"Didn't you say you haven't had any business trips recently?"

I heard that my son was going on a business trip, but he didn't come back last night. He said he had work. Liu Yin frowned and asked, "Where are you going?"

"Fengcheng, Northeast."

Li Xuewu smiled and took his son from his mother's arms and kissed him, making Li Ning giggle.

Although the little guy spends little time with him, he is different from Gu Ning and his mother Liu Yin. No matter how you cry, you can stop immediately when you see him, and if you tease him, you can laugh out loud.

Come, it's rare to find someone.

Especially the study. No matter how nice the master bedroom is, he still likes the objects in the study.

Holding him and sitting on the chair, the eyes are not enough, look at this, enough and that.

Li Xuewu was surprised that the child was so ugly that even Liu Yin felt like laughing when she saw it.

Kissing feet and butts is not as disgusting as when I was a kid and saw other people's children wearing diapers.

He was surprised that Li Ning Ke had seen Li Shun once, and he had caught him and trained him for a long time.

There is only one core idea, as stated in "The Book of Rites: Quli", to embrace grandchildren but not sons.

You cannot spoil your children, let alone teach them not to learn well. You must set an example for your children.

Li Xuewu also listened carefully, but he didn't feel that he had done anything wrong.

If a child is so young, if he is not allowed to be rare, he will run away when he grows up, and no matter how much he wants to be rare, he will not be able to be rare.

You say he is still young and has plenty of time, but this kid is very capable and will go to college, get married, have children, and start his own business in the blink of an eye.

Just like himself, he never remembered being close to his father since he was a child, and he always felt a little regretful. He had his own educational ideas for the next generation and did not want to follow the same old routine.

Why don't you go to the house and uncover the tiles for three days?

What kind of stick produces a dutiful son?

There are three children in Liu Haizhong's family. When it comes to parenting with sticks, there is no father in the whole compound who is more ruthless than Liu Haizhong. But does his family have a filial son?

His father, Li Shun, had beaten him when he was young, and he also beat him very hard when he was fifteen or sixteen years old, but he didn't see what he was capable of.

If he hadn't had the opportunity to study for a few more years and go to the south to serve as a soldier through his family's third uncle's connections, would he still be a talented person with his personality?

Therefore, children's education does not lie in spanking, but in why spanking is needed, what effects are to be achieved after spanking, and whether there are other ways to avoid spanking.

Look at Li Shu again... Do you think a child like this can survive without beating?

"Who broke this flower?"

Li Xuewu looked helplessly at the "bent" tulips in the flowerpot, which Gu Ning brought back from the hospital and was specially given to her by the patient as a thank-you gift.

What's the result?

Li Shu's little hands are really fast. She pinched and broke it just a few days after she got it back. The flower had bloomed just in time, so now she cut it in half.

Li Shu stood there with her little hands behind her back, her big eyes blinking and she didn't know what she was thinking.

Li Xuewu was not angry, he just wanted to put on a serious face and teach his children not to spoil or waste things.

"I...I just, I just want to take a look." Li Shu pointed to the flowerpot uneasily and said, "I didn't even get up, so I just touched it with my hand, and it just looked like this."

"Well, you just touched it and it was like this?" Li Xuewu sighed and asked patiently: "Then how did you touch it?"

"Just, just touch it like this."

Li Shu stretched out her little hand and touched his arm carefully, then quickly took it back, as if she was afraid of getting stuck.

Qin Jingru came out of the bathroom and saw Li Shu being scolded. She raised her eyebrows and said with a smile, "I said I wouldn't let you touch her. You must have heard about it. You're fine now. Are you being scolded?"

"I don't--!"

Li Shu stood there, clasping her little hands together and pouting helplessly, shouting with a cry: "I really want to touch it, but I don't want to break it."

"What's wrong with this?"

It happened that Gu Ning also got off work at this time, and came in from the door with a bag on her back. Hearing Li Shu's cry, she thought Li Xuewu was teasing the child.

When Li Shu saw her mother coming back, she felt even more frightened. She leaned against the corner and pursed her lips, tears streaming down her face, but she didn't dare to cry.

"The pot of flowers you brought back was broken while playing with it in the afternoon."

Qin Jingru explained helplessly: "Her dad just asked a few questions, so why don't you cry?"

"Why are you crying?"

Gu Ning changed her shoes from the door, put away her backpack, walked over and looked at Li Shu, who was facing the wall thinking about her fault, secretly wiping her tears and asked: "Did you break it?"

"Um--"

Li Shu covered her face with her little hands. When her mother asked, she actually told the truth.

Gu Ning hugged her from behind, squatted in front of the flowerpot and wiped her tears.

"Okay, you are a good boy when you admit your mistakes. Mom won't blame me anymore." She pulled away her daughter's little hand with her hand and looked at her scared expression and said, "Did Dad tell you?"

Li Shu held her mouth shut, shook her head, and replied in a hoarse voice: "No -"

"Then why are you crying? Are you scared?"

Gu Ning wiped her daughter's fresh tears with her handkerchief and said, "You still regret it, blame yourself, and know that you did something wrong?"

"Yeah - got it."

Li Shu cried and said, "I won't dare to do it next time."

"Mom, let me tell you, this flower is just like you. It also has a mother. It is as beautiful, beautiful and lovable as you."

Gu Ning coaxed her and taught her: "If someone hurts you like this as much as you like it, do you think my mother will be sad?"

"meeting--"

Li Shu understood her mother's words and looked at the broken flowers, feeling regretful in her heart.

"Every mother will be sad, so Huahua's mother is also very sad." Gu Ning hugged her and pointed at the flower pot and said: "You like it, you can't hurt it to achieve the purpose of liking it, you have to love it, just like mother

I love you as much as I do."

"Um--"

Li Shu nodded, pursed her lips and hugged Gu Ning's neck and said, "Mom, I was wrong."

"Then make an agreement with your mother. You can't hurt Huahua again in the future. Otherwise, Huahua's mother will be sad, and her mother will also be sad because her child did something bad. Do you understand?"

Gu Ning hugged her and stood up, saying: "Mom will take you to wash your face first. When you come back, mom will work with you to cultivate Huahua again, okay?"

"Hmm - okay -"

Li Shu's long eyelashes were still covered with tears, and she was sobbing on Gu Ning's shoulder.

Li Xuewu, on the other hand, was holding his arms and didn't understand anything. Li Ning, who was watching the excitement from the side, stood up, motioned to the mother and daughter who were going to the bathroom and said, "See, if you get into trouble when you grow up, you will be beaten!"

He lightly slapped his son's bare butt twice and said, "Now I'm giving you a heads up."

Li Ning blinked his big eyes and looked at his amused grandma and aunt in confusion. He didn't know what he was supporting and got slapped twice.

Seeing his grandma smiling, he also laughed.

"Who was beaten? You still laughed."

Liu Yin teased his little hand and asked with a smile: "Did you get beaten? Did you get beaten by dad?"

Li Ning twisted her body and lay on her father's shoulder. At this moment, the little sister washed her face and followed her mother obediently out again.

Gu Ning found a small shovel for cleaning flowers, used scissors to remove the broken stems, pointed to the white ball in the flowerpot to Li Shu and said: "This is Huahua's mother, she gave birth to a girl as beautiful and lovely as Li Shu."

The flowers are beautiful."

"Huahua..." Li Shu looked at the flowers in her hand, then at Huahua's mother in the flowerpot, pursed her lips and was about to cry again: "Huahua left her mother, Huahua's mother is sorry——"

When Li Shu thought about what she would do if she left her mother, she couldn't help crying again.

Gu Ning let her cry. After gathering the flower roots again, he found a can and filled some water with it, and motioned to Li Shu to put the flowers in her hand.

"Without mother's care, the flowers will wither." She taught Li Shu: "Next time you want to do something, you must think clearly about it. You can't regret it before crying."

"Well - I know -"

With a cry in her voice, Li Shu carefully placed the flowers in the can.

Gu Ning placed it next to the flowerpot and told Li Shu to come and see it more often.

It is not to punish children, nor to make children feel guilty, but to educate children to revere and respect life.

If you like something, you don’t have to keep it as your own. Sometimes, there is a price for liking something.

…

On Sunday morning, just after dawn, Li Shu climbed out of bed. Before washing her face, she clumsily held on to the railing and went down the stairs.

With her little feet bare and wearing orchid pajamas, she ran to the tulip pot with nervousness and anticipation in her eyes, first looked at Huahua, and then at Huahua's mother.

Last night, her mother told her that Huahua's mother would have a new Huahua, but the new Huahua would no longer be the current Huahua.

Because of her mistakes and selfish preferences, Huahua may only have a few days to live, although she is still blooming brilliantly.
To be continued...