Feng Yasong also realized that he was distracted too obviously, so he didn't speak stubbornly.

She stared at the screen, and started the challenge again, while tentatively tempted: "I was thinking, would it be bad for us to live together on the first day of our relationship?"

"I see many people on the Internet saying that living together can easily lead to breakups because the gap between ideals and reality is too big."

Before he finished speaking, the screen of the challenge failure popped up again on the TV screen.

This time, Chong Jingchen accidentally made an operation error, which led to the character he was manipulating died on the spot.

He put down the gamepad and turned his head to look at her with a serious look: "For example?"

Feng Yasong also put down the game controller and said guiltily: "For example... every time I date you before living together, I would dress up brightly, but if I stayed together 24 hours a day, I would not be so particular at all times. Soon you will find that I don't wash my face or drag the floor at home every day, except eating..."

Before she could even say the word "sleep" she heard a man's laughter coming out of her ears.

Chong Jingchen's tone was so confused: "Glorious and beautiful? If I remember correctly, you didn't have to clean your face not long ago, but you were wearing a messy dress to smash the door."

"I have seen your casual appearance in private long ago and accept it all. Why do you feel that the difference between ideals and reality is big?"

Feng Yasong: “…”

His tone and expression were all normal, but for some reason, she inexplicably heard the ridicule from his words!

She was choked and hesitated for a while before smiling and said awkwardly: "Although, what I just said is just the most basic problems that you will encounter in the process of cohabitation. To put it more in depth, there will be two people with inconsistent aesthetics, inconsistent living habits, different ways of dealing with problems, etc., a series of problems that are prone to conflict."

"When we are not living together, we can put many private problems in private and solve them based on our own wishes. When we are on a date, we only need to focus on how to make the dating experience of both parties better, and we don't have to be distracted to think about what is there or not."

"But after living together, we get tired of being together for 24 hours a day. Everything we do must consider the other person's feelings, and we cannot just care about ourselves. However, the habits we have developed cannot be changed overnight, so we will inadvertently expose our shortcomings and lower our impression in the other person's heart."

"Once or twice, we may be able to tolerate each other's misconduct with the blessing of the freshness in the early stages of love."

"When the freshness fades, we may not be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings unconditionally, and conflicts will break out. We will easily wipe out our relationships in repeated quarrels. In the end, we are disgusted with each other and move towards the bad ending we don't want to see. What do you think?"

Although these words sounded harsh and cruel, Chong Jingchen had to admit that she was right.

"These are indeed some of the problems we will face next." He looked at Feng Yasong with a burning look and said in a gentle tone: "But if we live differently, don't these problems exist?"

Feng Yasong was stunned by his question. Before he could think, the other party had already given the answer: "No, these questions still exist, but they would have erupted later. Perhaps when we made an appointment to travel and stayed in a hotel together, or perhaps when we thought the other party was in every aspect, and had a yearning for a future life, and entered the marriage."

"Since we have to face these problems sooner or later, why can't we actively face it and solve it from the beginning, but instead avoid it and procrastinate, allowing it to explode when both parties put a lot of energy and time into this relationship and only one step away from achieving the right result?"

Feng Yasong was stunned by his questioning, thinking that I just wanted to find a reason to let me go home willingly...

He thought that every question he asked casually was particularly serious about?

While secretly mocking himself for his mistakes, Feng Yasong felt particularly at ease with his subconscious performance.

Because this just proves that he takes this relationship very seriously.

Driven by guilt, Feng Yasong corrected his attitude and couldn't help asking him: "So according to your opinion, what should we do to solve this problem and avoid a bad ending?"

Chong Jingchen's crow-like eyelashes were lowered, and he pondered for a long time before looking up at her and said, "I think the most important thing to maintain an intimate relationship is to communicate more."

"In front of me, you don't have to hide your shortcomings, you don't have to deliberately flatter you. You just need to keep you the most relaxed and comfortable state, and at the same time you must be honest with me. What you like, want, hate, and what my behaviors make you feel uncomfortable, you must say it bravely, and then I can adjust your behavior according to your wishes."

"Otherwise, if I don't understand what I want to do to you, do bad things with kindness, and you don't know that I'm out of kindness, misunderstandings will arise."

Speaking of this, Chong Jingchen bent his eyes and said to her solemnly: "From the moment I decided to be with you, I really hope that we can have a good ending."

"So even if things are unpredictable, I am willing to do my best to do this. I hope you can cooperate with me, point out my mistakes in time and urge me to correct them, instead of keeping them in my heart and secretly deducting points. When I find an abnormality, all efforts will be useless. Is it okay?"

His dark eyes were shining brightly under the light, which was a little more dazzling than the stars in the night sky, and his begging tone was so gentle that Feng Yasong's heart was softer into sweet marshmallows.

How could he be willing to reject his proposal for the sake of their two good things?

She nodded without hesitation and said, "Of course!"

"But I can't be the only one who keeps comfortable and relaxed in front of you and is honest with you. You should also be your truest self in front of me, tell me honestly what you like and hate. If there are any things that make you unhappy, you must also ask me to correct it in time, instead of just trying to please me, just to be wronged yourself."

"Because love is mutual, tolerance and understanding should also be mutual. I don't want to ride on your neck and live alone in peace and quiet. I want both of us to be relaxed and comfortable and live happily with each other. Is it okay?"
Chapter completed!