Chapter 498 I am only eighteen years old!(1/4)
Thunderbolt 37, white shirt, steel strap watch, black pants, black leather shoes, tall and good-looking, not much shorter than Li Xuewu.
He Yuyu's partner Dai Xiangyang stood opposite Li Xuewu and awkwardly stretched out his hand to say hello, while Shazhu introduced him.
It’s so big! It’s a matching shirt!
It’s not scary to wear matching clothes, whoever is ugly will be embarrassed.
Li Xuewu has scars on his face. You might say he is ugly, but people who see him are either afraid or think he is tough. No one calls him ugly.
Because he only has a scar on the side of his face, but the other side of his face is so handsome that he can charm a large group of girls and wives.
The popularity of administrative suits at this time is far greater than that of later generations, because the soil is now richer.
The same clothes and the same height can express very different temperaments.
Li Xuewu stood there without anger or authority, with a calm and gentle expression, which made people feel like they were taking a breath of spring breeze, and they dared not ignore his majesty. This was called momentum.
Looking at Dai Xiangyang again, even though he tried very hard to straighten his body, he was dwarfed by comparison.
How big is the difference between deputy section level and deputy division level?
I don’t know, but if we use normal progress time, it might take ten years.
What's more, Li Xuewu is an unconventional deputy, responsible for all-round work for a long time, and holds the barrel of a gun. He also has a faint murderous aura about him.
This is not Li Xuewu's intention to intimidate the other party. People who are familiar with him are used to this, and people who are not familiar with him rarely come into contact with him.
The rain had already gone to the inner courtyard, leaving Dai Xiangyang standing at the door was really embarrassing.
Fortunately, Shazhu's warm greeting resolved the tense atmosphere.
Since Dai Xiangyang was dating He Yuyu and came to visit, he naturally had to take the initiative to say hello to the neighbors in the same courtyard, otherwise he would be punished.
Look what happened to someone’s new uncle. He couldn’t even say a word when we met him. He was like a mute——!
Judging from the way Dai Xiangyang is dressed, he must come from a wealthy family. I heard he is also the deputy chief of the technical department, and he has a bookish air about him.
With his talents and abilities, he certainly won't let the neighbors here gossip and point fingers.
This is not the first time he has come to the compound, but he needs to light cigarettes and say hello.
"This is also a person from our compound. He lives in the backyard of our home." Silly Zhu introduced: "This is also the leader of our factory and my top brother."
He is just a cook, and he usually interacts with big leaders a lot, but when it comes to talking about it, he doesn't have any comparable rank.
The deputy section chief of the girl's blind date, in his opinion, this is the best marriage, especially since the other party's family conditions are very suitable and they belong to a cadre family.
Although the girl is now at the deputy department level, when it comes to family conditions, he always feels that she is a step below.
Well, I finally seized the opportunity and used the opportunity to introduce Li Xuewu to try to win back the situation, saying that I and the factory leaders were brothers.
"Hello, Director Li, you smoke."
Dai Xiangyang was very polite, without the hypocrisy of flattery, nor the surprise of being swayed by others. He offered a cigarette just like he did when he saw other neighbors.
Li Xuewu smiled and waved his hand and said: "I quit smoking, thank you."
He looked at the other person and nodded and said: "A few days ago, I heard the second uncle in the backyard mention you and said that Yu Yu had found a very good and beautiful partner."
"The deputy section chief of the technical section of the textile factory, his father is from the district." Silly Zhu introduced with a smile: "I asked my connections to look for him outside, but I didn't expect to find the rainwater unit."
"This is fate! Haha——"
Li Xuewu smiled and said: "Rain is stronger than me, and you should be older than me. If we see you more often in the future, let's call you Xuewu or Comrade."
"good--"
When Dai Xiangyang first met Li Xuewu, his impression was very scary, but when he saw that his temperament was not evil, he was full of curiosity about Yu Yu's attitude.
At this moment, after being introduced by my uncle, I found out that he was the factory leader of the Red Star Factory. He would never call Xuewu or Comrade, but he just agreed now.
He smiled and explained to several people: "I went to do some errands, and it happened to rain, so we came back together. I said hello to her and went back."
"Go and talk more, don't be in a hurry."
Silly Zhu smiled and let him go, as if he was afraid that the girl would not be able to marry, and he was very eager.
Li Xuewu and the first man looked funny, but they both knew what Silly Zhu was like, so they didn't say much.
Dai Xiangyang seemed to understand the temperament of his uncle, so he nodded with a smile and went to the backyard.
Silly Zhu watched him pass through the third gate, then shook his head helplessly, looked at Li Xuewu and asked: "How is it? Let me take a look with your Dharma eyes. How is this guy doing?"
"You're so elegant, you want to sing!"
Li Xuewu laughed and cursed, then nodded seriously and said: "Looking quite decent, he must have a good family background, good upbringing, and a good personality."
Silly Zhu gave him a thumbs up gesture, nodded in admiration and said, "It is said that your leaders are born with a pair of clairvoyant eyes, which can penetrate people's hearts."
He introduced Li Xuewu: "Two years older than Yu Yu, he joined the factory as a technician after graduating from college."
"His father works in the district industrial bureau, and his mother works in the labor bureau. There are three sisters in the family, and no other brothers, except for one..."
Silly Zhu had never said this in front of others, but he did not hide it in front of the first master and Li Xuewu, because he was also vague in his heart.
Li Xuewu heard that there was another meaning in his words, raised his head slightly and said: "Your own sister, you have to look after your brother-in-law, don't listen to others."
This made it very clear. What he just said were just polite words, don't take them seriously.
If you don't live a happy life after Yu Yu, don't blame me for being ignorant.
The last thing Li Xuewu wanted to do was to be tainted with karma. Although he was not a spiritual practitioner, he did not want to cause unwarranted criticism.
Silly Zhu understood what he said and sighed: "Yu Yuyu and I have been dependent on each other since we were young. Who else can we talk to in this courtyard?"
He looked at Li Xuewu and said frankly: "This generation of Xiangyang also makes me hesitate, that is, he was married and is now divorced."
"Yu Yu is twenty-three and he is twenty-five. Divorced at twenty-five?"
Li Xuewu frowned slightly, looked at the same old man, and said, "Have you ever heard of the reason?"
It's not that he makes a fuss, or that he looks down on divorced people, it's just that divorce is too rare in this period.
Marriage between husband and wife must be reviewed and approved by the organization. Divorce is more difficult than marriage!
In later generations, there will be a cooling-off period for divorce, and if there are custody disputes, the divorce will not be allowed. This time is different.
If you want to divorce, people from the women's working group in the factory must come to the house to do work, whether it's educating men or women, trying to persuade them to make peace as much as possible and not divorce.
You said it’s over when the factory is gone?
No, I have to go to the factory and go to the street again. It takes another round of education and persuasion, so I can’t leave.
After the street was gone, the neighbors came and tried to persuade and make peace, but they still couldn't leave.
If you really take that step and the couple gets divorced, well, just wait for the three parties to look down upon you.
The work unit blames you for ruining the reputation of the factory, and the street also blames you for ruining the atmosphere of the street. The most important thing is that you bow your head and don't see your neighbors when you look up.
People will say that you have ruined the reputation of this courtyard and delayed the marriage of their children.
On a more serious note, if a divorced person wants to find a partner, unless their family conditions and personal conditions are particularly good, they can only find someone of the same type.
This also requires that the reasons for divorce are appropriate, such as inconsistent ideals, inconsistent pursuits, or the fault of the other party, which is common at this time.
If he has a bad record and waits to become a bachelor, no one will be interested in him.
This is the key point that Li Xuewu asked. The other party has a good family and background, a good job, and a good personality. Why did they divorce?
As long as the reason is acceptable, it can actually be considered a good marriage. After all, people will be loved over time.
Since people dare to date older girls, they must be confident and not afraid of the consequences.
Of course, things have to be viewed from both sides, and rain itself has some constraints of this era.
It doesn't sound good to talk about being an outcast at any time, and it is inevitable that you will feel uncomfortable in your heart.
In particular, one of the subjects in Yu Yu died unexpectedly while on business in another place, which is even more taboo.
Looking at various conditions, this generation of Xiangyang has some problems after all, otherwise why would Silly Zhu be so vague?
"I also asked someone to ask, and I didn't listen to the matchmaker's nonsense. I have entrusted a proper person."
Silly Zhu scratched his head and said: "It was said that after three years of marriage, the woman's stomach didn't move, and there was something wrong with her during the examination. She couldn't stand the pressure, so she got divorced."
After he said this, the elder's brows jumped, but he didn't have any dissatisfaction. He knew that Si Zhu didn't do it on purpose, let alone had bad intentions.
But at this time, he couldn't speak. Auntie also discovered a problem when she was young, so he stayed with her all his life.
What kind of person can't be married with his income?
How would he evaluate Dai Xiangyang from this standpoint? Not good, not bad.
It is difficult for an upright official to settle family affairs. After all, it is related to the continuation of the bloodline and the reproduction of descendants. What if they break up peacefully?
So his eyes fell on Li Xuewu, waiting for him to speak.
Li Xuewu doesn't want to say anything, what should he say?
Yu Yu even led her back to the compound, which showed her attitude. If she said too much, she would be an evil person, which is not good.
Besides, he is the happiest person when Yu Yu can find a partner. This girl going crazy in his office really shocked him.
He is a serious person, how could he do such a thing, so it is a good thing for the other party to find someone to marry.
To be continued...