Chapter 151 Breaking up(1/4)
Ding Fengxia felt a little powerless when she thought about the distance between Beijing and Yangcheng.
She came to Yangcheng by plane, but Gu Haitao did not allow Gu Yan to take the plane, so she could only take the train.
The reason is simple. Gu Haitao feels that only Ding Fengxia can enjoy the family treatment that matches his position.
The children are no longer children. They each have their own identities and positions, and they can no longer take advantage of the public family.
Therefore, if Gu Yan wanted to see his father and mother, he could only take a train and forget about air tickets.
Unless he can fly his own plane like Gu An and go wherever he wants.
Mu Hongyan also took a plane when he left the capital, but that was the treatment given to Gu An's family members.
Fortunately, it only takes three days from Yangcheng to the capital at this time. It's a good thing that Gu Haitao didn't let Gu Yan come by bicycle.
Of course, this is just the father's strict requirements for his children, and he doesn't really think there is any difference between riding a bicycle, taking a train and flying.
The key point is the remuneration issue. Gu Haitao would be happy if Gu Yan could use his own ability to come to Gu Haitao on a rocket.
The girls are all fine. Gu Ning is the only daughter in the Gu family, so she is pampered a little bit.
Especially Gu Haitao, whose love for Gu Ning is not visible on the surface, but in action, Gu Ning does not suffer at all.
When Gu Yan was a child, he never enjoyed the treatment of a security guard. He had no excuse for being cornered.
Look at Gu Ning again, both of you!
It's really a drought that dies from drought and a flood that dies from it. The same father has a different destiny.
Gu Haitao never hit or scolded his two sons at every turn. He just said, "This is wrong," and Gu An and Gu Yan would never do it again.
He doesn't talk much at ordinary times. When he's at home, he's mostly in the study room. The children respect him more than they fear him.
Gu Ning's character is the same as Gu Haitao's. If you don't take the initiative to speak, then I won't speak either. If father and daughter don't take the initiative to speak, they won't have to speak for a year.
Therefore, Gu Haitao, who doesn't talk much to his two sons, talks more when he is with his daughter.
After understanding his daughter's thoughts, he fully respected her opinions whether it was about taking college entrance exams or finding a partner.
Although Gu Ning once had someone he liked, that kind of love was worthless in his eyes.
After Ding Fengxia told his daughter, he only asked her about her requirements for a partner, and then set four principles for finding a partner for her.
When these four principles came out, Gu Ning did not object, but everyone who heard about them was surprised for a while.
Everyone in the hospital knows what kind of character the daughter of the Gu family is, and everyone in the circle outside the hospital also knows.
That's why we have Gu Ning who has never had a partner, a Gu Ning who dares to go to the battlefield, and a Gu Ning who is extremely cold.
His daughter became more and more calm, which made Gu Haitao satisfied but also worried about his daughter's future.
It is easy for a family like his to find a partner for their daughter, but it is not easy to find a good partner.
After several twists and turns, Gu Ning was tired, Gu Haitao was tired, and only Ding Fengxia was worried and anxious.
Then Dong Wenxue recommended Li Xuewu. He did the same thing and there were other people, all close relatives entrusted by Ding Fengxia, to help choose a suitable young man.
Fate can play tricks on people. Li Xuewu once served in the army in the Yangcheng area and was considered to be Gu Haitao's soldier.
Later, Li Xuewu signed up to go to the front line with the team and met Gu Ning again.
After going round and round, the two of them returned to the capital with sparks hitting the earth again, as if they couldn't survive without being together.
Ding Fengxia often said that her uncle was a good uncle and she had chosen him, but in fact she also knew that it was better to say that her daughter had chosen her uncle.
Without his determination when choosing photos that day, I'm afraid there would have been no meeting between the two of them at Gu's house, let alone what happened next.
At first, Ding Fengxia didn't know that the scars on Li Xuewu's face were related to her daughter. When she saw that her daughter had chosen an "ugly son-in-law," she was angry with her daughter for a while.
Unexpectedly, Gu Haitao insisted that she would see whomever her daughter chose, but she had no choice.
This was the first lesson her uncle taught her. In the following days, the Gu family became more and more convinced of the choice of this uncle.
It wasn't until she got married, and now that her daughter is living happily and has a small family, that Ding Fengxia can finally let go of her worries.
Gu Haitao never said that he missed his daughter, but in the study room of his residence in Yangcheng, the photo frame on the desk, apart from the family photo, only had a single photo of his daughter.
A few days ago, there was a letter from the capital. Ding Fengxia showed Gu Haitao the letter from her daughter and son-in-law.
Gu Haitao looked at it in silence for a long time, fearing that if he read it word by word, his longing for his daughter would be melted into the iron-blooded tenderness.
Gu Haitao solemnly asked his secretary to frame the "painting" attached to the letter and put it on his desk.
The secretary didn’t know which abstract painter’s masterpiece this was. If it was to be considered valuable, it should be framed, but the frame had to be rice paper or serious oil painting paper. Ordinary white paper crayons were nothing.
He had thought about the child's scribblings, but looking at the leader's solemn look, he didn't dare to think about it.
So the crayon drawing on Gu Haitao's desk became a fascination for the office secretary.
What is precious to Gu Haitao is not his paintings, but his thoughts, the harmonious and loving life of his daughter and his family of three.
When I saw the painting, I also saw the happy scene of a daughter coaxing her children and staying with her lover.
Li Xuewu's uncle, Gu Haitao, never praised him, nor did he ask Li Xuewu to have a drink and talk freely.
Handing Gu Ning to Li Xuewu was Gu Haitao's greatest compliment and recognition to Li Xuewu, his uncle.
Ding Fengxia also told Li Xuewu more than once that if you have any difficulties in life or work, just mention it to her directly and don't talk about it.
The fact that she could say this means that Gu Haitao agrees. His son cannot borrow his light, but his uncle can.
Unfortunately, my son had no idea of borrowing money, and neither did my uncle.
Li Xuewu only made one call for help to his mother-in-law, that is, he wanted to get to know the leader of the training director department.
What kind of request is this? If I didn't think it would be a good idea to find connections in the army without asking her, I might not even call her.
Gu Haitao has a stubborn temper, just like his two sons, they follow their roots.
The two sons in the work unit will never rely on their father's name to do anything, and they will not even join the army within Gu Haitao's influence.
My daughter is not stubborn, but cold. She has found a brother-in-law who is not cold. He looks easy-going and steady, but in fact he is still very stubborn.
When you find a good husband at a young age, why don't you fawn over him every day and think about being a ladder messenger so you can make progress quickly?
But her father-in-law, her father-in-law, took the initiative to relent, making the couple feel happy and proud.
Why can Gu Haitao represent the capital and take charge of Yangcheng?
Know it at a glance.
Why does Ding Fengxia dare to admit her uncle's excellence in the workplace?
Selfless at heart.
Both of them are outstanding talents who have received higher education, and they have a tacit understanding of being serious and serious about their children's education.
Love is real and will not be highlighted by beating or scolding, let alone spoiled by doting.
There is talk about raising children in poverty and raising girls in rich families. This does not hold true in the Gu family. All children enjoy the same material conditions. There is no situation where Gu Ning has more, Gu An and Gu Yan have less.
The difference lies in education. The goal set for the two sons is to defend the family and the country and to devote themselves to revolution, while the goal set for the daughter is to be dedicated, upright and brave.
Three children, all educational goals achieved.
All three children are in the army. One of the two sons is on the front line and the other is in a military school. My daughter has been to the front line and has achieved her educational goals of dedication and bravery.
A son raised in poverty has no vision and ideals, and a daughter raised in wealth has no bottom line and conscience. The Gu family will not waste their children to experiment with such nonsense.
Although the Li family is not a high-ranking family like the Gu family, they have something in common in terms of raising children.
Li Xue was not raised rich, and Li Xuewen and his three brothers were not raised poor. They were really poor, and there was nothing they could do about it, but there was no difference between children.
The educational executors of both families are actually mothers, Ding Fengxia and Liu Yin. They have the same expectations for their children. Children carry the future of the family and shoulder the hopes of several generations.
Therefore, they all hope that Li Xuewu and Gu Ning's child will be a boy.
This is not to say that he dislikes or alienates Li Shu, but the continuation of the family bloodline does not represent a different love for his children.
Gu Haitao would never hold a child, but when Li Shu went to his house, he wanted to hold her and treat her with care.
His eldest grandson's masterpieces are still on his desk, and he often reads them.
Not to mention the Li family, Li Shu is the first child of the Li family, and Li Shun even secretly recorded Li Shu's name on the family tree. Who wouldn't admit it?
Just look at how naughty Li Shu is now, who is responsible?
I'm afraid Li Shun is half responsible!
It’s natural for children to throw things, but shouldn’t we control them?
Why did Li Shu stop throwing things after coming to live here?
Li Shun wasn't used to being so naughty back then.
You dare to throw Grandpa’s medicine bottle!
There's nothing else she wouldn't dare to do!
How dare you be cruel!
I'll cry for you!
The kind that can’t be coaxed by two pill bottles!
To be continued...