Chapter 55 Determining the Future (1)
Chapter 55: Determine the Future (1)
Chen Hanyan felt anger from Wu Hao's words, and she was half leaning against the bed with a sleepiness. Her crystal face was filled with a gloss of happiness. Her clear and deep eyes showed a hint of wisdom. She smiled confidently: "Husband! Your wife, my weak look is limited to you and your relatives. When you treat others, you will find out what a real strong woman is."
When Wu Hao heard Chen Hanyan's words, he thought carefully in his heart and replied in a verbal manner: "Wife! This person can still be persevering after Feng Shengping, which means he feels that he has certain abilities and we must not underestimate him, so I think it is best to transfer him from Min Ning. Such a politician who only thinks of using any means to obtain an official position will eventually be a disaster. As the saying goes, staying away from villains is definitely the wisest choice."
Chen Hanyan, who was on the other end of the phone, heard Wu Hao's words, and said frankly: "Honey, your journey in the future is still long, and it is not limited to your current status. In Min Ning, you have Secretary Xu's concern for you, so there are naturally no major difficulties in work. But once you get out of the Fujian and Ning circle in the future, many difficulties and setbacks will follow you one after another. At that time, escaping is undoubtedly the most stupid behavior, the kind of invisible, intangible, and feeling, but there is no Physical political struggles will continue to bother you, trap you deeply, and force you to face everything you don’t want to face. At that time, if you still blindly give in, I don’t need to say the consequences. The end of the political struggle is absolutely terrible and cannot be terrible anymore. It is said that shopping malls are like battlefields, but officialdom is hundreds of times more terrifying than battlefields. If you die on the battlefield, it means that everything is over. But failure in officialdom is not your own problem, and it may even implicate the whole family."
Wu Hao heard Chen Hanyan's words and thought about it for a while. At this time, the car stopped downstairs of his dormitory. He said to Chen Hanyan: "Wife! Wait for a while!" Then he said to Chen Xin: "Xiao Chen! You don't need to pick me up in the afternoon. I will go to the unit myself later." As he said that, Wu Hao walked out of the car.
Wu Hao walked into the corridor and spoke to Chen Hanyan, "Wife! I understand what you said, but in my heart, being a person is the foundation of being an official. The real way to be an official is to correctly grasp the major events of life - being a person who is in charge of people and things. As our great man said, be a moral person, a person who is beneficial to the people, and a person with low interest. In short, no matter how high your position or power is, any leader is not given by you since you were born, but given by the people."
Chen Hanyan heard Wu Hao's words and smiled and explained: "In real life, a person is nothing more than three meals a day and one bed a night. People get along with each other: one is to be a human being and the other is to deal with things. The ancient sage said: It is difficult to be a human being, it is difficult to stabilize the mentality from restless emotions and desires; it is difficult to get to understand the chaotic contradictions and the interweaving of interests. The officialdom is a need for the organization, and the official position is nothing more than a few words. Officials only have a "civilian heart" like the people, husband! I understand this principle better than anyone else, but fantasy and reality are completely different things. Everything in fantasy is beautiful, but we are helpless in reality. In short, reality is nothing more than fantasy."
Wu Hao's clear and deep eyes contained the deep intelligence and wisdom that could not be found out. He savored Chen Han Yan's words carefully and said with a smile: "Wife! You are right, reality and fantasy are all non-necessary things. The key to success in your life lies in a person's cultivation and understanding of life. When I first entered the career of officialdom, I just held this idea. I must achieve the "four right" of people and things: a right mind, a right body, a right speech, and a right action. Only by adhering to the "four right" of being a person can you have a foundation and have a foundation for doing things."
Chen Hanyan heard Wu Hao say four righteousness and was full of curiosity, and asked with a smile: "Husband! What is the so-called right heart, right body, right words, right actions? The officialdom is a big dye vat. It would be quite difficult for you to think of mud without staining."
Wu Hao smiled and said, "Wife! The so-called righteous heart means being open-minded, open-minded, selfless, broad-minded, and broad-minded. When dealing with people and things, you must never be narrow-minded and afraid of being unrighteous. You should think less about others, think more about things, treat others equally, and deal with things fairly. Be upright is to start with yourself, start from now, start with small things and small details, and consciously practice "Do not do good but not do evil but not do evil but not do evil but not". Use your own practical actions to create a good social and industry atmosphere, and create a good interpersonal atmosphere. You must speak well, say things that should be said, and not say things that are unprincipled. At the same time, you must also tell the truth, say one, two, and do not make a fool of yourself, or even be lip service or disobey your words. As a quality person, you must speak with a proper attitude. You must not speak in the occasion, not distinguish between objects, and say things that are tangible, and you can also say things that are invisible and tangible. You can also speak very casually, and you lack a way to keep your mouth in your right way. Being upright means you must go straight, do it well, and use your own personality and character to win respect and trust from yourself, from left to right, and from left to right."
Wu Hao paused at this point and continued: "Wife! In life, we do not seek fame, but merit, and make more contributions to society. The real way to be an official is to take responsibility for big things and difficult things. If you want to achieve a career, you must be willing to do big things and take on difficult things. Everything depends on whether you can afford it. This is a person's ability, courage and courage. The second is to look at his mind in adversity and good times. A person's mind is to look at his demeanor and demeanor, and look at himself correctly. You cannot be arrogant and proud in good times. Once you are frustrated, you cannot blame others, complain, or even go astray, do it. Some things that should not be done should be broad-minded, ambitious, and humble. In addition, it is to look at the cultivation of happiness and anger. Whether a person faces happy or wronged things, he must be calm. Only in this way can he reflect a person's will and cultivation, and be happy and not be angry without reason. People live and work together, and cultivate a good herd heart, trust and support each other, and show good behaviors to win everyone's trust and support, and use their own personal charm to create a harmonious atmosphere. This is the belief that I can open up the situation smoothly in Zhoudun."
When Chen Hanyan heard Wu Hao's words, he knew that he would never be able to change Wu Hao's idea for a while, so he smiled and told: "Honey! I know that you can never talk about you when talking about such a topic with you. There are times when you are proud and sometimes when you are frustrated. There are times when we have success and times when we have setbacks. Therefore, it is very difficult to be calm when it is smooth, indifferent to fame and fortune, and free from material desires. In short, what I want to give to you is that no matter how far you go in the future, you must remember that you must be decisive and not be in a dilemma when encountering things, indecisive, indecisive, and constantly, and not to do so, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable."
Wu Hao felt a strong concern from Chen Hanyan's words. He smiled and said, "Wife! Live until old age and learn until old age. Only when people can they see themselves clearly in adversity can they truly grow up. Tolerance is the foundation of being an official. Being an official should not show too sharpness. Haste will not achieve success. Success must be moderate. I understand the truth that a hero will suffer losses in front of him, but watching and the authorities are different. Only when you encounter it on the future path is to learn to resolve it is the doctrine of the mean." Wu Hao paused and continued, "Wife! I want to ask your opinion on something."
When Chen Hanyan heard Wu Hao's words, she replied in a sweet voice: "Husband! If you have anything to say, just ask! I promise you your wife that you will be sure to know everything."
Chapter completed!