Chapter 224 Love is Dedication
Chapter 224 Love is dedication
Four years ago, Chen Hangyan forced Jiang Yu away with an absolutely high attitude, but today, four years later, Chen Hangyan knew that she could no longer force Jiang Yu away, or that it was easy to force Jiang Yu away. However, once Wu Hao knew that it was she who forced Jiang Yu away, it would mean that she would lose her man forever. At this time, Chen Hangyan was not only worried about these things, but what she was even more worried about was what Jiang Yu said. She kept asking in her heart whether she really knew her husband, but the final result surprised her because she found that her husband seemed to have not communicated with her many things, and Jiang Yu was able to say so much at once, which just explained this point.
When Jiang Yu saw Chen Hangyan in deep thought, he didn't bother her. Instead, he stood up from the sofa and went to the kitchen to prepare supper.
Not long after, Jiang Yu prepared dinner neatly. Just as she was putting the dishes on the table, she saw Chen Hangyan just woke up from her thoughts. Although the two still had resentment between them, she still smiled and greeted Chen Hangyan: "Miss Chen! Seeing you coming from the capital to Minnan City, I believe you must have not eaten yet! If you don't recommend it, just eat here!"
When Chen Hangyan heard Jiang Yu's words, he looked up at the rich dishes on the table. He asked himself in his heart that he had married Wu Hao for so long, and it seemed that he had never cooked a meal for Wu Hao. Now, looking at the dishes made by Jiang Yu, he compared himself with Jiang Yu. I believe that her husband really likes to stay with Jiang Yu. After all, if you want to tie a man's heart, you must tie a man's stomach first! This sentence is not groundless.
Chen Hangyan slowly walked to the table. He looked at the cuisine in front of him and asked Jiang Yu in a jealous tone: "It seems that Xiaohao must like the dishes you cook very much, right? That's right, I have married him for so long and have never cooked him once. For this reason, I'm not a competent wife at all."
Jiang Yu did not answer Chen Hangyan's words, but smiled and said to Chen Hangyan: "You sit here for a while first, I'll call the children out for dinner."
Not long after, Jiang Yu brought the two children out of the room and said with a smile: "Nianning! Take your sister to wash your hands and come over to have a meal."
Jiang Yu helped the two children to serve the meal, and then helped Chen Hangyan prepare a dinner for dinner, saying to Chen Hangyan: "Ms. Chen! I don't know what you think in your heart. As a woman, no one is willing to analyze your husband with other women. I was afraid that I would implicate Xiaohao, so I chose to leave him after you found me. I made such a big sacrifice so that I hope that the man I loved would live happier and better. But until I met Xiaohao again, I realized that I was wrong when I left. I don't deny your love for Xiaohao, but maybe because of your family reasons, you ignored a lot of things. You instilled some things that Xiaohao didn't want to do in Xiaohao, which made Xiaohao bear a lot of unnecessary pressure without realizing it. But it's not your fault. After all, you have always been together for more and less since you got married to Xiaohao. It's understandable that you are neglecting his feelings."
While talking, the two children walked out of the bathroom with a cheerful voice. Jiang Yu moved the seat away and greeted with a smile: "Two little guys, come here to eat. I'm going to see if our Ningning eats more or our Xiao Yanyan eats more."
Chen Hangyan looked at Jiang Yu's expression of coaxing the child, as if she saw Wu Hao's mother coaxing Yanyan and Qianqian when she had a meal. At this time, she suddenly understood what Jiang Yu said before. She always thought she was a qualified wife, but when she looked back, she realized that she was not only an incompetent wife but also an incompetent mother.
Chen Hangyan held the chopsticks in her hand and looked at Jiang Yu quietly with a kind smile on her face, constantly helping her two children pick up food, and felt guilty in her heart. As a woman, as a wife, as a mother, as a daughter-in-law, she has only now discovered what position she should make. If there is an unknown woman behind a successful man, Jiang Yu in front of her is far better than herself.
There is no perfect person in this world, so there is no doubt that perfect marriage does not exist. Before getting married, marriage is a fantasy for a woman. Marriage is an eternal honeymoon life, full of romantic love, always with unrealistic expectations for marriage, and imagine it very ideal. Although there are a few very ideal marriages in this real life, when the severe reality appears, you will find that fantasy has become a bubble, and everything is different from your imagination. It may be Has your husband changed? Or have you changed yourself, so the basis of love is not the simple love between the two people at the beginning, nor is it based on sympathy. It must be based on both people's way of accepting each other's love. Love is dedication, not demand, so from the beginning, you have expressed your love for your husband wrongly, thinking that you can assist your husband and let him go further and further, and make him stand better, but completely ignore being patient and considerate to him, forgive his failure, meet his needs, and don't criticize him.
Thinking about this, Chen Hangyan now finally understands what his husband really wants. What he needs is not a high position and power, not a attention of thousands of people, but an ordinary person!
When Jiang Yu saw Chen Hangyan falling into a daze, he smiled and asked, "Ms. Chen! Is the food not suitable for his taste? I don't know you and Yanyan are coming, so I just make it simple. If it is not suitable for your taste, I will call the hotel outside the community and ask them to deliver the meal."
Chen Hangyan woke up when she heard Jiang Yu's words, and shook her head and replied: "No! I just thought about things just now and was a little distracted." Speaking of this, Chen Hangyan picked up a vegetable with chopsticks and put it into her mouth, chewed it gently for a few times, and said to Jiang Yu with a smile: "Ms. Jiang! The dishes you cooked are really good. I believe Xiaohao must like to eat the dishes you cook very much. It is said that to tie a man's heart to the first thing to do is to tie a man's stomach. Now I finally understand why my father asked Xiaohao to make a choice between you and me, Xiaohao would say that he wanted to have both fish and bear's paw without thinking. Now, thinking about how I have never cooked a meal for him for four years since I was married to Xiaohao. I am really ashamed."
When Jiang Yu heard Chen Hangyan say this, she knew that Chen Hangyan's heart began to relax. She had no hope of becoming Wu Hao's wife since she followed Wu Hao, but she hoped that Wu Hao's wife could accept her and her son from the bottom of her heart. Her face had a modest smile, and her tone was obviously relieved a lot, and she said, "Ms. Chen! In fact, you don't have to feel too guilty. You are both parents in the same city like Xiaohao. Your work efficiency will directly affect the food, clothing, housing and transportation of thousands of people. So from your standpoint, you naturally hope that your husband can I can go further, and I am a real little woman. For me, as long as I serve my man well and let him work without worries, it is my greatest success. Therefore, the starting point is different, and the effect is different. We both love Xiaohao. I don’t know how you view the problems between the three of us now, but I can tell you very clearly that I will only live for Xiaohao and Ningning in this life. As long as Xiaohao makes a choice, I will support Xiaohao’s choice without hesitation. This is what my little daughter deserves.”
Chen Hangyan seemed to understand a lot when she heard Jiang Yu's words. She looked at Jiang Yu with a clearer look of kindness, and said calmly: "Ms. Jiang! First of all, I would like to thank you for what you said to me tonight. You are right. Because I was instilled by my parents since I was a child, I obviously neglected his feelings when dealing with Xiaohao. They all said that a marriage would have to go through countless quarrels to last. At that time, I didn't believe it, but now I believe that only when the couple quarrels over some trivial matters in the family can they understand each other better, let each other find their shortcomings, and make marriages passionate. Xiaohao and I have had some conflicts a while ago after four years of marriage. Although each other quickly eliminated misunderstandings, I did not find anything because of this quarrel. Instead, I felt that I was right and should argue with reason and completely ignored Xiaohao's pressure and feelings."
Chapter completed!