Chapter 893
Because of the existence of biological parents, Cong Xin realized that the feeling of hatred was like that, so crazy that she wanted to destroy herself immediately to break free from the imprisonment they gave her.
Unfortunately, she can't escape.
No one knew that when Jun Lin left her military headquarters, he left her a sentence.
Welcome to Hell, sister.
younger sister.
ridiculous.
At that moment, she couldn't laugh, and even tears burst out from her eyes.
She didn't know whether she was pitying herself, or Junlin, or that she was pitying all the children of the Jun family generation.
Her mother was an ordinary person and had no big prospects, but just such a weak woman made the Jun family so much that she almost expelled the Jun family in history.
A hint of mockery appeared on the corner of her mouth.
There is no need for the Zerg to attack the human homes in large numbers. Human beings will one day die from their love, desire, love, hatred.
Huo Ruxia never thought that one day she would experience greater anger in Cong Xin than the shame her mother brought.
"You know what you are talking about, Cong Xin? I am your grandma!"
"Is that true? You are not the mistress of the Jun family, but the mistress of my Cong family?"
"Cong Xin, even if you want to deny it, you can't change the fact that you are our Jun family's child. Now everyone in the family knows this. If the fourth wife hadn't had some skills and had discovered and solved the poison brought by your mother in time, our Jun family would have long become the laughing stock of the Federation.
Don’t think that if your mother dies, everything will really disappear and will not be remembered again. Yes, death will be done, but that is only aimed at the dead. Our failure to blame her does not mean that future generations will have no objection to you.
If you don’t want to be more and more embarrassed, hurry up and find a man to marry and have children like a woman from a normal family, and live the ordinary life that others also live.”
Cong Xin thought Huo Ruxia would be so angry that she was crazy about what she said just now, but she unexpectedly quickly recovered from her calmness.
“Not everyone is suitable for marriage, and not everyone wants to have children.”
Some people are born to be lone heroes, while others are born to be not the material for parents.
Since she realized the virtues of her biological parents, even if it was a worm factor, Cong Xin could no longer imagine how she could build a new family from the moment she learned the truth. She could not imagine what her child would look like, nor could she think about what kind of mother she would be.
This is a very ridiculous world. Admission requires exams, teaching requires interviews, work requires practical practice, and enlistment requires physical examinations. No matter what position, position, study and work content, it is necessary to examine the qualifications of the parties and evaluate whether the parties are qualified to engage in a certain thing or an industry, only parents do not need any introductory tests.
Could it be that because of the wild beast instinct that humans are born with, the birth of new life only requires the screening of natural laws. Once you pass this aspect, it means you have the qualifications to be a parent?
If so, what is the difference between humans and beasts? If so, what is the difference between humans and Zergs?
"How do you know that you are not suitable for marriage and cannot have your own children if you don't try it?
You have to try everything before you can know the final result. If you don’t take the first step, how can there be a process? Only with the process will there be an ending. Are you born timid? I don’t think you are. You are so brave that you are almost catching up with your four brothers. They don’t dare to talk back to me like this when they were at your age."
Huo Ruxia has completely returned to her previous expression.
"You are still young now, so I don't know what kind of way of living is like when you are old.
When you get older, no matter how bad your partner is, you will be a partner, no matter how bad your children are, you will be a child, and no matter how bad your grandchildren are, you will be a grandchild. Whether it is true or false, they will not really care about you. No matter how bad a person is, they will also care about other people's opinions and have to take care of their elders and give you a bite of food, so that you will not make you old, deteriorate and lonely."
Cong Xin glanced at her.
Huo Ruxia did not have an extra look of resentment. She didn't look like she was talking about her own affairs, but she also seemed to be talking about her own situation.
"Now many people have chosen to be irritated and infertile. Our federal government does not lack newborns. Thanks to new technologies, many people only need to artificially nurture their children. Marriage is an optional project in life, and the same is true for children. It is unnecessary to be too entangled in this."
Cong Xin's tone also returned to peace.
"Who said it's not necessary? Children need family care, not to be thrown to orphanages, and let the Federation take responsibility. You are now at the age of parenting. The way to contribute your vitality to the Federation is not only to fight on the battlefield, but also to become a mother. You are different from your mother, and I believe you will be a good mother in the future."
Cong Xin laughed out loud.
Huo Ruxia frowned.
"Cong Xin, I hope you will think carefully about what grandma said to you today.
If you don't want to retire in Jun's family, you will probably live away from the Pole Star and even away from the Federation after you leave the military. Without a family, you will have only yourself. A person will inevitably be injured, sick, tired, and unable to live. It is better to have a partner and children around you than to face these tests alone.
Their existence may make you feel bound and even bored, but on the other hand, it will also make you more motivated, more purposeful, and more courage to live.”
Marriage is more a blessing than a curse, and more a test than a blessing.
Cong Xin lowered her gaze again and said nothing.
What she said certainly has her reason, but it is not entirely true. The existence of family members is likely to be the biggest storm that people need to face. Just like Jun Hao to King’s Landing, and as mother to her, the reason why the brother and sister were not drowned was entirely because they were too ashamed to die from such storms.
"I understand what you mean."
"I understand why I haven't held on to it yet? Don't think that you will always be young now.
In addition to feelings, there are many things in life that will take up a lot of your time. If you don’t pay attention to it yourself, you will easily become older. It will be difficult to get pregnant naturally when you get older. Many times, if there is no children in a family as a bridge, the relationship between husband and wife will go through a lot of trouble and be difficult to repair.
It’s different to have children. Children are natural adhesives. Children with blood relationships between both parties represent that you have the same interests, goals, directions and destinations. Only when both parties have no objections to these can you ensure that you can help each other until old age in a big way.
If there is no secret agreement in these aspects, there is only the so-called relationship. No matter whether there is a problem or not, you may eventually become weak because your life is too dull. In a marriage relationship, love can be done or not, but the interests must be consistent. Children are the heirs of your common interests, or in other words, children themselves are the places where your common interests lie.
You can tell if you look at the fourth child. What kind of relationship does the couple have? There is no one at all. Anyone with discerning eyes knows that they are not united because of feelings. But until now, the two are still not separated. Why? It’s not because of the child Shengzhe. If there is no child, you see if they will get married and whether they can really live together after marriage.”
"According to my observation, the fourth brother loves the fourth sister-in-law very much."
Huo Ruxia sneered, "What love does he know? What his mother is for Xiaohao is love. The fourth brother just had too few women when he was young, so he couldn't tell what ordinary favors and admiration meant. Once he came to his senses, he would immediately divorce Feng Shu. Feng Shu didn't seem to care about him, and the divorce was just the right thing. She was a big idea."
"I only know that my fourth sister-in-law is a good person."
Cong Xin pursed her lips.
"I didn't say she was a bad person, but even if she was a good person, it didn't mean she wanted to stay with the fourth brother. The fourth brother had a very awkward personality, and it was actually very hard for Feng Shu to stay by his side. The two of them had no feelings for each other. They got married because of their children. Instead of living like this for a lifetime, it would be better to separate. Now the Saint Sect is older and does not need parents to take care of them. It would be better for them to live their own lives."
Huo Ruxia thought to herself that she was not old and could not find a more suitable spouse. Junlin and Feng Shu were still young. Two inappropriate people were tied up to live their lives. It would be better to meet and part now. If she didn't get pregnant quickly after getting married, she would find that she and Junting were not suitable for her, and she would also ask for a divorce.
And Junting is not a person who is entangled for her.
A hint of mocking appeared on the corner of Huo Ruxia's mouth. The men of the Jun family have always been pestering the people they love. Even though they respect each other for so many years, she is still not as good as his first love who died early in Junting's heart.
"Don't trust men too much, Xiao Xin. Even if the other person says he loves you, the actual life is far more complicated than you can imagine. Even if we live under the same roof and spend a hundred years together, we may not be able to understand a person's heart.
In general daily life, women are more willing to believe in people, and are more able to give sincerely without asking for rewards. But men are different. Men should look at problems from the perspective and way of dealing with problems, they should be more ruthless, more direct and bloody, and more calculating and pay more attention to interests rather than emotions.
Of course, there is no shortage of men who value love and friendship in this world, and there is no shortage of men who have deep affection for their lovers. But Xiaoxin, men are something you need to beware of. Never give your whole body and mind to a man because of the so-called love.
You can try to make friends, regardless of men and women, or even race, you can give all your trust, but you must keep your lover, always keep the slightest bit of clarity in your heart, and always understand that you can rely on the other person, but at the critical moment, the only person you can rely on is yourself."
Cong Xin didn't know how to answer Huo Ruxia, because to her, this was completely the feelings and thoughts that the other party would have if their marriage was not satisfactory. She had seen bad marriages, but she had also seen good marriages. She was not afraid of marriages, but she was no longer as interested as she was when she was young and ignorant.
Yes, marriage is an optional thing for her. Even if one day she meets someone who wants to get married, she will not want children.
She is unable to bear a new life. A new life requires a good mother, and a good mother is not a role she can handle.
"Although it is unclear what happened between you and the Marshal, it will lead to your current feeling, but it does not mean that other married people will have the same thoughts as you."
The subtext is, don't impose her understanding of marriage on her, she doesn't want it because she is not interested.
"You are a keen child, just like the fourth child, who is too keen to detect other people's emotions, which may be a good thing on the battlefield, but in family life, there are more disadvantages. When you get along with others, you don't need to be too observant of your expressions, and you don't need to think carefully about the meaning behind other people's words.
No matter whether the person you are facing is an elder or a junior, even if you are the person next to you, if you are a little slower, you will be happier."
Huo Ruxia seemed to have not heard her little protest and continued to speak on her own.
"I think Feng Shu is better than you. She is more open to the fourth brother than you. The fourth brother is too awkward, but he has always been very clear about the goal, so he acts very positively. On the contrary, you, looking indifferent, are actually just passively responding, and all the negative and negative are reflected."
Cong Xin frowned slightly, but she couldn't bear Huo Ruxia continued to comment on her.
"I'm not saying that you respond negatively on the battlefield. You are at the other extreme on the battlefield. You are too aggressive and others call you a desperate woman who is stronger than a man.
What I want to point out is that you are too negative about your love life, and it is so negative that you ignore it. You are a young man. When you are young, you should experience the ups and downs of your feelings. But you have no so-called desires, no so-called curiosity, nothing, just like whether that thing exists or not has nothing to do with you."
Cong Xin finally couldn't help but defend herself, "A lot of things can't be forced. Whether it's his personality or his inner thoughts, he should do whatever he wants, and he will be like what he is. If he doesn't accept his true self, how can he live every day well?"
Huo Ruxia sneered at him again.
"You mean you just don't care about marriage and have no desire for feelings, right?"
Cong Xin lowered her head, and the answer was self-evident.
"You leave a psychological shadow because of your mother. This is self-deception, Xiao Xin. You think you don't want it and can't, but you never think that emotional things are always between the two parties. When one day, you will find that no matter how you do, there will be someone you can't get around and avoid.
The reason why you don’t care is just because you haven’t met the person who can make you moved, and you haven’t met the person who can make him fascinated by you, no matter what, you don’t want to give up on you.”
Huo Ruxia didn't know what she thought of, but suddenly burst into tears.
Cong Xin was slightly shocked.
Chapter completed!