【Is the second-married man reliable?】

Yoon Eun-hye smiled knowingly, thinking about Hawaii’s “how to use people”, a question arises in her mind: Are divorced men reliable?

The answers that come in the message column are also strange.

——"No matter what objective situation the other party has, the most important thing is the person himself. Don't be blinded by words like "second-marriage men" or "successful career men". You must experience this person with your heart and feel whether this relationship will give you a sincere sense of happiness."

——"A woman who is married to a second-marriage man is either insincere or is kicked by a donkey. Of course, this is a big deal, but there are not many people who are married to a second-marriage man who is married to a first-marriage man who has a good ending. I don't want to bet on my youth. Since I ask this question, it means that someone wants to use someone else's mouth to say the answer she wants to hear. It is precisely because of this that the person who asks this question knows that it is not suitable, but he can't get rid of his temptation. No matter whether he is handsome, rich, or prominent family background."

——"Divorted men are very realistic. They are so terrible that they make you cry without tears. I am not scaring you. Don't think that you are so charming that you attract him. Of course, I will not fall in love with a second-married man with one blow. At least two to three years to run in with him. Maybe it's a good run in, maybe it's not good. If he is really a kind, reliable and responsible man after two to three years of running in, then congratulations."

——"This kind of men will become less and less romantic. Because of a marriage failure, divorced men will become calm and rational. They no longer play and sing songs in front of your window like young men. Divorced men will feel that romance is an illusory and unreliable emotion. It is boring to fall in love with such a man!"

——"I have seen such men, especially thief. Maybe a property dispute after the marriage will make him have nothing. Learning from his mistakes, once such a man enters the marriage, he will care about the issue of property preservation. He may notarize his property before marriage; his property status may be foggy to you; he may even set up a private treasury without hiding it."

——"This kind of man is always greedy. A considerable number of divorced men have not remarried for a long time because they want to find a better one. So, once you fall in love with him, you will find that one day his eyes float to the distance again."

——"He will often compare you with his ex-wife. Your meals are not delicious, he misses his ex-wife's cooking skills, etc. In short, you will find that his ex-wife is like an ubiquitous ghost, constantly returning to you and his life."

Of course, at the same time, there are different positions:

——"In some women's words, it is: the best things in the world are polished and washed by time. Therefore, even for men, the best men in the world are second-hand men."

——"A man who has never experienced a woman is stupid, childish, tender, arrogant, irritable, storm-torn, unable to give people a sense of security. A man with a story has choked water in the emotional world, and has gone through hardships and prepared to live a stable life. This kind of man is passionate and mature, rich and vicissitudes, like cultural relics, the longer it is, the more valuable it is. Talking to them, there is no need to talk nonsense, a few words, he smiles knowingly before he finishes his words, and communicates with his heart."

——"He is more willing to please women. The entanglements with his ex-wife will make him understand what women need and think more. Why do women like to be young? What are the special menstrual cycles for women? Only after understanding these will men be more considerate of women."

——"He is better at solving problems that arise in marriage. After remarriage, if there are any conflicts and problems, he will try his best to solve them; if they cannot be resolved, he will try his best to compromise because he hopes not to endure the pain of divorce anymore."

——"Although he is realistic, I think reality cannot be regarded as a disadvantage, but an advantage! Some people say that when an unmarried young man proposes to a girl, he only offers love and sweet words, but when a divorced man proposes to a girl, he offers houses and money, and even priceless high-end jewelry. They wake up from romance and understand the essence of life better. So, I think it's good to be realistic. Roses will wither, and only houses, cars, gold and silver jewelry can be cashed out!"

——"Why are such men also included in the ranks of Diamond Kings? It makes sense... What is diamond? It is expensive and tough, and it is the treasure that women dream of. This kind of man is very mature, and nothing can make a man exude a mature charm like setbacks. After the failure of his first marriage, he will have to calm down and reflect on his gains and losses in his marriage. He matures because of reflection and avoids repeating the same mistakes."

——"This kind of man will not only give you romance in love and stability in life, but also may become a helper in your career, and he will also coordinate interpersonal relationships. Only when a person is frustrated can he understand family affection and love better, and he will pay attention to emotional communication with people around him, because he understands that good interpersonal relationships will ensure that he will not walk alone in any difficult moments in life."

——"I feel more relaxed when getting along with this kind of man, because he knows the importance of independence better. If a man does not allow you to date other men, and cannot even be friends, and only desires him to have you alone, will such love suffocate you? Long-term love requires distance and is the mutual support of two independent personalities. Men who are injured in the passion for first marriage often understand the importance of independent personalities because of this."

——"Most divorced men are in middle age. After more than ten years of hard work, many of them are in the rising period of their careers. In short, being his first wife requires working hard with him to start a business, while being his later job, you only need to "go down the mountain to pick peaches" and enjoy the success."

That night, Yoon Eun-hye tossed and turned on the bed, not knowing whether she should continue with Xiao Yong. At this time, Xiao Yong called and said, "Are you still angry with me?"

"I said it, I wasn't angry."

"Then go to a banquet with me tomorrow night."

Yoon Eun-hye thought for a while and thought of Ou Youjia's suggestion. If such a man doesn't take action immediately, he will be snatched away by others if he is not careful. She immediately thought of a compromise: "Or why don't I take one of my girlfriends with me, do you mind? She is also a career woman who has just divorced. I want to create some such opportunity for her to see if she can meet a suitable person."

Xiao Yong said gently on the other end of the phone: "As long as you are willing to go with me, you can do whatever you want."

"Then we'll see you tomorrow, let's take a break early."

After hanging up the phone, Yoon Eun Hye looked at the retro dinner bag she bought today and put it on the coffee table, thinking that if she didn't make up her mind to buy this bag today, maybe it would be taken to a dinner tomorrow by a woman. Thinking of this, she was very satisfied with her decision today.
Chapter completed!