Author: Chop wood and carry water

Cao Yu said disdainfully: You are so smart, why can't you understand this? Even if what he tells is true, there is still a problem of how to understand it. Because some things are not inherent in you. If you want to get the other person's love, then

If you want to make changes for him, whether such changes can be sustained for a long time is also a question you have to consider. Moreover, once you understand some things, you will wonder, is his love what you want? You are worth it.

Does he make changes?

Yan Tingting thought: What you mean is that youth and beauty are inherent in you, but they cannot last. Money and status are external things. You may have it, you may not have it, and it may not last long. It is difficult to have it without you. On the contrary, it is like this

The bad habits of being lazy, cunning, smoking and drinking can be learned once they are learned, but it is difficult to get rid of them after a while. So, if you want this love to last forever, then you need him to get rid of these bad habits as much as possible, right?

Yan Tingting looked at Cao Yu as she spoke, and saw that he was looking at her with a strange look in his eyes. She quickly said: What are you doing? Is there something wrong with what I said?

Cao Yu said lightly: Your ears are too long, aren't they? I'm talking about making changes on your own to cater to his hobbies. How can you hear that you want to change the other person to satisfy yourself?

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Yan Tingting's pretty face turned red and she hurriedly said vaguely: Hey, don't worry about who changes whom! It doesn't matter, do you just want to say that if both parties are unwilling to make changes for each other, this life will not last long, right?

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Cao Yu nodded and said: It sounds like that, but what I am saying is that before you start, you should think about whether it is worth making these changes for him.

Yan Tingting frowned and thought: Isn't this difficult? Everyone knows that when you are in love, you should try your best to show your strengths and hide your weaknesses. If you want to find out what's wrong with him, I'm afraid it's not that easy! Since you

If you love him, you must be prepared to tolerate all his faults! Nature is easy to change but hard to change. I am afraid no one can change their own faults because of love, right?

Cao Yu knew that she was testing whether he could change for love, but he was ready to avoid the problem and avoid it, so he nodded and said: This is the focus of our discussion. If you want to stay together, you need perseverance! The two of them have been together for a long time.

, you will only find more and more bad habits in the other person, and those things that once attracted you are constantly passing away, so naturally your love cannot be saved.

Yan Tingting saw that he didn't seem to understand what she meant, so she continued to add: What you mean is that before falling in love, you should see clearly the flaws in the other person that you can't tolerate, so as to avoid regrets in the future, right? But the problem is

Yes, even if you find that he has those bad habits and you point them out to him in good faith, but he just doesn't listen and doesn't change, what should you do?

Cao Yu saw that she was not finished, and immediately said with disdain: Who told you to always think about finding faults in others? If you say that he doesn't listen and you are angry yourself, you are not asking for it!

Yan Tingting said angrily: "Then what do you mean? Oh, if you don't change your fault, you will keep it to piss me off in the future, right? Or should you just advise me to turn a blind eye and just forget it, and just get used to it in the future?"

Cao Yu argued: Doesn’t everyone have a lot of problems? You think he is careless and unhygienic, and he also thinks your mother-in-law and mother-in-law are just messing around! Let me tell you, men and women are two different creatures.

If it weren't for that need, both sides would definitely dislike each other, so would we still have to live together?

Yan Tingting's face immediately turned ugly and she said anxiously: What do you think we should do?

Cao Yu said calmly: Seek common ground while reserving differences! Don’t you know that you need to be tolerant for love? If you just look at the other person’s faults and don’t even have a relationship, what else can you talk about that won’t make it possible to live in the future?! So, this

The key to the problem is whether this love is worth it! Not only do you have to see clearly what you love about him, but also what he loves you for. Can you accept his love like this? If you can't accept even his love,

That’s so tolerant!

Yan Tingting asked in confusion: What do you mean? Apart from being too ugly and disgusting, is there anything unacceptable in love?

He blinked his eyes and said slyly: Look, aren't we all equally lustful?

Yan Tingting realized that she had let something slip, she blushed, rolled her eyes and said: Don't interrupt, speak seriously.

Cao Yu explained calmly: For example, if he says he likes to eat your cooking, then you have to consider whether you want to learn to cook and whether you want to cook for him all your life.

Yan Tingting was even more confused and said: I don't understand, he likes to eat the food I cook. Isn't that good? What's unacceptable about this?

Cao Yu looked at her dreamingly and continued expressionlessly: If you think this is normal, then let me ask you again. In addition to eating the food you cooked, he also likes to watch you wash dishes, wipe the table and sweep the floor.

Are you happy with the way it looks like cleaning?

Yan Tingting still looked confused and said: I still don't understand, there's nothing wrong with doing more housework? As long as he is willing to come back, I will keep the house clean and everyone will be comfortable, right? I think

This is normal. If you do more activities, just think of losing weight and exercising. I can accept it.

Cao Yu went a step further and said: If you still think this is normal, then he will go on to say that he likes the way you earn money and spend it for him, he likes you to obey his words and obey him, and he likes you not to smile.

You can't wear too revealing clothes, you can't talk to other boys...

The more Yan Tingting listened, the more she felt something was wrong. Then she became alert, frowned and interrupted impatiently: Come on, come on, you are too lenient?! Are you looking for a wife? I have done all this.

, then what are you doing?

Cao Yu had tenderness in his eyes and said softly: I will support you! When I have money, I will definitely let you live a good life!

Yan Tingting looked disdainful and said coldly: Tsk! Are you talking in human language? What do you mean you are raising me? I am obviously raising you now, okay! Even if you can raise me in the future, isn't that the same as in the future?

Well, let’s talk about the future later. Just tell me what you can do for me now? Can you tell me something useful?

Cao Yu's face was full of joy and he said: Don't you just want to hear me praise you? I think you look good when you cook, you look good when you do housework, and you look good when you are obedient. Give me the money and let me spend it.

I like it very much. You serve me and make me feel comfortable everywhere. I like it. What I like most is that you can give everything to me without reservation and condition! I will remember what you have done for me.

I like everything, dedication, sacrifice...

Yan Tingting stopped quickly and said angrily: Okay, okay, what are you going to do? With all my efforts, you are the only one in exchange for these two beautiful words of yours?

Cao Yu said with a serious face: Look at what you said, you are doing better than me, and you are doing beautifully! I let you do this and that, aren't I just giving you a chance to set up a stage for you to sing!

Let your talents be fully displayed. I am watching your performance silently below, applauding and cheering for you. Aren't you happy? Isn't this for your own good?

Yan Tingting was dissatisfied and said: Is it for my own good? You just sit there and applaud while watching me busy around alone. Is this for my own good?!

Cao Yu said sincerely: Don’t you just like to show off? Aren’t the things I mentioned are what you like to do? You said it yourself, working can keep you in shape and save you from becoming lazy, greedy and fat.

, it will save you from developing the bad habit of being lazy when it comes to food and opening your mouth. You have to know that it would be terrible if this person let himself down. I am afraid that you are hopeless, aren't you afraid of yourself?

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Yan Tingting snorted coldly: Are you afraid that I am hopeless? Why are you not afraid of your own depravity? I have done all this, so what do I want?

Cao Yu said boldly: Don't you just want to save face? I keep praising you and applauding you, aren't you happy? I eat well, drink well, dress well, and spend generously, not just to give you

Boss! I'm allowed to look good in front of outsiders just to tell them that I have found a good wife! I can tell them everywhere that my wife treats me well and she wants me to go out.

You can't embarrass her, you give me everything, you are obedient to me, just to make me happy and to make me so proud, don't you feel very proud?

Yan Tingting was so angry that she cursed and said: I'm so proud of you! I can see clearly that you are just a pervert who doesn't mean what you say. You are just selfish and don't treat me as a human being! You just know that you are alone and happy outside.

How have you ever considered my feelings, my life and death? These beautiful words are all said to sound nice, but in fact they are not sincere at all. They are clearly just to confuse me, so that I will willingly work for you, like an old woman.

I'm at your mercy, right?

She thought for a while and then added: No, mom, you still have to pay me, and I won’t let you be bullied like this! You didn’t say anything, and you just wanted to send me away with just two beautiful words.

, and you spend my money to put on a show outside and make a big profit, then you are just a prodigal! No, prodigals are not like you. They are spending their parents’ money to make their wives happy! It’s better for you to eat from me.

Who would like such a vampire who spends money on me and uses other methods to bully me?

Cao Yu waited for her to finish venting her anger like a barrage, and then he said with a sinister smile: Haha, don't worry, we are not talking about things! I think you are very capable and strong, so you are good at face.

, I just like to hear others praise you for being awesome and capable! Everything I do is to satisfy your hobbies! The reason why I cater to your hobbies is not because I love you.

!I just like to see you happy. To be honest, the way you work is really cute. Do you understand now? Are you willing to accept this love from me?

Yan Tingting flatly refused and said: I don't want to, do you love me? You want me to work hard for you! You are obviously a chicken thief, a pretty boy! Oh, you want me to live for you, for your friends, you

Why should I live with such dignity?

Cao Yu said slyly, "Look at what you said is so unpleasant. I'm doing this all for you. My face is your face. Only when I live a decent life can you have face. Aren't you proud to see how glorious I am?"

Yan Tingting snorted coldly: I'm not proud! There is a louse lying on my body sucking blood. Apart from feeling pain, what can I be proud of?

Cao Yu continued without any discouragement: Then I have to say, what is important about love is not being willing to sacrifice everything for the one you love, even sacrificing your life! Those who are willing to sacrifice for love are the only ones in the world.

The cutest person, isn't it? I like people who are caring, dedicated, willing to sacrifice, and proud of themselves. If you are so selfish and unwilling to make sacrifices for me, it only means that you don't love me.

,do you think so?

Yan Tingting didn't even think about it, and said angrily: You're right! Love is about giving, but it is also voluntary because of love. You are willing to pay for love, and you are willing to dedicate. What do you think this is? You are clearly here.

Forcing and inducing others to contribute to you! Moreover, the dedication of love is mutual. Just watching me contribute, and you stand on the side to cheer and cheer, that is not called love, that is bad! A couple like you

It’s not even human, let alone love!

Cao Yu said with a bad smile: Look at what you said, aren't you calling animals inferior to humans? In fact, there is no love for no reason in the animal world, and there is no such thing as coercing similar people to dedicate and sacrifice for themselves! They are in danger

, at most it will just disperse and run for its own life. The sacrifice it makes is to protect the nest and protect its young. It is out of the instinct of reproducing the species. Have you ever seen any animal that forces its own kind to work hard and die for itself?

Yan Tingting said angrily: These people are really worse than beasts! I believe that bad people do all kinds of evil, but no matter how stupid a person is, they are not stupid enough to help others abuse themselves, right? Would anyone want such a kind of groveling and loss of dignity in love?

Cao Yu said with a bad smile: "Of course some people want it! And there are still many ways that people are rushing to get it!"

Of course Yan Tingting knew what he said was true. Wasn't he just saying that he was a hot cake, and there were many people rushing to get it? So she couldn't help but said angrily: I don't care if I want whoever I love!

Cao Yu looked at her and was angry for a while, then suddenly laughed and said slyly: Yes, I think so too. Everyone is equal before love, you love me and I give to each other, I will listen to you in everything, just let it go

I am at your beck and call and cannot even protect my basic human dignity. How can there be true love?!

She didn't expect that Cao Yu would be waiting for her here. Yan Tingting was choked and was speechless for a moment. She had to swallow her saliva and then said coldly: I understand that these words were insincere, so what is the last duplicity?

Cao Yu said proudly: To be honest, whether he tells the truth or not, he is telling the truth, but you have to listen carefully. After listening, you need to think carefully to understand what he means. He

The first thing about this kind of love is whether you can do it, and the second thing is whether you can accept it. And this kind of duplicity is much more complicated. To explain it literally, it means that he is really saying that he loves you, but he really doesn’t mean it in his heart.

He loves you, at least not necessarily in his heart.
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