Chapter 757 Competition 19
Han Chen: "With me here, you don't have to worry about money."
Zhou Mo: "It's different. You know my personality. I can't be a housewife like a dodder. As a woman in the new era, I want to work and realize my value in society. Otherwise, wouldn't it be in vain for me to read books for so many years?"
Han Chen: "I know. I just want to, don't put too much pressure on yourself. We... aren't that short of money either."
Zhou Mo: "This is also something I am glad to have. My life is not as short of money yet, but... it is only now. The days ahead are still long. Who can tell the future? I will definitely be right to prepare for it and save more money."
Han Chen: "Well. I will work hard, come on and make money."
Zhou Mo turned over and faced him.
She smiled with relief at the corner of her lips, "I admire my mentor the most. Her current living conditions should be the ideal living conditions for many people, and she lives completely for herself."
Han Chen: "How to say it?"
Zhou Mo: "I have a high education, and I am still a university professor. I have the ability to make money by myself, and my career is still prosperous. When outsiders look at her, they may feel pitiful, and I will regret that she has divorced and is still alone. But I think the real pitiful are those who pity her. My mentor, I have to have education, education, work, marriage, divorce, and singleness. Women do not say that happiness is happiness in marriage, but most marriages are just a matter of life. Just like my mentor, I can give myself whatever I want, and I don't have to worry about the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She has a daughter, and she is not unfamiliar with her. Isn't this a kind of happiness?"
Han Chen smiled, "Yes. Just live happily. There are not so many standard answers in life. Those who piti others either have jealousy in their hearts and feel that they are not doing well. They are also not doing well. They are either the siege effect of marriage, and those who get married think that they are not getting married, and vice versa. People always like to talk big about things they have not experienced or are not familiar with, either extreme belittle or brainless worship."
Zhou Mo looked up at him, his eyes resentful and suspicious, "Why do you feel like you are saying that I'm brainless?"
"Where can't I dare? No matter who I say, I won't talk about you."
"Just say it, I'm not afraid of people talking. Controversy means that I've been thinking about it. In my life, I would rather die clearly than live in a mess," Zhou Mo said. "I often think that the marriage system is just a product of social development, and it can even be said to be a product of agricultural society's development, which has been left in the industrial society. Perhaps in the early stages of industrial society, the marriage system, as the smallest economic unit, is conducive to social stability and economic development. However, if the industrial society is developed enough, the existing marriage system cannot match social development and even limits personal development. The so-called marriage system will also collapse."
Han Chen was surprised: "I have never thought about this. Your point of view is worth pondering."
"Don't blame me for mentioning the theory of violence. I have really thought about it seriously. I'm even thinking about why women value marriage so much. Most people think that marriage is happy and women's life is happy. Men will feel that career success is perfect, and they don't have that high expectations for marriage. This is a complex sociological issue, but the best explanation I have ever heard is interpreted from the genetic level. The 'selfish' gene allows men and women to make different choices."
"In order to continue their genes, men will cast wide nets. The more they scatter, the more likely their genes will be passed down widely. Similarly, eggs cannot be placed in a basket. Women are the same. In order for their offspring to grow up safely, they need a stable family environment to support themselves in nurturing their offspring, so they value the stability of their marriage more."
Han Chen: "After the final analysis, animal instinct. Some people also say that all human social behaviors are actually xi
The g-driven theory is similar to the 'selfish gene' you said."
Zhou Mo looked at him with a smile, "I didn't expect you to do this kind of sociological thinking."
Han Chen: "If you learn more knowledge, you will inevitably extend it, summarize it, and go to a higher philosophical level. This is learning."
Zhou Mo said excitedly: "Yes! I also think that it is really interesting and fresh to read new research every day, looking at the violent theories proposed by various people, and looking at their theoretical basis and thinking process. It is much more interesting than playing games and watching videos."
Han Chen smiled at the corner of his lips and looked at her deeply, "I like you, you have always been so wise."
It is not intelligence that is superficial, but wisdom that is incisive.
Intelligence and wisdom are not the same thing.
Everyone has intelligence, but wisdom is not.
Zhou Mo: "Do you know there is a kind of love orientation called intelligence? It means using IQ standards as the love orientation. I feel that you are a bit like it."
Han was stunned for a moment and said in a daze: "Is that true?"
Zhou Mo: "I remember there is a very classic saying about intelligence. If you search and see if it resonates with you."
With curiosity, Han Chen reached out to grab his phone and searched according to Zhou Mo's guidance.
That passage says: I don't care if it's high C, I want a sharp, insightful, unrestrained mind. I want to have someone who can discuss philosophy with me as a Q drama. I want sometimes satisfying me because of their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone who can touch it at will. I want someone who I can hug at any time. I decide all of this, which means I'm intelligent. I want to have relationships with people's thoughts.
Han Chen smiled and read it, saying, "It really resonates, but... no man doesn't want to find a smart wife. Besides, the statement of intelligence is still controversial. From the perspective of psychology and sociology, it only cares more about the other person's IQ, and it is not a sexual orientation."
Zhou Mo: "Why do you like me at first glance? Just because I look good and look white?"
Han Chen recalled the past and said seriously: "You... are so white that people can't take your eyes off, and you think it's good."
Zhou Mo smiled and said, "No matter how beautiful I look, it's not like a country. At most, it's better to look at me because I'm white."
Han Chen pondered for a moment, "Maybe...I am really wise."
The first time he met Zhou Mo was after moving, he was about to go downstairs.
I happened to meet Zhou Mo talking to someone at the corner of the stairs.
They were discussing a view from Marx: the process from commodity to currency is a "thrilling jump". If this jump fails, it is not the commodity that breaks, but the commodity owner.
The other party didn't understand, and Zhou Mo was explaining the meaning of this sentence to the other party.
Chapter completed!