Chapter 146 Difficulty teaching a wife
Mrs. Fan stubbornly turned her head away and remained silent. She is just a woman, how can she be treated as a man? She is not a monster, she is a woman!
Mr. Fan looked at his daughter with all kinds of emotions, and suddenly laughed: "You are so similar to your mother, and you have the same good fortune as your mother. Okay, I won't talk about you anymore. Zong Liang is a good man who is affectionate, righteous and responsible.
Back then, your mother used Nu Shu and Xiao Jing as the standard for everything. You must be the same, so that's fine.
The only thing is, listen, no matter what Xiao Wu does, you can rest assured that she will never damage the reputation of the Li family. The Li family is born into a family of bandits, and there is nothing wrong with it. The same goes for you, and the same goes for me.
, they are all people who have fallen into the grass, and those scholarly things don’t count!
You can rest assured that Xiaowu will not let anyone interfere with the marriage of the four Li brothers. As for the future, if you have children and daughters, if you want to get married, I'm afraid you will have to use Xiaowu's door.
Only by climbing up the banner can you climb up. I don’t need to say more about this. In three or two years, even if you are blind, you will know it by then. You can rest assured!"
Mrs. Fan listened blankly to her father's words. Of these words, she only understood the words that Zong Liang was a good man who was affectionate, righteous and responsible.
Mr. Fan took a deep breath and waved his hand feebly: "Okay, you can go back. Also, from tomorrow on, don't go to the Li family. You are an unmarried girl, and you are Xiaozhong,
Going to Li's house every day is not in line with your Nv Shu's Filial Piety Classic. Besides, it also prevents Xiao Wu from ruining the reputation of your sisters. From tomorrow on, you will abide by the rules of Nv's Shu and strictly observe them.
Just do your sewing at home, don’t go anywhere, don’t even step out of the second door!”
Mrs. Fan's face turned gray and she looked at her father with trembling lips.
Mr. Fan was already discouraged to the end, but he calmed down. He looked at his daughter with sad eyes, "Since you are sure of your path, stick to it to the end and go ahead."
Mrs. Fan stood up, shook her body a few times, and saw that her father still wanted to speak, but she didn't know what to say with her mouth open. She stood there for a long time, and walked out of the yard in a daze.
Yu Yan hurriedly stepped forward to support her, and after walking for more than ten steps, Mrs. Fan took a sharp breath, turned to look at Yu Yan, and ordered in a low voice: "Go to the uncle and tell me that I want to see you."
He, I want to see him now!"
Yu Yan was extremely shocked, nodded hurriedly, and supported Mrs. Fan to send her back first. Mrs. Fan had a fierce look on her face and pushed Yu Yan hard: "Go quickly!"
Yu Yan was pushed back by Mrs. Fan and staggered a few steps before she regained her balance. She hurriedly picked up her skirt and ran towards the east courtyard of Li's house.
Mrs. Fan watched Yu Yan run away quickly, took a few steps towards her yard, stopped, thought for a moment, then turned around and headed towards the Li Family Flower Hall.
Mrs. Fan stood behind the rockery next to the flower hall and kept looking towards the east courtyard. After a while, she saw Li Zongliang following the jade inkstone and rushing towards the corner gate. Mrs. Fan hurriedly stepped out, her face flushed and lowered.
After giving a low greeting, Li Zongliang stopped hastily. Mrs. Fan turned around and entered the flower hall. Li Zongliang followed behind and also entered the flower hall. Yu Yan stood guarding the door of the flower hall with his hands lowered.
Madam Fan sat on the kang, clutching the handkerchief, lowering her head, and continued intermittently what she had just said to Mr. Fan. She looked up at Li Zongliang, who was frowning tightly, hesitated for a moment, and then told the story about the weaving workshop.
said.
Li Zongliang looked at Mrs. Fan in confusion. After being silent for a long time, he asked in a warm voice: "What are you thinking now?"
"I listen to you." Mrs. Fan grabbed the handkerchief in her hand, lowered her head and said in a low voice.
Li Zongliang looked at her, thought about it for a long time, and then said: "Last time I came back, I also talked with Xiaoyao. Xiaoyao said that in my place, everything must be about you. From now on, we will become a family.
I also have to put our little family first. If I have a penny, I will use it for you and the children first. When I have the surplus, I will talk about other things. When a man marries a daughter-in-law, he must first fulfill his duties to his wife and children. He must not be like this anymore.
As in the past, loyalty came first. Xiaoyao not only said this to me, but Erhuai also said it. You see, although she is a younger sister, in terms of being sensible and sensible, I am not as good as her."
Mrs. Fan opened her mouth, and Li Zongliang looked at her with soft eyes, waiting for her to speak.
Mrs. Fan said in a low voice: "I'm not saying she's not good, she is...after all, she's from a girl's family. I'm older than her, I've gone to school, and I'm from... I'm a sister, and my eldest sister-in-law is like my mother.
You have to..."
"To talk about this, sir, you are right. You can't always think that you are older than her. You always think that she is just a little girl. Just like you, you worry about her and are always afraid that she will not take any step well. You...
As a sister, I feel ashamed.
But let alone you, even me and my husband, together, are not even half as good as her. We can't see where she is wrong or right at all. Those arrangements she made...you can't see those arrangements. None of these can be seen.
Blame you. Let me tell you, sometimes I can understand the things she did afterward. Sometimes I understand after Shui Sheng told me. Sometimes Shui Sheng said it to me, but I still can’t quite understand it. Sometimes, Shui Sheng said
He didn't understand either. Shuisheng also said that he felt that Xiao Yao must have done many other things that we didn't even know about.
You see, people are different. Although Xiaoyao is my biological sister, I am not as knowledgeable and intelligent as her. If you are a housewife in your own right, you must have never heard of her things.
I said, don’t think or worry too much, don’t worry, Xiaoyao won’t let herself suffer, she can take care of herself.”
Madam Fan nodded slowly.
Li Zongliang breathed a sigh of relief, and then said: "Sir, I asked you not to use those female books to read Xiao Yao. This makes sense. Look at Xiao Yao. Whether it was in the mountains before or now, she has never looked at Xiao Yao.
If you see her as a housewife, and others don't look at her as a housewife, then you should treat her as a noble son, as a noble son, and this matter will be straightened out."
Mrs. Fan pouted, frowned, looked up at Li Zongliang and whispered: "How can she get married in the future if she looks like this? This is a big deal."
"Didn't I tell you, don't worry about her. She is different from you. I also told her about this matter, and she didn't even let me take care of it. To be honest, we just want to take care of it. Where to start?
Woolen cloth?"
"If you care..." Mrs. Fan said half of her words in a low voice before swallowing the rest.
Li Zongliang looked at her: "We are all ordinary people. I don't have any great abilities. My husband and I both have great talents and ambitions. You are also a responsible person. We don't ask for anything else but to live a safe life."
But, don’t ask for those kinds of glory and wealth. From now on, we can just live our normal lives. How prosperous and rich Xiaoyao is in the future, that’s hers. Let her go, okay?”
Mrs. Fan looked at Li Zongliang and said hesitantly: "We are always one family, biological relatives..."
"Xiao Yao is Xiao Yao, and we are us. After being together for a year or two, you should be able to see that Xiao Yao is very capable, has a big temper, and is arrogant. If you want to follow her and want the glory and wealth, you
You have to understand her kindness and respect her from the bottom of your heart, just like Sister Zhang and Mrs. Sun. If like now, she confesses to you and you have your own ideas, she won't tolerate such a thing, you have to take it.
You can make up your mind however you want, I will listen to you." Li Zongliang looked at Mrs. Fan gently and said.
Mrs. Fan bit her lip, looking at Li Zongliang with hesitation and stubbornness: "No matter where it comes from, she is a girl after all..."
"I told you, don't treat her like a girl!" Li Zongliang's voice was louder, showing fatigue, and his brows were knitted together, "My husband and I never dared to treat her like a girl. Everyone on the mountain respects her far more.
As for me, the second prince of Beiping Kingdom respects her as a sage and wise man, and the second prince of the Shui family always calls her husband outside.
Only you must treat her as a girl like Yueting! Let me tell you, in this family, even if you decide to live alone with her, you must respect her! At least respect her as a husband!
"
Mrs. Fan was so frightened that she trembled several times.
Li Zongliang exhaled a few breaths forcefully, frowned, looked at Mrs. Fan, slowed down his voice, and said solemnly: "Also, that Aunt Yan, please don't interact with her in the future. Anyone who talks about right and wrong, who is not a right or wrong person?"
Mrs. Fan nodded subconsciously.
Li Zongliang let out a sullen sigh, raised his hands and rubbed his face several times: "Forget it, you have big ideas and a bad temper. From now on, we will live alone. You can make up your mind about our family affairs, and I will follow you."
We, just you and me, no one else, we live our own lives. Xiaoyao, Erhuai and the others, no matter how prosperous and wealthy they are, they all belong to other people's families. You can't think too much about it.
Also, Xiaoyao’s thoughts are always different from those of ordinary people. Hers are her own, not the Li family’s, and not yours or mine. You must not have other thoughts and regard hers as the Li family’s.
Treat the Li family's belongings as yours and mine. Also, don't mess with her, do you hear me?"
Mrs. Fan nodded subconsciously, but she couldn't understand why Xiao Yao's was not from the Li family? The Li family belonged to her and Zong Liang!
Li Zongliang looked at her eyes, held his head in his hands, and was depressed for a long time. Then he looked up at Mrs. Fan and asked: "How much money did the second aunt and the third aunt make in that weaving workshop?"
"The family has one hundred taels, and they don't have much money. I thought it was just for the sake of it, so I didn't let them spend more. There is another reason for this," Mrs. Fan hurriedly explained with a hint of uneasiness: "Xiao Yao...
...Didn’t I say that we are responsible for both the Li family and the Fan family? If this weaving mill is only given to the Li family, then it will be inappropriate for the Fan family to have no foundation in the future. Since we are responsible for both families, naturally we can also
It’s better to be the foundation of both families…”
Chapter completed!