Zhou Mo's eyes were filled with tears, "Auntie, you are so good."

Liang Xinyun smiled, held the back of Zhou Mo's hand, and comforted her: "I'm from your age, and I understand what you think. They are all women, how hard they are and how entangled they are. We all know that there is a saying that goes, why should women make things difficult for women? I hope you and Han Chen can live a good life. It's enough to be happy every day. Don't be too busy responding to the pressure given by the Han family as I was when I was young, and you have to be busy with work, and you can't leave Han Chen behind."

Zhou Mo fell into deep thought.

Zhou Mo dared not even think about how much pressure Liang Xinyun was at that time.

Everything is piled up on a woman, and there is no one around her who can rely on. I really don’t know how I survived this life.

"Actually, I regretted it before," Liang Xinyun said, "I regretted my will and gave birth to Han Chen. It doesn't matter if I said I was cold or not, or if I was not worthy of being a mother, it doesn't matter. My heart told me that I just regret it. If I had no Han Chen at that time, maybe I could have achieved higher grades at work, and would not have been able to devote more energy to my work to the hospital in the imperial capital because of taking care of my children. Think about it from another perspective, if there were no Han Chen, maybe I could have less excuses to let the Han family attack me. Han Chen was stumbling, it was my fault. What was the point of making some small mistakes, and it was my fault. How much good did you say that I would give birth to this child besides making it more difficult for me to live?"

Zhou Mo thought about it and tried to guess, "Super retirement?"

Liang Xinyun chuckled, "Come on, in this society, as long as you haven't entered the coffin, don't think about not raising your own children. Look at Han Chen, you said his career is okay, right? But you think, who paid for the money for this house? Not all of me? I would rather go to a sanatorium if I hope he can take care of me. On the day of his death, he didn't put my coffin in, so I would be grateful."

Zhou Mo was speechless for a moment.

Liang Xinyun asked with a smile: "Have you ever thought about what is the most important thing in this world?"

Zhou Mo thought for a while: "Family, family affection?"

Liang Xinyun shook her head, "Yourself. People live for themselves. You should put your feelings and thoughts first. As for the family and family affection you mentioned, they are chain effects. If you live well, the people around you who care about you will naturally feel at ease. Of course, if you can't stand you everywhere and obstruct you, you won't think so. They always want to deprive you of something from you to satisfy their narrow-minded thought pleasure. No matter marriage, love, family, or women must be prepared to enter and the courage to leave at any time."

"Take me for example..." Liang Xinyun turned to Zhou Mo and looked at Zhou Mo gently: "I have never been in love in my life, nor have I liked anyone or loved anyone, but I don't think I am sad, nor do I feel that my life is imperfect. Because I have done everything I want to do and can do."

Zhou Mo said in surprise: "You have never liked someone before?"

"Well," Liang Xinyun said: "Love is not necessary, and... I got married at the age of 23, and Han Chen, who was born at the age of 25, was busy with his studies before that and didn't have time to consider the relationship. Although he was forced to get married under the pressure of his family, he couldn't cheat just because he didn't love him. Since love has nothing to do with me, it's better to keep yourself alone, and it's good to be alone."

Zhou Mo didn't know whether to envy Liang Xinyun or sympathize with her.

If you think about it carefully, you will admire her even more.

Over the years, even if her husband has and has nothing, she has always restrained herself and returned to courtesy, and did not do anything contrary to the rules, giving the other party enough respect.

Compared to liking others with sin, Liang Xinyun seems to be more willing to devote her energy to herself.

Even after retirement, she did not revolve around Han Chen, but instead preferred to do her own thing.

On weekdays, I always ask Liu Xiangru to go out for a walk, or go to the sanatorium to see the old friends there, and sing opera together.

Others may think Liang Xinyun is pitiful and sad, and she will not even have love in her life.

But Zhou Mo didn't think so, probably Liang Xinyun had never thought so either.

There is no love, but I have children and husbands. I don’t have to serve my husband and family members. I don’t have to worry about food or clothing. I used to be a doctor, and I enjoyed social status. I still have things I like when I get older.

This is obviously a woman's ideal life.

Love is not a necessity. With or without it, it is all arranged by God.

If you have to make a choice, living like Liang Xinyun may be a free and easy task.

"Auntie, after hearing what you said, I don't seem to be so stressful," Zhou Mo said embarrassedly: "I actually... I told Han Chen that I don't really want children for the time being. I'm in a hurry to study and have to work after graduation... I'm really scared. I know I'm not a person who can become a top female scientist in the future, but my major, I have been studying for so many years, studied so much, and invested more than ten years of my energy and money. I can't think that I won't make a profit after graduation. Or because of my children and family, I will give up so many years of deep cultivation."

"But..." Zhou Mo hesitated again, "The best age for a woman to have children is only those few years, and it overlaps with the critical period of a woman's career. Many times, we have to choose one of two. I originally wanted to give myself some time to consider it, but now... God doesn't give you a chance. Maybe if you want children in the future, you can only consider assisted reproductive technology."

"No, don't," Liang Xinyun interrupted, "Listen to my advice, even if you can't have a child, don't force yourself to do IVF."

Zhou Mo looked at her in confusion, "Why?"

"Because..." Liang Xinyun thought for a while and said with difficulty: "It's so painful. Really, that kind of sin may be more uncomfortable than your confinement period. Don't just look at the success rate of IVF and how many people have helped solve the problem of having children. It is that the social and family benefits it brings are very high, but who has really cared about the physical cost of women during the IVF process? Let's not mention the money for now, hundreds of thousands are too common. Who has experienced the process of doing IVF? You have to frequently urge to senile, give yourself an injection on your belly, and go to the hospital to operate and implant the embryo into the uterus. The probability of success in one go is very low, often many times. Success in the colonization period is not considered successful, and you may experience multiple miscarriages during the period. IVF is often multiple births, and the risk index of twin pregnancy increases. If you exceed the second birth, you have to consider reducing the fetus, otherwise the mother may not be able to get off the operating table."
Chapter completed!