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Chapter 43 The Old Lady's Thoughts

"What does Mediator Mi think of this old lady?"

After leaving the door and walking back, Yunheng asked Michelle.

At the old lady's house, Yunheng naturally didn't question anything. He examined the old lady, asked questions for a while, and listened to the old lady chatting for a while. The two of them stood up and left.

Yun Heng knew very well that he was here to understand the situation, not to argue or persuade.

In a situation like this in Li Jiangmei's family, many problems have been going on for many years. They are not frozen overnight. Neither the old lady nor Li Jiangmei can be easily persuaded. They must prescribe the right medicine and find the right method.

Otherwise, whether you say good things about the old lady in front of Li Jiangmei, or ask Li Jiangmei to be considerate of the old lady, or talk about Li Jiangmei in front of the old lady, it will arouse the other party's resentment. Not only will they be disgusted, but it will also affect the implementation of subsequent plans.

Moreover, Yun Heng did not dare to be completely sure about the truth or falsehood of what the old lady just said. Just saying that the pulse test was inconsistent, Yun Heng did not dare to say that the old lady had lied.

In traditional Chinese medicine, the situation of inconsistent pulse syndromes and contradictory pulse syndromes already exists.

Moreover, Yunheng also knows that his level is actually not very high. Even if there is a simulation space, and even though he has been working in the West Asia community for almost twenty days, his clinical experience is not rich.

If my level is not high and my experience is not deep, then the probability of making mistakes is definitely there, so I cannot definitely deny the old lady.

"I think Grandma Huang's words are half truthful and half false, and she's pretending to be pitiful."

When Michelle heard Yunheng's question, she hurriedly answered.

Michelle has actually just arrived at the sub-district office, and today is only her third day at work. Originally, the mediator Qi Yaping mentioned was not Michelle, but Sister Chen, Chen Huihui, whom Michelle mentioned.

Qi Yaping called yesterday. Chen Huihui originally planned to come by herself, but after Michelle found out about the matter, she volunteered.

Michelin's family background is superior, to be precise, her family background is very superior. She has a master's degree in psychology and has just started working, so she is very eager to express herself.

Generally speaking, children from wealthy families are actually more likely to develop two extreme personalities. One is naturally spoiled, and the other wants to express themselves.

My family is well off, but I don't want people to say that I rely entirely on my family, so I am eager to perform. Michelin falls into the second category.

The family is rich, so Michelin doesn't care about salary. The mediator she works for in the street is not actually a staff, it is completely a contract worker, and the salary is very low. The monthly income is not as high as that of nurses and doctors in community hospitals. In the west,

Here in Hua City, the monthly salary is only about two to three thousand.

In fact, most of this kind of work is what women are willing to do after marriage. It is close to home, the work is not too tiring, and they are in the community all day long. It is also good to earn some money to support the family.

Michelle naturally doesn't care about income. She just wants to do some work from the grassroots level to show her family and friends that she is actually very capable.

It was precisely because of this situation that Michelle was angry and uncomfortable when she was questioned by Yun Heng, but she did not go crazy. She didn't quite understand. She just felt a little uncomfortable being questioned by Yun Heng, so she wanted to express herself even more.

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So just now at Li Jiangmei's mother-in-law's house, Mi Shilin was observing, listening, and analyzing very seriously. When Yunheng asked, she hurriedly expressed her opinion.

"When Dr. Yun asked you some questions just now, Grandma Huang seemed to answer very naturally, but she still showed abnormalities in some aspects. It's just that there are some things that Grandma Huang often said to people. After saying them for a long time, she began to believe them.

Already."

"Any more?"

Yun Heng also had this speculation. At this moment, he felt that this vase, uh, this beautiful mediator was actually quite good.

"Also, I think some of Grandma Huang's behavior and some words were actually done deliberately to attract others' attention and to hope that others would care about her."

Michelin said.

"Tell me more about it."

This statement from Yun Hengjue's Mi Shilin is more reliable.

"For example, Grandma Huang always likes to say bad things about Li Jiangmei and her daughter-in-law to some people. In fact, she wants to use this method to make her daughter-in-law treat her better, and at the same time, she is

She can't hide her grievances and likes to find someone to vent to."

Yun Heng felt that there was some truth to it. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were in conflict, both of them must have had grudges and resentments. Why was Li Jiangmei unhappy and suffering from stagnation of liver qi? It was precisely because Li Jiangmei kept everything in her heart and did not tell anyone.

Over time, she suppressed herself to death. On the contrary, Grandma Huang couldn't hide her grievances. She let others learn from her grievances and vented them herself. Instead, she didn't have the same problem as Li Jiangmei.

Moreover, Grandma Huang said something bad about her daughter-in-law to others. It may indeed be the case as Michelle said. Others know that you are bad. If you care about your reputation, can you treat me better?

It's just that the old lady took things for granted, and in the end she made things worse.

Michelle continued: "Now that Grandma Huang lives alone, she must be a little lonely. In the past, some things may not have been obvious to her grandson when she was young. Now that her grandson is older, her grandson and granddaughter must be facing their mother, and gradually become more and more like Grandma Huang.

She is also estranged, and Grandma Huang is even more lonely, so she will try to stir up troubles at every turn, hoping to attract the attention of her son, daughter-in-law, grandson and granddaughter."

Li Jiangmei has a son and a daughter. She has met her son Yunheng, who is in his early twenties, and her daughter is younger. She is seventeen or eighteen years old this year. A child of this age must be sensible.

Before the child was ten years old or twelve or thirteen years old, he didn't know much about certain things. He might have liked grandma and always ran to grandma's house. Now that he is older, he understands things and understands how to feel sorry for his mother, so naturally he becomes estranged from grandma.

The second child is far away in Jiangwu, and the children of the second child are naturally also in Jiangwu. For Grandma Huang, her grandchildren must be Li Jiangmei’s sons and daughters. When people get older, they naturally want to be lively and have people remember them. Grandchildren and grandchildren

Now that she is far away from herself, the old lady must be feeling uncomfortable and may want to relieve herself, but she cannot save her face, so she always likes to create something to prevent herself from being forgotten.

And this kind of fuss had the opposite effect, making Li Jiangmei even more disgusted. Li Jiangmei felt that she had moved out and could not find peace, and she felt even more uncomfortable.

"Dr. Yun, these are some of my opinions."

Michelle's analysis is quite detailed.

"Well, I think what Mediator Mi said is somewhat reasonable."

Yun Heng nodded. At this moment, he felt that he had been really hasty before. This beautiful mediator may not understand the selfishness of parents, but she can still read people's thoughts very accurately. She deserves to be a master's degree in psychology.

While talking, the two people arrived at the community hospital.

"Teacher Yun, Mediator Mi."

Ren Xuedong saw Yunheng and Mi Shilin coming back and hurriedly stood up to greet them.

"Sit down."
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