Chapter 219: Emotions Rule the World(1/2)
【Emotional dominate the world】
Shaoqing and Yoon Eun Hye have already met Wang Hao in the restaurant. He is dressed normally today, and he is still as casual but clean as before.
Yoon Eun Hye asked: "What's the matter that you are so anxious to see me alone?"
"Xiao Yong looked for me a few days ago." Wang Hao opened up.
Yin Eun-hye said: "I know that he filed a divorce lawsuit against Jiang Xiaolan. This divorce is related to a commercial dispute with a relatively large amount. I don't know exactly what it is. But when Jiang Xiaolan's tone is heard, Xiao Yong may be in jail."
"Ah?" Wang Hao was a little surprised. He continued, "Xiao Yong didn't tell me about this. He just asked me to tell you not to marry Li Dao."
Yoon Eun Hye sighed helplessly and said, "He has said this to me before, and his jealousy is really strong."
"So I asked you to meet Li Dao tonight, and let me, a senior psychologist, explore Li Dao's character. I always feel that Xiao Yong must know Li Dao better than you. Maybe Li Dao has any unspeakable secrets, so Xiao Yong insisted that you should not marry Li Dao. But Xiao Yong couldn't explain it, so I think you should be careful."
"Wang Hao, then think about it for me, should I marry him?" Yoon Eun Hye asked.
Wang Hao smiled and said, "Enhui, although you are just writing columns, at least you are a writer. Will you ask others for your opinion when you write something?"
"No," Yoon Eun Hye replied immediately, "but this is an emotional matter and has nothing to do with writing."
Wang Hao said: "In fact, there is an inevitable connection, especially emotional issues. The motivation for driving things to happen is passion, not rationality. We love, help, hate people, and fight to the death not because of logic, but because of passion."
"So what, don't you want to point me the right path?"
"Tell me this to you," Wang Hao pondered for a while, "You have lived in the United States for so long, you should know that the judicial interpretations made by judges of the U.S. Supreme Court in the end, the ultimate advantage is not passion but wisdom.
If this is true, then how could there be a 5-4 difference in the final judgment signed by a judge in the Supreme Court?
In fact, our judgment on whether a thing is correct or not often comes from our own life experience, which shapes our feelings about the world."
"Then what you mean is that we are making any decisions, and we can only be controlled by emotions, not rational?" Yoon Eun Hye couldn't help asking.
"Yes, go back to the Supreme Court's judgment rules I just mentioned," Wang Hao put his fingers crossed on the table. Compared to the senior psychologist, he is now more like a legal counsel. "The basis of the Supreme Court's judgment is the emotional tendency of every judge in the Supreme Court. Sometimes emotions are above everything else. Sometimes feelings are just their own business. If you love or not, you can only break it yourself."
“Oh, it’s true that emotional things are like writing and can’t be asked by others—including those around me, even professionals like my teachers, editors, agents, and they will give me misleading or very bad advice.
When I use the advice of a friend or family member, the situation becomes even more complicated.
Because not only did they not receive professional training, but everyone brought in their own aesthetic tastes, philosophy of life, personal prejudice, agenda and even deep hatred.
So when faced with feelings, we can only think of ways ourselves.”
After saying that, Yoon Eun-hye thought about Wang Hao's words just now. Perhaps her willingness to marry Li Dao was because of emotional factors - it was her feelings for Xiao Yong.
At first she just wanted to make Xiao Yong regret through Li Dao, but now she wanted to make Xiao Yong not lose her life through Li Dao. Unexpectedly, she loved Xiao Yong more than Jiang Xiaolan.
Jiang Xiaolan's love for Xiao Yong is dominant, but her love for Xiao Yong is fulfilling.
Wang Hao stood up and said, "I'll go to the bathroom now."
She nodded.
Just a few minutes after he left, the phone he left on the dining table rang. When Yoon Eun-hye looked at the display screen, it turned out to be the word "wife". She was curious for a moment and wanted to confirm whether his girlfriend was You Xiaohan. Yoon Eun-hye answered the phone: "Hey, are you You Xiaohan?"
"What are you talking about? I'll look for Wang Hao."
Opposite is a woman with a strong Shanghai accent.
"Oh, I'll ask him to call you later."
"No need!" The other party hung up the phone, Yoon Eun-hye was confused, wondering why this woman got so angry.
Wang Hao came out of the bathroom, and Yoon Eun-hye said: "Your wife called you just now."
"Oh, it should be Chagang. She is on a business trip now. I'll send her a message."
When Wang Hao lowered his head to edit the text message, she also edited a text message to Xiao Yong. She said: If you have time to meet you, I have something to say to you.
However, Xiao Yong did not reply to her text message immediately.
Wang Hao said, "What did you say to my girlfriend just now? She didn't seem to be happy at all. She told me to settle the score with me when I came back."
"I didn't say anything, I just asked her if it was You Xiaohan."
Wang Hao asked: "Who is You Xiaohan?"
"Isn't she your girlfriend? Sorry, I got it wrong. I recently wrote a column for vogue magazine. Its editorial assistant is You Xiaohan. A few days ago, she told me that she was about to get married and her fiancé was Wang Hao, so I paired you two together."
"Em, I really accept you. You can contact you with such things. You have to know that the name Wang Hao is a popular name. Perhaps there are 300 million people in China called Wang Hao."
"Okay, then why don't you call and explain quickly. It would be bad if she thinks You Xiaohan is your lover."
Wang Hao listened to my advice and called his girlfriend. After a while, he put down the phone and said, "She has turned off. I think she is really angry. Oh, forget it, today is my birthday, so you should be happy."
"It's strange that she doesn't accompany you on your birthday, and you don't care."
Wang Hao looked at Yoon Eun Hye and shook his head with a smile and said, "Everyone has his own pace of life. She is a purchasing agent and often travels on business trips. It's not okay if she doesn't go."
"How did you meet?"
"It shouldn't be difficult to guess. She was originally a patient of mine. Due to the excessive work pressure, a friend introduced her to me to set up a sand table for her to relieve the pressure. Unexpectedly, he and I were in a flash and were full of passion, so we got together."
Yoon Eun Hye-qiang squeezed out a smile and didn't say anything.
She knew Wang Hao. If he was someone he really liked, he would not use words like "lightning flash" and "passion burning" to describe his feelings with this person. This is enough to prove that he did not put Yoon Eun-hye down at all.
Yoon Eun-hye changed the topic and said, "I came to see you today. I didn't have time to buy you a gift. We will go shopping in the mall and buy you a briefcase. Today, your gift level can be a first-tier brand."
"So generous?" Wang Hao said with a smile.
"Li Development's money is not spent or spent. I am not a woman who saves money for men."
"Fortunately you didn't marry me." Wang Hao said with a smile, but this sentence sounded more like a kind of self-mockery. I buried my head in eating and didn't want to think about Wang Hao's feelings for me anymore. After all, the recent emotional entanglement has annoyed me enough.
Speaking of worries, he has to talk about Hawaii. Li Ming received a call from Aunt Li, and when he heard something happened in Hawaii, he hurried to Huashan Hospital. After seeing Aunt Li, he asked, "What's wrong with Hawaii?"
"The doctor said she was bleeding, it should be a placental abruption or a precursor. She has not come out of the clinic yet."
"Is there any life in Hawaii dangerous?" Li Ming asked anxiously.
Aunt Li said: "Dr. Gao is still undergoing treatment and has not given me a clear answer yet."
Li Ming sat anxiously on the hospital chair. He asked, "Why is Hawaii so good? Why does it cause sudden abdominal pain? Shouldn't she be at home?"
"This... is not good for me. I asked her to come out and accompany me to go shopping. Maybe she has walked too much. Sorry, I didn't expect her to be so weak." Aunt Li said timidly.
Li Ming looked at Aunt Li seriously and said, "If Hawaii and the child in his belly have something different, what should I do if you say I am going to blame you or God?"
Now Hawaii is in late pregnancy, so you must pay attention to rest. If you have any questions, please come out for a walk. Do you have any idea in your mind?”
"I'm more anxious than you!" Aunt Li raised her tone, her face full of panic.
At this time, Gao Hang came out of the clinic. When he saw Li Ming, he said: "Now Hawaii only has a faint bloodshed, and the amount is not large. Be careful not to work too much and avoid strenuous exercise.
Although there are still dangers, it is not as serious as you think. Remember not to exercise a lot, pay attention to rest and protect the fetus.”
"Then can I go and see my wife now?" Li Ming asked.
Gao Hang nodded and said, "Okay, now I have transferred her to the ward. It is best to stay in the hospital for a few days in the past few days. When the mother's indicators are stable, then go home to rest.
We must pay special attention during this period and not go out to do too much activity. After all, the plum rain in Shanghai is severe and accidents are prone to accidents. We must raise our awareness of prevention."
"Thank you, Dr. Gao." Li Ming turned around and walked towards the ward.
Li Ming walked into the ward, Hawaii looked at him, he leaned close to her and said, "It's okay, you and the babies are safe, but you can't have too many activities in the future."
"Can you go back to your room to sleep? I promise you no longer fart."
Li Ming touched her forehead and said, "Silly, melon, this is not something you said you can't let go if you can. I promise you to go back to your room to sleep."
"By the way, I want to invite Dr. Gao to dinner this weekend and thank him for pulling me back from the gates of hell again and again."
"Then did you tell him?"
Hawaii smiled and said, "I said it just now. At first he was very polite, but later he agreed.
So I have to ask you to book a restaurant, and my good friends will come.
It was said that it was a thank you meeting, but it was actually just finding a reason to meet friends. During this period, I felt that I was out of touch with the world."
"Well, as long as you are happy, everything will be yours."
Hawaii smiled.
Seeing Li Ming treating her like this, the less she wanted to see Li Ming sad.
At this time, she just wanted to find someone who could make her feel at ease by her side. As for love, everything was like a passing cloud. Even if she and Zhuo Ningyu had any unclear relationship, it was already a thing of the past. If she couldn't get entangled with it like this, she might not even be able to protect her own children.
When love carries more hope, it will be disillusioned faster.
Many people have experienced premature love. They use passionate and direct methods to explore the path of love, but they go too fast, so they are inevitably confused sometimes.
When you truly become a human being, there are broken marks in your heart, and many loves will complete the ending in a hurry.
This dull and realistic ending drowns all the rebellion and passion that has struggled.
Li Ming's care for Hawaii is like a huge tide. In terms of the weight and measure of time, he silently clears Hawaii's turmoil of love.
On the other side, Li Lina enjoyed the soaking of her new relationship, which made her feel as soft and loose as a sponge accumulated moisture.
Under the dim lights of the restaurant, Li Lina satisfactorily dealt with Jia Fang: "I like to turn such things into a habit, and we have dinner together every night."
"Do you know what will happen if I let you spoil this way?" Fu Jiafang asked with a smile.
To be continued...