47: The world is vast and the people are many
China is not short of blind men. How many people can be banned by time and fate? In unconsciously time, they cut off their own thinking and reject them, blocking too many thinking changes, blocking too many expressions of experience. Every time we see the eyes, angles, and direct points, some people just cannot express, some people cannot use their own twists to move others, and some people cannot use their own reasons to tell another beginning. Every gap in shortcomings can become a reason to disappear next time. China is China, and being blind is blind.
Less education among family members will lead to a closed thinking and less communication among friends will lead to an inability to improve one's abilities. Less changes in applications will lead to failure. Each of us will be unable to choose and judge. It is not because we have no gains, but because we cannot take out what is hidden in our eyes and cannot speak out what is lazy in our hearts. The blocked thinking will affect our future. Language cannot hesitate and wisdom cannot communicate. It will directly cut off the entry and rejection of life.
The dead man opposite will never speak to you. It is equivalent to having no wisdom to express himself when he is alive, no chopsticks to grab with his hands when he is eating, and no ability to refuse when he is waiting. The people we recognize are still things we recognize. Many people only have one way to refuse, either by others’ copying or by their own worries. Sometimes when he hears a message, he can reject a lot. All of them are summarized as many people who look at shortcomings. The advantages cannot surpass the shortcomings. The frequency of thinking will be contagious, and an appropriate link will appear.
One person refuses the way, one person gains the way, two people will not be infected, and the way of separation is very simple, and the language of talk is not appropriate. Sometimes we know that many people live for the sake of their children's imperfection and incompetence when they grow up. Many people must raise a person who cannot speak, express, and not too many. In this society, there are few people who know how to live and few masters who know how to use knowledge, which is equivalent to confused eyes and no extraordinary calculation state of mind.
People who only have eyes, cannot act are blind, only eloquence, people who deceive friends are deaf, only actions, and people who cannot communicate are mute. In contrast, they are only as special as an individual is not a team of individuals, they are not their own lives, or are indulging in being controlled by other people's thinking. In fact, every topic we discuss is still every angle we choose. If there is only one way to refuse and living is omitted, it will make our life path invisible and we will not know the wonderfulness of the night.
The rural thinking is popular, gathering four points. One, drinking and bragging, going to wait and ask, rushing children to work hard, not asking why they don’t teach experience, and expressing their worries, but they can’t tell how to enter high-level thinking, two, like to show off, like to show off, don’t know that the heart is high and life is low, don’t know that the wind is late and snow is fast, misses time, and miss more opportunities, three, feel that you are not satisfied, and you will say it, and you will complain when you feel that you suffer, and say something behind your back, jealous things, improper words, disgusting friends, and criticize them, and four, look down on people who are stronger than you, avoid the poor, and refuse every painting and communication around you. If you see, you cannot express your experience, and if you know, you cannot influence the people around you.
A good wife is not bought by money, and a good friend cannot be determined by a glass of wine. The beginning of a good story may not be satisfactory. You should know that if you don’t read thoroughly enough, you will lose not only the accumulated experience of survival for many years, but also the hard work of parents’ education. For a person who only knows how to accept, you will not know the value of giving, and for a person who only knows how to ask for, you will not know the special nature of respect and nobility. Too many links are caused by not using other people’s thinking, nor will you use your own knowledge to improve your cultivation.
Loss of money is the biggest disadvantage. It will attract a lot of people because of a word or because of offense. A lot of nonsense is unwilling to spend money, and it will also attract others' complaints and ignore others. On the same front, if you don't have money, sometimes friends are afraid of you and relatives are worried about you. For this society, there are many people who need money, but few people who can make money. In this society where the strong prey on the weak, some people learn to give up dignity, and some learn to give up their education for their children.
There are many urban experts, including peak eloquence, top talents, and senior executives. In this social turbulent era, more employees still cannot get satisfactory wages. It is not that they have low wages or overtime work, but that they can take advantage of the troubled waters of a factory. In fact, there are a lot of people. In a moment, some people can take advantage of loopholes. We can deny a lot. We have to admit that some people’s extraordinary features are finding out other people’s weaknesses, and some people spend interpersonal relationships.
Sometimes our appearance becomes the witch in other people's lives. Our birth seems to be no less than the newly born Tang Monk. Our teenagers may not be no less than the ugliness of Zhu Bajie. Perhaps our expressions do not have Sha Wujing's calmness, nor can we learn skills like Sun Wukong, and to create a story. Perhaps the fate of many people is like Yan Ruyu in Dream of Red Mansions. We have achieved the Taoyuan feud like the Three Kingdoms, but it is difficult for a lifetime and it is difficult to give the loyalty like the Water Margin. After all, we do not have the warmth of tea in eloquence, and there is no cold rejection in action.
When you close your eyes and fall asleep, everyone is blind. When you open your eyes to avoid the crowds and voices of the whole world reading. You are like a deaf person, who is reluctant to speak, or you are still worried about saying the wrong thing, or you dare not admit it if you do something wrong, and you will become dumb by others. In this turbulent world, when you are blind, I will become deaf person. You will never know when I will become dumb. So, don’t believe it, and don’t worry, you must know how to change the speed of updates and angles of change.
If you treat others as blind, others may ignore you early on. You treat others as poor, but can you fight like poor people? Can you squander like rich people? You can't do it, either, because when we are extravagant, someone has already divided us into boundaries. Experiments have proved that poor people can use their own struggle to get what others have forever, and rich people use their family's efforts to exchange what they want. Those who are snobbish, talk about things and make up right and wrong, dare to say that they dare not do themselves, and feel that they dare not think, may only be able to chat, not work hard, only picky, and not understand warmth.
The last way to reject others is to let others express their rejection. It is better to blame yourself for your struggle for the breadth and reading of life. Time gives you whether to survive or live better. Choose yourself. Is the way to treat others well or to express yourself? Maybe because of gaps, disagreements, different interpersonal relationships, and uncoordinated communication, you will go further and further. Don’t think that your requirements are not high. After all, there are few people who are willing to curry favor with you and you have few people to ask for. You must know how to change your views and adapt to the social environment.
The sentence I shouted now, "Hello Teacher", so that the classmates who accompany you can't stand together. Every dawn I read now may not find the textbook for school again. The homework assigned by the teacher yesterday may not be found by the father now. The father is working very hard, and the child may not know how to treat others well. One present, two people's future. The father cannot give the child a future, and the child may not be honored for the father. The world is a serial word. If you fall into that pit, that pit will have to be responsible for you for the rest of your life. If you walk into that person, you may not have to give too much, too much for that person.
You don't go out, but you have to calculate the serial people and chains outside. If you don't go home, you have to understand the time of your parents' sweat and tears. If you don't study, you have to know that when others need it, your avoidance is to keep others away from you. You are you, not you. You live for yourself and act for others. Maybe your reward is very low, but your life is very deep. People who see through will learn your skills. People who can't see through will damage your name. You live for others, and others live to remind you.
If you have advantages, you can choose. If you have disadvantages, you can only be chosen. Giving up is not proportional to gain, and claiming and gain are relative. It is different for us to live better with money or to make everyone happy because they have no money. Repeating routines to give a person who thinks fast enough will become a failure. If you want to win a place in language, you must have enough thinking speed, enough calculation methods, calculate what you can calculate, and ask yourself to achieve better results when you speak.
Connections will make you prepare money, background, wealth, time, life, and the value of your exports. If you lose it, the gaps in your connections may be broken at any time. What money is given to you, what you cannot give to your family, or what you pay cannot be exchanged for the suffering you suffered by your parents. For us, sometimes pursuit, greed, and desire will become doors to block the improvement of our own value. No preparation can easily fail, no words can easily make people annoyed, and no routine habits will make more people talk nonsense, because they are not available.
The sky is high, so that there are not many words when there are broad words, there are not many thoughts when there are broad thinking, there are not many expressions when there are high strategies, and there are not many rejections when there are fast speed. The ground is wide, so that children can temper their minds less, and there are fewer times when they are tempered, and there are fewer times when they are trained to read, and there are fewer times when they grow and cultivate, and there are fewer times when they cannot establish directions, and there are fewer ways to change their lives. There are many people, and uneven divisions will be caused by planning, and there will be no relationship between families. If there are links, it will easily cause gossip, combinations will not be matched, because of money, thoughts, methods of looking at people, and ways of expressing them will go further and further.
Chapter completed!