Don't you know that children learn from you?
Every parent is the object of learning for children, and similarly, every child is also a mirror of parents. Many of the movements, behaviors, and psychology that children show come from their parents. Don’t you know this?"
"What's the matter with this? What's wrong with me educating my son? He is disobedient and I don't beat him up. Do you have to buy him candy?"
Wang Tianxiao ignored him, took out a handkerchief from his pocket, rolled it into a corner, stuffed it into the child's nostrils, and lifted his head a little.
He also used the spare part of his handkerchief to wipe away the blood from his face.
I sighed secretly in my heart.
This child was really born in a particularly miserable family.
Every child will have a process of exploring the world during his growth stage.
Sometimes it is just a slight touch, and sometimes it is a hard collision.
Faced with different situations, parents should know how to give their children enough patience, carefully observe why their children are like this, and how to better solve this problem.
But many parents are not patient at all.
The education they inherited from their father is that their children are disobedient, so just take a try.
If you don’t have to take the blame for one blow, you will have two blows and three blows.
I was afraid of getting the child, and then I became honest.
Even more, there are some parents who don’t give their children food when they make mistakes, and want to completely conquer their children through this sense of fear.
Children are different from children.
Some children may become obedient from now on, at least before they grow up, and then after they become adults, they have no close relationship with their parents. As long as they go to work in another place, they are too lazy to call one, let alone go home to visit their parents.
There are also some children who don’t care no matter how they hit you. If you hit you, I still do whatever I want. They are particularly slim and optimistic, and such children have little influence.
There are also some children who deal with family violence and cold violence, which are very extreme. At the very least, they can directly confront their parents. In severe cases, they may even choose to commit suicide, and they will be completely eliminated.
The relationship between parents and children requires patience and method the most.
Many parents only wake up suddenly after losing their children. It turns out that their requirements for their children, the so-called goodness to their children, are not what their children want at all.
It seems that a lot of things are actually a cage that limits children's growth. In the end, it just hurts the children and turns them into a processed product that they fail.
Wang Tianxiao has always opposed the use of violence against children.
Even in his previous life, he often felt very uncomfortable because of life, and would only sulk on his own and would not impose this pressure on his children.
A child is a child. If you put so much pressure on him, he can’t do anything about it.
Instead, it will make the parent-child relationship very bad.
Although not talking about a very open parent-child relationship like the West, or as educators say that being friends with children, Wang Tianxiao thinks that at least one should give the children a stable and peaceful family. In this way, when the children grow up, they will be full of expectations for the family and will not be desperate about marriage and love.
If you know that if you want to get along with others, you must learn to love others and treat others sincerely.
These excellent qualities are the important qualities and morals that a person can live throughout his life.
With these, even if children achieve nothing when they grow up, they can still find a space suitable for their survival in the world.
Isn’t life a way to get along with this world?
It is a kind of self-consistent.
Wang Tianxiao was able to understand these principles, but it took his whole life to accumulate them.
And the man in front of him did not regard his children as someone who was equal to him.
Perhaps in his eyes, giving children food and clothing and allowing them to go to school is a great gift to them.
If you use his, you must listen to him.
If you are disobedient, you will be beaten.
There is no problem that cannot be solved by one meal. If it really doesn't work, it will be two meals.
Wang Tianxiao complained secretly. He originally asked others to apologize to Hongwei. Okay, now that he has changed his partner, the man's brutal operation has scared Hongwei.
He was so depressed.
He pulled the man to the seat next to him and sat down, and said with a wry smile: "The child has made a mistake. Do you want to tell the child what is wrong? You need to educate him slowly. Why do you beat the child?"
"I think this child is in need of cleaning up. I worked hard to earn money all day and sent him to school, but it was all for him. He was doing it and caused trouble everywhere. Today I insisted on letting him get rid of his skin."
As he said that, this guy actually wanted to beat the child.
Wang Tianxiao had to hold him back, "Yes, if you really educate your children, you can go back and fight. I have never seen a father like you, and you don't imagine that your solution is force. The child learned from you, but he just likes to bully people with force. I tell you, if you keep doing this, the child will not only not be able to learn well in the future, but may become worse and worse."
"He dares!?"
"What's there to be afraid of him? You can be stronger than him in your life. I tell you, everything you do is a degree. You can do some punishment appropriately when you educate your children, but if you keep being so rude, you will definitely regret it in the future. I'm afraid it's too late to regret it."
Wang Tianxiao pulled the child to his side again, looked at the handkerchief stuffed in his nose, and looked at the fearful and resentful eyes on his face, and said to him helplessly: "Uncle won't care about today's affairs, but you have to know that you are wrong to hit someone, have you heard?"
The child nodded.
Wang Tianxiao didn't know how much he heard, but he didn't know what to say.
This child is also a poor person.
What can I say when I meet such a father?
I can only ask for blessings.
Wang Tianxiao couldn't control these things, so he could only secretly feel sorry for this child.
Under such high-pressure management, it is basically impossible to grow into a very gentle and calm personality, but will become prone to excitement, inferiority, impatientness, irritability, etc. Anyway, they are all very unfavorable personalities for growth.
"You can take your children back."
Wang Tianxiao didn't want to say anything to this father, he despised such a person very much.
Anyone who likes to vent his anger on someone who is weaker than himself is incompetent anger.
Just look at the father. The reason why he treats his child like this is that the child dare not oppose him, and even if he opposes, he can't beat him.
If he meets a little strong person, would he dare to do this?
It's really a waste of money.
Seeing the man snatching his son's ear and cursing, Wang Tianxiao wished he could spit in his back.
Who is that ~
At this time, he finally waited for the last person.
He is a middle-aged woman.
He was holding the child among the three, Wang Haoyu.
To be continued...