Chapter 328: Finding Timely
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"Milan's fashion week tends to be more traditional, with the focus on highlighting brand characteristics. Now that you have opened your own studio, you need to have your own plan, or give yourself an accurate positioning, or be completely unconstrained. If you have the conditions, take a walk in Paris. The fashion week there will be basically the trend of the next quarter."
"I will try it." Xiuxiu nodded after thinking deeply, "But I don't know friends in Paris. If I want to go to the show, there is still a great chance."
Xiuxiu also discovered that Jiang Yu knew almost all kinds of fields, and may not be proficient, but she always brought her constant surprises.
The weather in July is hot.
Especially when the sun is approaching noon, the earth is scorching, and walking barefoot on the asphalt road, there is a stance to burn people.
Jiuque Mountain is very shaded. The breeze passes through the green shades of the mountains, and the heat is isolated, leaving only the coolness blowing across the cheeks.
"You don't need to turn on the air conditioner in summer." Xiuxiu lay on the beach chair, enjoying her whole body.
"Indeed, it will be a little cool to sleep with the window open at night. It doesn't feel cold in winter, and most of the cold wind is blocked by these trees." Jiang Yu was extremely satisfied with this house.
"Zi Xi will go back here tonight?"
"It depends on himself. Sometimes he lives in the old man's place. His youngest grandson will naturally be more favored."
"I think so, his nephew is a few years older than Zixi." Thinking of this, Xiuxiu felt funny, "The seniority is really big."
"So, I'm actually a little embarrassed in this regard."
"It's not necessarily true? I saw Master Yan enjoying the way others call him elders."
"..." Jiang Yu pursed his lips and chuckled: "Maybe."
Her husband is indeed particularly flirting at some point.
Now he and He Xun are brother-in-laws, and they occasionally joke with their seniority in private. It is interesting to listen to the two of them.
As dusk approaches, the temperature is cool, Xiuxiu takes her daughter to leave.
"Mom, when will we come to play at my aunt's house again?" the little girl hugged her mother's arm obediently and asked softly.
Jiang Yu pinched her little face next to her, "Yaya can come anytime, auntie will always welcome you."
The little girl glittered her big eyes happily, "Thank you aunt."
"So well-behaved."
Xiuxiu laughed so much that she was overjoyed, "I stayed at your house for less than a day and my temperament started to become wild."
"Little girl, how can you understand so many principles? Children have their own growth trajectory. You can correct them occasionally, but you can't force her to plan the future path."
"I understand." Xiuxiu nodded, "This is a treasure at home. The boss protects her, and her father even holds her in his palm. The second child will occasionally be jealous, and there is no way to fight."
"Don't let your child feel that he is favored by one or the other."
"I see."
"You may not understand very much." Jiang Yu held Yaya's hand and walked towards the garage with Xiuxiu. "The children are all sensitive. Don't say anything to the children, 'You are the elder brother, you should give in to your sister.'. This is unfair to the children."
"Is this wrong?" Xiuxiu was a little confused. Shouldn't the brother give in to his younger brother and sister?
"Of course it's wrong." Jiang Yu looked at her helplessly, "What should be and what should not be between brothers and sisters? Most parents say this sentence simply because they are afraid of trouble and then take the most trouble-free method. However, when cultivating children's correct concepts, they must not ignore them because of trouble. No one stipulates that the big one must give in to the small one. If this happens a lot, the big one will feel an imbalance in their hearts, and they may even feel that they are not valued in their parents' hearts, and may even feel disgusted with their younger brothers and sisters."
"So serious?" Xiuxiu's heart skipped a beat.
Since she gave birth to twins, she has often said this to her eldest son.
In her opinion, this is the most normal thing, and any parent will say it.
"Don't you even put yourself in your child's shoes and consider things from the perspective of your child?" Jiang Yu was helpless, "You must be fair."
"I have always been fair, and no one has been wronged."
"..." Jiang Yu felt that he really wanted to have a good chat with Xiuxiu.
"Maybe you think it's okay, but this only means that Lin Yang is sensible. The child is actually easy to understand. If you do justice, Lin Yang will naturally be more willing to share his things with his younger brothers and sisters. Being 'forced' by his parents to take care of his younger brothers and sisters is worse than being voluntarily."
Xiuxiu couldn't help but fall into deep thought. After a while, she came to her senses in Yaya's voice, "I know what to do."
When he returned home that night, his eldest son Lin Yang had already finished school and was doing his homework in his room.
The younger one was sitting on the carpet in the living room and playing with the train, while Lin Xie was watching next to him.
The couple said Jiang Yu, from discussing before meals to bedtime, they thought Jiang Yu’s concept was really special.
Lin Xie himself is the owner of the school. Although he does not teach the students, he also believes that he understands the children.
He thought that it was nothing wrong for his brother to let his younger brother and sister, but he really ignored the child's idea.
Jiang Yu is right. This is indeed a kind of "fear of trouble" in the heart. It is obvious that one party only needs to "give up" and "compromise" to end, so why do you have to trouble explain some "trouble" things to your child?
But when educating children, you can’t be “afraid of trouble”.
"Indeed, no brothers and sisters should give in to each other, but no one should give in to each other. In the future, we should not say anything to Lin Yang to give in to his younger brother and sister. He grew up and had his own ideas. Lin Yang is our children. He knows how to do it, so we should not put any pressure on him."
"Um."
After a few days, Lin Yang did find this.
After the birth of younger brothers and sisters in the past two years, their parents always said that he was the elder brother and should give in to younger brothers and sisters. At first, Lin Yang felt that there was no problem at all.
But as his parents said it more often, Lin Yang felt that he was not as loved by his parents as before.
But there is nothing we can do. Who made his younger brother and sister still young? Grandparents said that when he was young, his parents were so kind to him.
Lin Yang sometimes thinks, will his parents love him less every year as he grows up?
He likes his younger brothers and sisters very much, but when he hears his parents say "giving in favor", he must be wronged.
After realizing the change of his parents, Lin Yang's awkwardness soon disappeared, and his parents still loved him.
The little overlord at home, though he was young, had a vague sense of "competition for favor". After being rejected several times, he was distressed several times.
It was only after being carried by Lin Xie to educate him in private that the little bully calmed down.
When Xiuxiu was shocked, she felt a cold sweat from behind. Fortunately, it was corrected early. Otherwise, if the whole family would continue to spoil so much, they might be more willful in the future. It is hard to guarantee that they would not embark on the path of "society teaches you to be a human being".
After all, twins are rare among relatives and friends around you, especially twins.
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