【Instruction among psychological counselors】

If you have an previous obsession with someone, you can also clear the browsing history from the input bar of people's emotional web pages, then people's emotional life may become simpler.

However, the truth is that everything has records: web browsing records, credit card limit records, and even obsession with someone.

"This is my rule, I never discount it, even Yoon Eun Hye's friend is no exception." Obviously, Wang Hao's record of obsession with Yoon Eun Hye was not clear, so he turned his resentment towards Yoon Eun Hye to Hawaii.

Hawaii sat in Wang Hao's psychological counseling room and smiled awkwardly: "Okay, then there is no need to discount. I'll give it to you at your price... Then let's start. I have a question, how can I forget and let go of the person I have always liked?"

When Wang Hao heard this question, he frowned and looked at Hawaii awkwardly and said, "I am troubled by this question. Is there any way?"

Hawaii said: "Listen to me. If it were the case, I used to treat my current boyfriend like this, because I thought he didn't like me before, but I was unrequited to him. In order to forget him and get rid of this torture, I did this. Maybe a little extreme and a little inferior. I personally feel that I am a little useless, but I really worked."

Wang Hao listened carefully with interest.

Hawaii began her experience: "First, let him hurt me. I took the initiative to seek harm to this point. I felt that I couldn't let go because I was not seriously injured.

So I found various reasons to inspire him, ask him to say something particularly hurtful, or do something particularly excessive, such as I gave him the love letter he wrote to him by his admirer, and he really ignored me after a few times. This can make myself know clearly that it is impossible for you two.

Second, distract yourself. That is, running, reading, shopping, taking a hot bath, etc..”

Wang Hao sighed and said, "Is there any other way?"

"The third and most important point is to change the idea that she doesn't love. Do you love the real her or the perfect her imagined?

If you love the real her, then please rationally find out her shortcomings, infinitely enlarge her shortcomings, and change her perfect image in your mind. For example, the person who loves to buy things randomly, and if you marry her, you will fall into a bottomless pit. You must be careful at any time whether your credit card will be swept by her.

You said she has no shortcomings and does not want to change her image in your heart.

OK, in other words, how to let go of her without changing her perfect image in your heart.

Sorry, I can't explain this too much. In a word, don't waste time!"

Wang Hao smiled and said, "As you said, can I understand this way? The reason why we can't let go of that person, the person who doesn't love us, is probably because she has a little bit of her heart, and she may love me. We will find a lot of evidence to prove that she may love me. I am so good, why doesn't she love me? These stupid thoughts hinder us from seeing the essence of things clearly, that is, she doesn't like me at all."

Hawaii said: "By the way, my arguments are based on some principles of social psychology. We will like people who like us. You think she likes you, so you like her. Don't deny it. This is science. Don't think you are so great. It's because of her good moral character and messy reasons. This is the real reason. She doesn't love you."

"It feels really heartbreaking to say that!"

Hawaii laughed: "The words I said are an embroidery needle that can pierce your life into a magnificent double-sided embroidery in Suzhou. Drinking my medicine will ensure that you love your life more and your friends, but it does not guarantee that you will let go immediately, but it will only allow you to break free from the limitations of your thinking and look at emotional issues more objectively."

Wang Hao took out a check from the drawer and wrote the numbers and handed it to Hawaii. Hawaii asked, "What is this?"

"I'll pay you the psychological counseling fee!"

Hawaii took the check and looked at it and laughed: "Then I'm not polite. I figured it out myself. Thank you for being my negative teaching material and opening up my thinking mode."

After a while, Hawaii went to find Yoon Eun-hye and handed her the check: "Little 2000, please collect it, I earned it today."

Yin Eun Hye saw that it was Wang Hao's signature, and she asked, "What's going on?"

"I became his psychological counselor and taught him how to let you go. Unexpectedly, he was relieved and paid me the consultation fee. Think about it, this credit is yours, and you are poor recently, so I want to give you the fruits of my labor."

Yoon Eun Hye smiled with the check, "Haha, now I can use this money to pay the membership fee for the quit shopping mutual aid club."

Yoon Eun-hye registered on the website and paid the membership fee. After the year passed, she would quit shopping.

Just as Yoon Eun Hye was trying her best to eliminate her desire to shop, Li Lina appeared at Yoon Eun Hye’s store with a large bag of things. She sat down and said, “I don’t know when it started. When I went home during the New Year, I could no longer meet my parents’ needs by just taking New Year’s gifts. You must also bring a man back. But there is no selling men in the New Year’s goods streets and shopping malls!”

Yoon Eun Hye grimaced at Lee Lina and said, "That's not necessarily the case. I have a free man here to provide you with your parents, and the only condition is that you will accompany him home."

Li Lina's mind was inspiration. Before Yoon Eun-hye could say who it was, she asked: "Is it Qiao Xu? I don't do such a thing that deceives parents."

Yoon Eun Hye said: "Then you can accompany him to see his parents and let him tell this lie by himself."

"What are my benefits?" Li Lina asked.

Yin Eun-hye looked at Hawaii and said, "Look at Hawaii, it's a living example. Women who have had skin ties with Qiao Xu will more or less occupy his relationship with him. Hawaii has found Li Ming now? If you want to get out of singleness, you have to have an 'again' with Qiao Xu."

Li Lina was a little unbelievable, but because she had always had a bad relationship, as long as she had a little chance to meet a man, even if she had a strange power and a mess, she would rather believe in her presence than invisible. She said: "If it is as mysterious as you said, then I will not suffer any loss. Where does he want me to go with him?"

"He is from Hangzhou, of course he went to Hangzhou. By the way, there is paradise and Suzhou and Hangzhou. Your trip to Hangzhou is heading to heaven." After Yin Eun-hui said this, Li Lina nodded and agreed.

Hawaii said: "But don't learn to kiss Qiao Xu. It's not a good thing if this man has a lot of fate!

Since kissing Qiao Xu, this man's fate is really unstoppable. Now these two men are still hiking together and can't handle it at all. Zhuo Ningyu seems to be very enthusiastic about me!

You said this man is really a competitive animal. He could have taken me as his own before, but he still did not move his troops. Now that I and his brother are in a good relationship, he is eager to try. What kind of mentality do you think this man is?"

Li Lina analyzed: "Snatching women is a man's nature. Apart from snatching the lens and buying limited editions, women seem to have no interest in stealing men. This is the fighting nature of male animals. For them, we women are just trophy!"

Hawaii took the speech and said, "No matter what, when you go home, you must take a man to explain this to your parents, proving that we are old!

Women who are thirty years old should fill out a troubles questionnaire. The options on it are shocking, but you have to check it out because these are obvious facts!

There are these options on this questionnaire: weight, bank card balance, not doing well in the last fight, hair loss, and not sleeping with the lover... Think about it, maybe 80% of older unmarried ladies have these problems, and we are no exception!"

"That one who can't sleep with my sweetheart is talking about you!" Yoon Eun-hye added, "But I seem to have something to do with weight, bank card balance, and hair loss!"

Li Lina said: "I'm all right!"

Yoon Eun Hye asked: "Who did you attempt to fight?"

"It's the white-collar man who wrote "Tian Ding"... But he is already a passerby in life. I hope I won't let me meet such a weird man again next time!" Li Lina raised her eyebrows and continued with a smile, "It's just settled. Qiao Xu and I will go to his house. When I find my boyfriend, I will burn incense and fulfill my wish..."

When Yin Eun-hye heard Li Lina say this, she almost laughed. Either someone wanted to burn paper money for Qiao Xu or someone wanted to burn incense for him. She instantly felt that it was quite fun to have a few women with more men.

Hawaii took Li Ming's family back to her parents' house for dinner in the evening. Although she once again faced the situation of eating at the same table with Zhuo Ningyu and Li Ming, two men she loved, there was no particularly awkward conversation that night.

The parents in Hawaii are very interested in Li Ming, the prospective son-in-law, and are particularly appreciative of Li Ming's father and Aunt Li's character.

In this way, Hawaii did not have to burn incense to worship Qiao Xu, and easily solved the current situation of his older unmarried daughter, and was determined to pursue the bright prospect of getting married and living a family!
Chapter completed!