Seeing that Duke Ding looked upright, Mrs. Guan and Guan Shuyan also knew that they should be talking about serious matters, and both of them became serious and listened carefully.

Duke Ding also said Song Zhiyuan's words pickyly, and finally looked at Guan Shuyan and said, "Liu Niang, Huai Yan is the eldest son. If you marry, you will be the eldest daughter-in-law. The responsibility on your shoulders is heavy. Do you understand what your Uncle Song said really means?"

Guan Shuyan didn't rush to reply, but just thought a little, saying, "Is it because she let her daughter pass by the family?"

Ding Guogong said, "You are still young and your future mother-in-law is just the same. You won't be able to keep the family, but you have to focus on cultivating you. After you pass the door, you naturally have to learn the gifts from the elders. In fact, your mother has already taught you these things. You are not afraid that you will not be able to take over for your father. After all, your mother will carefully choose your room."

Mrs. Guan nodded: "That's right, the first-time bride is not a housekeeper, unless the mother-in-law is unable to use her strength. But the situation in the Song family is not. Your mother-in-law is healthy, so you don't have to take the gift from the middle class."

"What does dad mean?"

"Dad wants to tell you that you can think through your identity. The eldest daughter-in-law of the Song family is not an ordinary eldest daughter-in-law. I think your future father-in-law has great ambitions. As long as he is upright and trusts the emperor, even the next emperor believes that this position can be held for at least a few decades and gain a veteran of two dynasties... So the wealth of the Song family is still behind."

Duke Ding took off the sandalwood rosary of his wrist and said, "The Song family started a clan and established a clan. This clan wife must have a responsibility and a pattern. What she sees, thinks, and thinks are not only three parts of the back house in the clan, but also includes the court bureau. So she must be clear and able to shoulder the great task, otherwise how can she take on this important task?"

Guan Shuyan's expression was straight.

"A woman's vision, by her identity, is limited after all. It is not as good as a man who can travel around. What he sees is great and the pattern is naturally great. But even so, you have been designated as the eldest and granddaughter-in-law of the Song family, and for your future and your children's future, you must understand everything you should learn and understand. If you encounter problems like this, you will not only hide in the back house like ordinary women and cry and cannot take on the big task."

Guan Shuyan pursed her lips and stood up and gave a blessing: "Please give me advice from my father."

"In the conference hall, you have to take two or three hours to come and pretend to be a servant. As your father listens to the matter, you don't have to express your opinions. Just listen and think about it. After you go back, you will remember it and chew it through repeatedly. How much income can you get depends on your own brain and scheming. Do you dare to wish it? If you don't want it, you won't force you to do your ability to manage the affairs of the Song family, and it is enough to deal with the common affairs of the Song family."

Guan Shuyan said proudly: "Dad can let me listen, why don't my daughter dare? This is just like learning skills. How much I learn is the confidence of my daughter. I don't need it, and I can teach my children and pass on their descendants in the future."

The vision and pattern cannot be learned by playing embroidery and jewelry. You must learn to look at the situation and understand the pros and cons of it. If you learn these things, you will only learn to be your own and no one can take them away.

Duke Ding smiled in his eyes: "Okay."

Mrs. Guan also had a smile on her eyes and gently patted her daughter's shoulder: "In this way, you have to learn more, but don't be afraid of hardship. Since the Song family has made up their minds, the auspicious day they choose should not be too far away, and your time will be more compact."
Chapter completed!