Chapter 268 Chen Mei’s Incisive Theory

Xu Shaojie thought about it carefully when he went to Chen Mei's house to have dinner. This time it was Chen Dengxiang who said it. It was too early to go there. It was impossible to accompany him. It was impolite to go there late. Besides, Tang Wanrou also had to feed Xu Wenwan every day. Therefore, the time he planned to arrive at Chen Mei's house on time at 11:30. Including the time for dinner, it was more appropriate to say goodbye at two hours and say goodbye at around 1:00. Two hours, no matter how many words were, he would have finished speaking. What's more, Chen Dengxiang was the vice governor and he would not speak too much or even be straightforward.

When entering the living room, Xu Shaojie saw Chen Dengxiang sitting in the living room, reading newspapers, and the air conditioner was on in the room. Chen Mei opened the door to welcome guests. Chen Mei's lover came out of the kitchen to welcome Tang Wanrou. Tang Wanrou knew that Chen Dengxiang must have something to say to Xu Shaojie, so after saying hello, she followed him into the kitchen, and she also wanted to learn craftsmanship.

"Shaojie, sit down. I've come home. Don't be polite. I haven't been at home for a few times."

"Uncle Chen, you are busy with work, and I'm not the right time to come."

"Hehe, Shaojie, what you said is interesting. Okay, let's not talk about this anymore. The goal is to make tea for Shaojie."

Chen Mei had already come over with the brewed tea.

"Shaojie, I want to thank you. The goal has learned a lot of things with you. I can see his changes."

"Uncle Chen, Brother Chen and I learn from each other."

"Don't be humble. I know that it was recommended by you. I am very pleased. You have helped you many times. It is an honor to have friends like you. I hope you will always be good friends. At work, you will inevitably have some different opinions. As long as you can understand and tolerate each other, there will be no obstacles that cannot be overcome."

"Uncle Chen, Brother Chen and I have a very good cooperation in Shalon County. It is precisely because of this that Shalon County can achieve some results in a short period of time."

"Haha, I know, I can't wait for many years, and it's the world of you young people. I'm happy to see you gradually mature."

Xu Shaojie found that Chen Dengxiang was in good spirits and his words were the tone of his elders, not the attitude between superiors and subordinates.

"Shaojie, I once said that your experience is very bumpy. The poor children have long been in the family. In terms of coping with complex situations and their own ability to bear, their goals are not as good as you, and they will not be able to do so in the future. Therefore, you are the teacher of the goal. I hope you will still help the goals in the future. Although you no longer work in the same place, you must strengthen your exchanges."

"Uncle Chen, I know. Actually, Brother Chen is better than me in many aspects, and he is better than me in terms of encountering the development of things."

"I know the situation of the target. Some of my temper is probably influenced by family background. Hehehe. I have said that many times. Now that I am the county magistrate, I need to pay attention. When it is time to be serious, I must be serious."

Chen Mei didn't say anything and nodded.

"Shaojie, if you have any difficulties in the future, you can directly find me or find a target."

Drinking is indispensable when eating, but Xu Shaojie always remembers the fact that Chen Mei was drunk and always wanted to find opportunities to take revenge. Today's opportunity is obviously not suitable, and Chen Mei is still not as good as Xu Shaojie's drinking.

The atmosphere has always been very good. Chen Dengxiang was very busy. After dinner, he received a call and left quickly. Tang Wanrou sat next to Xu Shaojie for a while, but Chen Mei couldn't help it and finally spoke.

"Tang Wanrou, Xu*** and I have some discussions. You can go into the house and play for a while. Don't worry, it won't take up a lot of time."

It just so happened that Chen Mei’s lover Lin Yaxin came over and pulled Tang Wanrou into the house. Xu Shaojie was a little surprised. If he didn’t speak like this, he would at least have to find a step.

"Don't be surprised, this is my style. Haha, many times, if you don't want to say it directly, don't express your meaning directly, and if things are not done well, people will still offend them in the end. However, I also look at people. I dare not do this for some people."

"Old Chen, it's amazing, I can't do it."

"That's because you're not used to it. Many times, you have to go straight to it when doing things."

Xu Shaojie laughed loudly, and he was not very accepting of Chen Mei's view.

"Don't laugh. I have learned a lot from you in the past two years, so I have some ideas and talk about it. It's just the same point of view."

Xu Shaojie smiled and talked to Chen Mei, so he didn't need to be so serious.

"You should have said it long ago, I'll listen."

"Haha, I know that you are a little repulsive to the children of the government. If we hadn't had special intersections between us, we would have passed by each other. I know everything between you and Liu Hong, right, Liu Hong is a representative of one aspect. I even admit that Liu Hong is better than me, scheming and useless measures, but Liu Hong does not represent everything. For example, I have to be much cheerful. I don't agree with the children of the government to be deep-minded and superior to others. Of course, I also admit that most children of the government have such an understanding, as if they were born as elites of society, which makes them relatively isolated and lonely in their hearts. I really hope that you can accept these people. It is undeniable that in the future, these people will have a place."

Xu Shaojie didn't speak, and his expression became a little more serious.

"Let's talk about women's problems, let's talk about me. Growing up in such an environment, there will be no shortage of women around you, but one who can be a wife and stay with you for the rest of your life. Does this mean that other women will not be dating? No, people are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless? Most of the opportunities between men and men can use each other. Very few people can become close friends, especially those who are around us, and those who come into contact with you always look at something. So, I was also worried. Just talk about contact with Liu Hong, and I actually said, but women are different. If we appreciate each other, we can become the most determined supporter."

"Old Chen, you won't doubt that I have contacted you, you have some ideas."

"Haha, it's touched. I'm telling the truth. Do not think that I can't see anything. Minister Liu Juan and Yu Xiaohong have extraordinary feelings for you. Of course, there is nothing between you, but think about it. If you encounter trouble in the officialdom, what they will do when they can work hard, I'm afraid it's all the time, because women are emotional and delicate, but when they are impulsive, they are much better than men."

Xu Shaojie never thought of this. When Chen Mei talked about this, he couldn't help but think of Huang Meng from the Huaiyang Municipal Party Committee Office, becoming the deputy section chief of the administrative department and Qiao Yurong, the head of the personnel department.

"To face reality, you will meet many women in the future. You cannot meet them. Of course, it doesn't matter if you occasionally ***. It's just that you can't let Tang Wanrou know. You cannot not contact them. Men and women, especially those with excellent and beautiful women, there are always stories, either spiritual communication or physical communication. The former is noble, while the latter is vulgar. You and I are both in the officialdom. You must pay attention to what you should pay attention to. Everyone needs help, and any leader is no exception. I also want to thank you. Now, Li Ming and Lao Dong support me very much."

Xu Shaojie was a little dizzy, and he didn't expect Chen Mei to have such an incisive understanding.

"I pay more attention to my clothes than you. This is the result of frequent education at home. I found that you have never paid attention to it. This is because Tang Wanrou is not by your side. Otherwise, you will pay attention to it. There are many things to pay attention to when wearing clothes."

"I know this. Men should pay attention to underwear and their cuffs."

"Haha, this must be what Tang Wanrou said, not what you mean."

Xu Shaojie was a little surprised, how did Chen Mei know?

"This is where women pay attention to things that are easy for men to see. They wear clothes and occasions, and they are also different. What you just said is just one aspect. Underwear is an inner expression and a reflection of taste. Who has nothing to do? Look at your ***. Only your woman can see it. As for the cuffs and neckline, of course you need to pay attention. This is an embodiment of image. But it is still a little too early to say this. We all work in counties and cities, and we can't avoid contacting farmers. If you dress like that, you will still be inspected when you go down to work. Farmers will

No matter how you look at you, when facing urban residents, the situation is different. You must be particular, because your image represents the image of the city. Everyone thinks that the image of the city is good and sloppy. Everyone is definitely not used to it and has no confidence. Maybe it will have a great negative impact on you. When facing superiors, in addition to being clean and tidy, they must also be decent. Now there are many colors of shirts, but when you see an official, you wear big red and green, all white shirts. This is both respecting the leadership and respecting yourself."

Xu Shaojie's expression changed completely. Chen Mei's words shocked him. The difference in family education still plays a great role in personal understanding. People from ordinary families, that is, Xu Shaojie believes, are mostly pragmatic, only need to achieve the goal, not pay much attention to the process, while outstanding officials are different. They not only require results, but also pay attention to the process. They will pursue perfection in every step of the process. On the surface, they all achieve the goal, but those with discerning eyes will soon see the pros and cons. Details determine success or failure. This is probably one of the reasons why grassroots are difficult and why officials are successful.

"These habits are formed in a process. When the situation reaches that point, you must do it. If you cannot do it, it seems that there is no major obstacle on the surface, but the problems will be exposed one day, and it may ruin big things. Most senior leaders understand this principle because this is what they require for their children."

Xu Shaojie thought of his daughter Xu Wenwan. Under Tang Wanrou's education, he would definitely form good living habits. Generally speaking, if parents have foresight, they will not spoil their children. A kind mother will defeat their children. Everyone understands this principle. Chen Mei's words began to shake Xu Shaojie's traditional concepts. Any class has excellent talents. From the perspective of the entire society, there are still more talents in elite families. Xu Shaojie has to admit this. Just say that Xu Wenwan, Xu Shaojie will do his best to create a good environment for his daughter and receive the best education.

"Old Xu, I've said so much, it's not nonsense."

"Old Chen, thank you, I suddenly realized."

"Oh, it's too exaggerated and it doesn't have that good effect. If you think it's feasible, just accept these views slowly. I'll shake off all my trust in the company."

"Thank you, thank you, I'm so grateful."

"What are you saying? There is no such thing between us. Finally, I remind you that Liu Juan is absolutely loyal to you. You are not familiar with the situation in Huai'an City and there are not many trustworthy people. Although Liu Juan is the Minister of Propaganda, you can consider entrusting important tasks when division of labor. I think Liu Juan is desperately trying to complete the task, so there is no need to say about Zhao Deli. I am not very clear about other relationships. I can't put forward any suggestions. Don't underestimate the matter of wearing clothes. From now on, start paying attention. Once you develop a habit, your temperament will naturally change."

Xu Shaojie smiled bitterly. It seems that his previous temperament was not very good in Chen Mei's eyes. No wonder he had paid attention to these things, and no one had told him about these things. For Xu Shaojie, these situations are congenital shortcomings. An ordinary family is busy with their livelihood, so how can they care about these details?

When he got home, Tang Wanrou's first thing was to care about Xu Wenwan. Xu Wenwan was still sleeping, with tears hanging on the corners of her eyes. It seemed that she had just cried. Tang Wanrou felt very distressed, hugged Xu Wenwan and kissed Xu Wenwan's tender face. Tang Wanrou thought that Xu Wenwan must be hungry. Sure enough, Xu Wenwan seemed to smell the smell of her mother and woke up quickly. She held her mouth in a grievance and looked like she was about to cry. Tang Wanrou quickly pulled up her shirt and stuffed her *** into Xu Wenwan's mouth.

When Xu Shaojie saw this scene, he suddenly felt a lot of emotion. It was said that maternal love is the greatest and most selfless. Tang Wanrou's changes made Xu Shaojie realize this. More than a year ago, Tang Wanrou was still an arrogant and lovely girl. Now that she has become a mother, the glory of women is revealed. Xu Shaojie then thought about the officialdom. In his school days, he could talk without any scruples, talk about everything and give advice to the country. He didn't know that the world was high, but after joining work, he soon felt the childishness of his school days, and adapted to society steadily. No one was so arrogant that he let society adapt to himself.

Xu Shao thought of his father again. His father was a college student and understood a lot of truths, but in Xu Shaojie's impression, his father never paid attention to it. It was not that his father was unwilling to pay attention to it, but that the environment he was in had not reached that level.

In the afternoon, Xu Shaojie stayed at home and didn't go anywhere. He was meditating alone in the study and smoking cigarettes constantly. Now, Xu Shaojie was controlled at home and was allowed to smoke in the study. It was definitely not possible in the living room and could not affect Xu Wenwan. This was what Han Qing'e and Tang Wanrou asked each other. Xu Shaojie thought a lot. When he thought of Xu Wenwan's little face, he suddenly understood all the painstaking efforts of his father. Yes, only by being a father and a mother can he understand his parents' painstaking efforts.

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