What is marriage really about in the end?

This topic is very heavy.

Will love definitely turn into family affection in the end? How come the West doesn’t know this, but it seems to be the case in most China. Although there are also scenes of people with gray hair supporting each other until they grow old. But is it still love? Perhaps, it has already turned into family affection.

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Is this good? I'm afraid it's a matter of differing opinions. But family affection is different from love, but this is for sure. I won't say whether it's good or bad, but Li Rui's personal feeling is that he has many relatives, including parents, brothers, sisters, and elders.

There are a lot of relatives. Although in today's society, money and interests are entangled, family ties are not so reliable.

However, family love still exists after all. Generally speaking, people do not lack family love. So why do people still need love? Do they need someone who cares more about you?

I'm afraid, no one in this world will care about you more than your parents. Your parents' love is selfless and tolerant. No matter how willful you are, no longer a thing, or do all kinds of sad things, your parents will tolerate you.

You, love you, even dote on you and protect you unconditionally.

Why is love still needed? Li Rui didn't understand it very well before. Now, Lin Feng's words and his own insights over the years have made him understand why people need love.

Because family affection only gives you warmth, care, care, and material satisfaction. But these are no longer necessary after people have the ability to be self-reliant.

Of course, this kind of necessity does not mean that it is no longer needed. It just means that it is not as dependent as it was when I was a child. At this time, the desire for love is very strong. This desire is physiological, but more spiritual.

Why? Because each of us needs partners as we grow.

Especially after adulthood, we need someone with a similar soul to accompany us through our long life, so that this society under the law of the jungle can become warm and romantic.

That's why love exists. Because your parents and elders, due to age differences and generation gaps, will have many ideological differences with you and have different views on many issues. You have to live together for a long time.

, it must not be comfortable enough. Especially when it comes to many aspects of personal life, there will be many contradictions.

As for those friends and relatives of the same generation, they are indeed the same age and have more topics to talk about. However, no matter how good the peer relationship is, it is impossible for two people to live together for a lifetime. Unless they are gay.

On the contrary, when it comes to love, since two people are of the same age and opposites are attracted to each other, there will naturally be more topics to talk about. It will also be easier to reach a consensus on all aspects of life. This is something that parents, elders, relatives and friends cannot.

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However, if the person you love is not able to be one with you spiritually, then it is not so wonderful. In fact, it is not wonderful at all, it is a kind of suffering.

A person who is supposed to be your lifelong companion, whether it is physically or mentally, who is supposed to be your best partner, actually seems to be inseparable from you. Whether such a marriage relationship exists or not is no longer that important.

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Li Rui understands that family affection can comfort your soul, while love can integrate your soul and get a kind of satisfaction, a kind of satisfaction that owns the whole world.

After all, no one says that if you have family love, you will own the whole world. But in the world of love, when you have a rare love, you will be excited and want to tell everyone: If I have you, I will own the whole world.

Perhaps this is the difference between family affection and love.

"Zheng Zha, it is extremely difficult to find a harmonious soul mate. If you have the opportunity, don't miss it! Trust the boss!" Li Rui looked serious.

Zheng Zha was stunned for a long time.

"Brother Rui, I was very relaxed, but you made me nervous. Okay, okay, why don't I go! I believe the girl the boss finds will be very good!" Zheng Zha nodded and agreed.

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Lin Feng smiled.

"Believe me, you won't be disappointed if you go. Of course, you have to remember that there are only 24 girls on the stage, and there may not be the ones you like, so it doesn't matter if you don't like them. You can choose to give up.

The important thing is that you show yourself and let more people know you. You have the opportunity to meet more outstanding girls. Whether the girls I know are good or not is all from my perspective. It’s not that

Your perspective. Especially, I don’t want to say how great I am, but I still have my own set of eyes when it comes to women. I want to help you choose, I’m afraid, it will be difficult to find the one you want!”

Lin Feng shrugged, "It can be said that after I posted this on Weibo, more than a hundred company bosses have told me that they have daughters of appropriate age at home, or nieces that they can introduce. But I rejected them all!"

Lin Feng shrugged.

"I believe that these girls will be excellent in some external conditions. But how they are on the inside, you can only choose for yourself. Moreover, when they come to me, they value my relationship more than you. So,

I will only give you a platform, not help you choose. Your life is your own choice. I will only provide a platform. Besides, I don’t want you to beat me in the future!" Lin Feng said with a smile.

Zheng Zha beat up Lin Feng? Zheng Zha shook his head repeatedly. How is this possible? Regardless of the working relationship or the relationship between the two parties, Zheng Zha would never beat up Lin Feng for anything.

But Li Rui on the side understood what Lin Feng meant.

If it is the girl Lin Feng is looking for, or the daughter or niece of the boss he introduced, they are all here for Lin Feng. There is a relationship of interest. This girl will not like Zheng Zha very much in her heart.

, at least there will be a high profile, that is, I only married you as a bodyguard because of Lin Feng.

This kind of relationship has been going on for a long time, and Zheng Zha will have to die because of the awkwardness. As for beating Lin Feng, maybe he won't. But the relationship will cause rifts because of it. Lin Feng is a person who has been in the relationship and values ​​the relationship between them. Naturally, he doesn't want to do it because of a person.

It's not worth it if it affects the relationship between the two parties.

"Okay, get ready. Tomorrow night, it will be broadcast live nationwide!" Lin Feng said with a smile, "It will be broadcast nationwide! Dress handsomely! Don't embarrass me!"

Zheng Zha nodded. No matter what, he could not disgrace Lin Feng. This is also the purpose of all "Lang Ya".

After all, Lin Feng's face is not only about money, but also related to the face of the entire Chinese people.

Lin Feng can't afford to embarrass anyone. They can't even embarrass Lin Feng.

Later, Lin Feng made several calls.

Time flies by in a blink of an eye.

Amid the eager anticipation of audiences across the country, the first episode of "If You Are the One" was launched.

Live broadcast! This is a large-scale live dating program.

It can be said that there have been similar programs before. There have been many! However, all large-scale service programs are recorded and broadcast. Why? Because various unforeseen situations may occur on site. Once broadcast live, it is easy to lose

control.

Therefore, they are all recorded and broadcast. Lin Feng directs live broadcasts like this. Moreover, this host is also a host who is not very well-known in the country. This is even more worrying.

Of course, peers are prepared to laugh at each other. If Lin Feng messes around like this, something will always go wrong. Once something goes wrong, it will be terrible.

At 8 o'clock in the evening, the prime time. The most prime time period, the first issue of "If You Are the One" begins.

Bald head appears!

Of course, Baldhead was originally a news reporter in Nanjing, and later became famous for hosting "Nanjing Zero Distance". However, his main fame is still in Nanjing, and he has no experience in hosting large-scale live programs. He was asked to host a

Is he in control of a dating show that is exposed to a national audience and may have explosive ratings?

Of course, this bald man is Meng Fei.

"Hello viewers, this is the large-scale life service program "If You Are the One", exclusively sponsored by Fengshen." Meng Fei said this, paused, "Today is the first episode of "If You Are the One", you may not know this

Rules. We will invite a total of 24 female guests on stage, and there will be five male guests in each episode. The program is divided into three links: the first is self-introduction. The second is the concept of love, marriage and love.

.The third one is the friend’s evaluation. The female guest can turn off the lights at any time. Once in the final stage, the number of lights turned on by the female guest exceeds two, then it will be reversed and it will be the boy’s right, and the boy will turn off the excess lights.

Make your final selection!”

Although it was the first time for Meng Fei to host such a large-scale nationally broadcast program, he did not have stage fright. He always remembered what Lin Feng said before the show started: Meng Fei, I believe you will become one of the best hosts in the country.

No matter how big the scene is, I believe you can hold it. Also, regardless of the background of the male and female guests, you are the host of this scene!

Lin Feng's words made Meng Fei freeze. Because he knew that most of the male and female guests here today were from a level that he could not usually come into contact with.

The background is too big! To be honest, is this a blind date? Well, this is indeed a blind date. But the standard of this blind date is too high! However, this is the first period to gain popularity, which is indeed what it should be. I just hope that I can

Hold the audience!

"Now let me introduce two guests: Teacher Huang Han and Teacher Le Jia. They will serve as on-site love analysts!" Meng Fei finished introducing the two guests again.

These two people are naturally strangers. At least they are strangers to the audience. This also makes their peers even more disdainful when they see this. This kind of purely unfamiliar combination will definitely explode when hosting such a large-scale live broadcast.

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Because, live broadcast means that there will be various situations. Generally speaking, live broadcasts will have many rehearsals, but situations will still happen. But this time, I heard that there was never a rehearsal.

Lin Feng requested it! If you say it is rehearsed, the original flavor will be lost. So there will be no rehearsal, just live broadcast!

This will make a fool of yourself!
Chapter completed!